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Postby eman » Sat Aug 19, 2006 5:00 am

i agree with my firend Shamooh
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Postby Admiral » Sat Aug 19, 2006 1:32 pm

I think it's a prove that you are a sensible human with law and order if you wait a little before doing it.
And however I think it's not worth giving one your precious body before you are sure about the love 100%.

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Postby Danyet » Sat Aug 19, 2006 5:22 pm

This whole thread is a joke! All of you here act as though women are doing the men a favour if they have sex with them. What a disgusting thought!
It is no wonder that the whole world is so messed up when the most rudimentary and basic human intinct has been converted into a "favour" that a woman either "donates" OR buy things with.
This would never have happened if men acted like men instead of whining little girly-men who jump when at a woman's mere whim in the hopes that someday she will have sex with him!

Poor creatures, if only they could be like me!

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Postby MissLT » Sat Aug 19, 2006 8:00 pm

Shamooh wrote:I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

I find it sad somehow.

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Postby Elba » Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:01 pm

Virginity? What is that?
I know many girls that want to be virgin untill married, but they want to have a sex experience, then they decide to have sex in another ways. I mean oral sex, sodomi, etc. My question is:
ARE THEY REALY VIRGIN?

Why those girls want to be virgin untill married if their brain is as perverted as the evil.

Is better to have sex with the woman/men you like, with out any moral or religion chain, is better to know your future wife/housband. Imagine if you get married and after that you discover your wife/housband like to do sexual things you don´t like? Is better before than after.

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Postby Admiral » Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:59 pm

Elba wrote:Virginity? What is that?
I know many girls that want to be virgin untill married, but they want to have a sex experience, then they decide to have sex in another ways. I mean oral sex, sodomi, etc. My question is:
ARE THEY REALY VIRGIN?


Yeah Elba that's an interesting thought, no doubt that you are a little older than me.

I rather thought of a different reason: If one has sex very early he mostly is very curios, if he is curios he won't wear condom, if he does'nt wear condom the girl gets a child, if she has a child he and she will end education very early, they won't get education, they ruin their life.

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Why those girls want to be virgin untill married if their brain is as perverted as the evil.
You know what makes my fiancee special to others? She doesn't have such a perverted brain.

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Postby Dixie » Sun Aug 20, 2006 9:37 am

Elba wrote:Is better to have sex with the woman/men you like, with out any moral or religion chain, is better to know your future wife/housband. Imagine if you get married and after that you discover your wife/housband like to do sexual things you don´t like? Is better before than after.


Exactly!!! What if you marry someone before having sex with them and once married it turns out you're not compatible in bed? Or that you like different things or whatever. The thought of remaining a virgin until you marry sounds so primitive to me.

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Postby shokin » Sun Aug 20, 2006 11:53 am

Virginity is only one part of a process, the beginning. :lol:

So many people dream of virginity. Too many of them drink Virgin Cola. :shock:

Purity is an utopy, a death without life.

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Postby Admiral » Sun Aug 20, 2006 2:46 pm

I was thinking, maybe that's an excuse for those who don't want to know the other before going to bed.

Why is waiting to have sex with your husband/wife an utopy?

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Postby Seafarer » Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:50 pm

Waiting husband for having sex is not utophic for me The matter is,if my husband will be virgin too,THAT will make me happier Lol

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Postby Rui » Sun Aug 20, 2006 7:22 pm

im just wondering.. and those that dont want to get marriage, are not allowed to do sex :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Postby Seafarer » Sun Aug 20, 2006 9:14 pm

haha this is a very serious question. :lol:

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Postby ahmedgamal » Mon Aug 21, 2006 3:14 am

verginity is really important to believe in your life partner ,and it's important for women more and that because: that make your husband resbect you more in addition to self-resbect .........yes you must take experience by study or learning or from your parents.and if you don't care for your dignity How can I -as a man- care about it- Imean your dignity-???.............that's my opinion :)

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Postby MissLT » Mon Aug 21, 2006 5:23 am

ahmedgamal wrote:verginity is really important to believe in your life partner ,and it's important for women more and that because: that make your husband resbect you more in addition to self-resbect .........yes you must take experience by study or learning or from your parents.and if you don't care for your dignity How can I -as a man- care about it- Imean your dignity-???.............that's my opinion :)

Double standard!!!!! :roll:

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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 21, 2006 8:42 am

ahmedgamal wrote:verginity is really important to believe in your life partner ,and it's important for women more and that because: that make your husband resbect you more in addition to self-resbect .........yes you must take experience by study or learning or from your parents.and if you don't care for your dignity How can I -as a man- care about it- Imean your dignity-???.............that's my opinion :)


Well, I understand your point and it can be true (about self respect part I mean), but as far as I know and according to my knowledge, today oriental men are using of women's virginity as a factor for controlling them. For making them obey the rules and for stabling their own positing in family as the father/god role. Virginity is not a social factor which offering people an special value, its just a personal choice (like in my own situation). And I think its kind of selfish from men to ask of women such a value while they themselves are free to act and live as the way they want, don’t you agree? :)

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Postby Admiral » Mon Aug 21, 2006 8:54 am

yeah I agree, although I'm not asked.

But however I would also feel bad if my girlfriend knew that I had had sex with others before. And I think she would also consider the point.

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Postby Dixie » Mon Aug 21, 2006 9:23 am

Admiral wrote:But however I would also feel bad if my girlfriend knew that I had had sex with others before.


And you wouldn't tell her?

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Postby ahmedgamal » Mon Aug 21, 2006 12:18 pm

And I think its kind of selfish from men to ask of women such a value while they themselves are free to act and live as the way they want, don’t you agree?

OK I didn't say that you have to keep your virginty..
but If you have the right to lose it :lol: men have the right to choose the virgin one. and if your boy friend love you to that extent why he don't marry you firest.and if you say"I must knew how he is at sex befor I marry him" you won't marry him for love but for sex that's what called fail marriage.....
and if you won't give your husband this value you talk about, why will you marry him??DON'T say for love ..about"obey rules" I don't see a relation between the two things virginty doesn't force you to any thing :o
don't you agree?? :D

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Postby ahmedgamal » Mon Aug 21, 2006 12:25 pm

LennyeTran wrote:
ahmedgamal wrote:verginity is really important to believe in your life partner ,and it's important for women more and that because: that make your husband resbect you more in addition to self-resbect .........yes you must take experience by study or learning or from your parents.and if you don't care for your dignity How can I -as a man- care about it- Imean your dignity-???.............that's my opinion :)

Double standard!!!!! :roll:

what do you really mean? :?: :? are you agree or not? my english not very very well :D

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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 21, 2006 4:30 pm

ahmedgamal wrote:OK I didn't say that you have to keep your virginty..
but If you have the right to lose it :lol: men have the right to choose the virgin one. and if your boy friend love you to that extent why he don't marry you firest.and if you say"I must knew how he is at sex befor I marry him" you won't marry him for love but for sex that's what called fail marriage.....
and if you won't give your husband this value you talk about, why will you marry him??DON'T say for love ..about"obey rules" I don't see a relation between the two things virginty doesn't force you to any thing :o
don't you agree?? :D


okie, lets take a look at what you have posted.

OK I didn't say that you have to keep your virginty..
but If you have the right to lose it :lol: men have the right to choose the virgin one.


Hmm, can I ask a question? why virginity of your woman should be so important for you? Virginity is some thing related to sex at the first place so could it be just a sign of claiming an ownership of her body? When you make love with her for the firs time you feel possessive and powerful, right? Since she belongs to you, this untouched body is some thing like your personal property that you branding it by doing sex with your name. huh, I see, then you want to keep your woman in your hand, okie, go a head and find a lame, naïve girl who does whatever you want but personally I wont let such a men with such a ideas come close to me, since I am not interested in becoming any one's sex slave.

and if your boy friend love you to that extent why he don't marry you firest


Because jumping into marriage before knowing each other is foolish and if it doesn't work, we both will regret it later …should I say more?

and if you say"I must knew how he is at sex befor I marry him" you won't marry him for love but for sex that's what called fail marriage.....


No, having a good sex relationship is part of a good marriage. If your woman can't satisfying you in bedroom you will ditch her after a while and will look for other woman who can make you HAPPY! In my opining sex is another language for communicating with opposite sex and all these taboo's about it is kind of childish to me. don’t forget we all have been born from same action so its better we respect sex and its foundations more than this, its part of the bases of every healthy live…

and if you won't give your husband this value you talk about, why will you marry him??DON'T say for love ..about"obey rules" I don't see a relation between the two things virginty doesn't force you to any thing :o
don't you agree??


Hmm, iam not sure what you are saying here but I ma trying my best to reply. I will marry to a man because I LOVE him, that’s all, what else should I want from him?

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Postby Seafarer » Mon Aug 21, 2006 6:39 pm

and if you won't give your husband this value you talk about, why will you marry him??DON'T say for love ..about"obey rules" I don't see a relation between the two things virginty doesn't force you to any thing :o
don't you agree?? :D[/quote]

huuuh,why will not my husband give me that value? i don't have to be a virgin if his only aim is just to find a virgin girl and to marry with her.


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