LennyeTran wrote:I knew you would think this way.
LennyeTran wrote:Anahita wrote:unlike some men who are choosing their partner because of the sexual elements like virginity, being hot and such,
But to me this has nothing to do with dumping one person because that person is not good in bed. In my perspective, there's no such thing as being bad in bed. I mean, there's something as don't know what to do in bed. Yeah, I agree to that because I think don't know what to do in bed has no association with being bad in bed. However, totally being bad in bed? What's that?
Its true.If you love some one really and your emotions are so powerful, your passion will be led by your instincts and then its quite possible even a naive couple turn into a sex bomb without any pervious experiments! But it only happens when both sex and love work together. When a man (or woman) limits and dedicates her/his attention and will only to one of these factors, basically he/she loses the chances for coordinating with her/his partner's other's aspects as well. I think depend on conditions and situation, being bad in bed has its own definitions and samples but the conclusion is always the same. Both woman and man feel some thing is not RIGHT, or missed and forgotten. They don't feel relaxed and satisfied after intercourse, mostly feeling puzzled or even some times frustrated. then I guess the time for them to do some thing about their realtionship before losing it for ever.
LennyeTran wrote:Anahita wrote: But unfortunatly its some thing that happens out there and many people are getting hurt because of it...
Who are those people? From where I live, people don't get dumped for being bad in bed. They get dumped for being a bitch, ~, skank, obsessive, control freak, insensitive, dumb, etc. but no being bad in bed.
Well, I am really glad to hear such a things are not happening at your side but as i said before my statements have been arranged on what i have seen at my current location, what i have read around or seen at the circle of the people that i know, the friends that have witnessed their problems and troubles by my own eyes...*sighs* its happening and its so unfair and unacceptable. that's why while i respect the freedom of choice for every one, including for the men who are looking for a virgin and finding such a girls more better for their relationships but in a same time i cant tolerate to see some one is using of a sexual element like virginity for classifying women/men into the BAD or GOOD, BITCH or ANGEL. its very primitive and really horrible point of view about the world. after all we are all humans and deserve the equal share of love, life and attention.