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not all families :-)
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Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;
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SuMoNe wrote:
Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;
:shock: U got me wrong ,
I meant by " not all families " : not all families make thier daughters get married ... they rush them just to be marry as soon as they can ! , my family they are open mind ..I can make my own decision..."SO"


maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage......and I will be happy with my decision :-D
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Najlooolah

loooooolz..Actually I did get wt u've said but I meant in "future time" wether n 25 or earlier..I dunno ur age but I think u r still young for marriage..so I hope u find the perfect one 4 u whenever u get ready for it..
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:mrgreen:
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I'm 29 years old and I'm married for three years now.

My husband and I dedided not make a big, expensive event out of the wedding.

We told our parents that we weren't at home the next week because we are going on holiday. What they didn't know was that we were on a trip to the U.S., having it's height in the wedding.
I know that money isn't important concernig a wedding but it was about 6000 Euro not 10000 or more.

At first our families were a little bit dissapointed because they wern't invited, but they finally were all happy with us. They all liked our photos and stories.

Some people say a marriage changes everything, but I think that's nonsense. Maybe it was that way in the earlier days.
Our marrige didn't change anything in our lives, except my last name.

I believe that if you really love each other a marriage can last forever.
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Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
I am not going to marry, too. When you are married, you have lots of responsibility...
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I'm not agree coz,there isn't a real friendship between girl and guy...there is a feeling between them to each other
so,I have a friend but, I don't believe that there feelings to me like my feelings to them !!!
guys are thinking in other hand which girls are doing
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sorry it was my opinion to another subject any way I agree to marry sure
coz,it's v nice relationship and you can plateau in yr life with yr partner so,I love to marry ...it means a lot to me
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yea of course
marriage is of of my nice dreams
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How would I know what I think about marriage, I've only been married for 38 years. Ask me later, when I'm through working out the kinks. But more seriously, I prefer marriage to anything else.

As to dissapointment, that just means you are human. Every lover begins by loving the ideal (what they want to see in you) first. Real love embraces the reality, with all its blemishes; give it time.
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I think that marriage is my dream.
I'm 18 years girl. And I have have no guy I want to marry.
But I want to marry someday.
Please tell me good side of marriage.
Should I marry ...?
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i believe that marriage is a wonderful experience if we do find the right partners

for me i m still looking for the right women

when i find her .............i will marry her

and i guess it has nothing to do with age but it has to do more with destiny
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I'm married. With two children. What can I say about my wife?.

Once upon a time a Goddess came down to the earth. He would be my wife. She stumbled into a little worm and that worm was transformed in myself. As I am right now: a human being. She is even a Goddess. {-;
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ArnauEstanyol wrote:I'm married. With two children. What can I say about my wife?.

Once upon a time a Goddess came down to the earth. He would be my wife. She stumbled into a little worm and that worm was transformed in myself. As I am right now: a human being. She is even a Goddess. {-;
That's so sweet! :-o
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Dixie wrote:
That's so sweet! :-o
Thanks a lot. For me, marriage is a good experience. I'm very proud of my family. Always in life there are problems, but if the family has a strong unity, the bad moments can be resolved.

By the way: year has changed but are occurring the same bad things than last year. I think only has changed the year's number and no more.
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I am quite pessimistic about marriage, nowadays. My cousin, who's almost the same age with me, divorced after a month. That evil girl had cheated with other guy, her ex-bf. I restrain myself to describe her...Simply a prostitute to me. 8-) . Excuse me.
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It's clear, all depend on self experience. In my case is good, but I know many people who have had a very bad experience. For example my sister-in-law: She's near two years ago divorced. Their marriage was a total failure. I think all depends of the characters compatibility and flexibility. In marriage sometimes all depends to give down in some situations and take up in another ones. If one of the two always think on itself and never gives up, the situation will go in tension.
Well, experience is the key to understand and specially the true love one another.
That's my opinion and my own experience.
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marriage is a circumstances when a couple can unite the different thoughts.. start new life.
this good topic when people want to plan to marry. I plan to marry this year actually. I want a simple moment of my marriage..
what's your marriage will be?
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Marriage as a religious ceremony doesn't matter for me. Somebody can choose other kind of ceremony or not and live together with someone without marriage. All it depends to the couple. What I want say is that the most important for me is the freedom to choose and live as we want to live.
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i want to some day get married but i just haven't found the right man. Am i just too picky?
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Marriege is a headache.
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This topic should be rephrased. :-) it should be, "Are you ready for marriage?" :roll:
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Krisi wrote:This topic should be rephrased. :-) it should be, "Are you ready for marriage?" :roll:
And the reason please? :mrgreen:
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"Everybody needs somebody to love" ;-) So at the end we all will be married :-)

I would like to have family and children with my darling :-)
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Lucia wrote:"Everybody needs somebody to love" ;-) So at the end we all will be married :-)

I would like to have family and children with my darling :-)
Every one is the same. :lol:
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Yes, I want to marry when it is possible to do to more than one man.
Man can do it, why women can't?
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I am almost forty and trying to marry from three years ago. But sorry to say yet to marry, most of girl want to marry a well establish man. So now I am thinking that I can't marry.
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Yes, of course I would, but I don't even have a boyfriend yet. By the way, I am available ( just in case :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: )
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I never dream to get marry!
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the human species is need to go on and so people want marriage because of the subconscious..all the thigns that are out In addition of this are a big lie of life
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symbolic wrote:the human species is need to go on and so people want marriage because of the subconscious..all the thigns that are out In addition of this are a big lie of life
you made it sound creepy... :shock:
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brenson wrote:I never dream to get marry!
Why?
Do you feel that you are unattractive? Do you have any serious problem?
in my opinion every man or woman except who is psychosis or some rare problem, can be worthy to get marriage.
Think positive and be strong.
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I am only 19, of course my answer is no. For me, people should be at least over 24 to get married. Also, people need to have their own career, finance to provide for their future need. {-;
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yeah, because marriage is a wonderful thing for people while they will have their own family and have their children. I think I would like to marry. It's not because of the expect of parents but is the pure love.
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Melek wrote: Tue Nov 06, 2007 4:31 am Im only 21, & its too early to think of marriage.for me the first is to study ,to graduate & to find a suitable job & then I can think of marriage.As they saye everything is good in its season.

I know someone had married when he was in 20 years old. I read a report that said the ideal age to get married between 20 to 28 yeas old
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Vega wrote: Wed Nov 07, 2007 11:47 am I'm not going to marry.
Could you tell me what the resons behaind that?

Many researchers reported that marriage is one is the beautiful time in the life.
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Vega wrote: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:31 pm
melek wrote:well,IMHO I dont plan to get married..its too early for me..first I ll graduate from the university,then find a job & then I can think over it :)
Hi, what does 'IMHO' mean?
I am curious to know what dese it means too?


I think is is slang
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Norah wrote: Sun Apr 08, 2018 12:58 pm
Vega wrote: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:31 pm
melek wrote:well,IMHO I dont plan to get married..its too early for me..first I ll graduate from the university,then find a job & then I can think over it :)
Hi, what does 'IMHO' mean?
I am curious to know what dese it means too?


I think is is slang
Hey! {-;
It means, "In my humble opinion." {-:
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Marriage is an individual person's choice we can't force them to do that. If they want they will and vice versa.
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Difficult for me to answer...I have been married for 25 years...at the beginning everything was perfect,now it is far from perfect.It looks like she is my enemy!!!!!!! LOL.....
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I want to get married after the age of 25. There are two reasons. First, we should pay attention to study and hard work as teenagers.A sense of security. I think we need to pay someone to marry the first thing we need a job to support us to get married. Next we want to make money to the rent or car and other fees. All of these can't let we get married early. We need time to accumulate sufficient results. When you are young you meet very few, but wait you success you will have enough have many choose to get married. Why don't we choose a best the most appropriate person to walk the own life?
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Everybody is cherishing his own perspective about marriage and being tied to or not to one typical relationship, but I am sure those who aren't married, have got girlfriends and they just haven't found yet that motive to choose her as a life partner.
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Oriani wrote: Sun Dec 02, 2007 3:28 pm I don't know at what age I am going to marry because I don't even have a bf yet :evil:


and I'm almost 21
so lets be friends.
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I really don't know about this. If a got a right person I love to merry else might not
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