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When I'll find the right one, I mean the right girl :mrgreen:
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LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)
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I live together. I'm not married in church, for instance. It's a good opportunity to know deeply another person. It's worth of trying.
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HIII!!!
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE.. :-D :-) :roll:
OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA

I'M OPEN-MIND PERSON SO I ACCEPT ANYTHING YOU WANT TO ASK O TALK... :mrgreen:
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I will... soon :-)
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Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Good news, Krisi.
We're all friends, right?
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Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

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Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Congratulations!
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Tora wrote:
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)
It's not also about the biological fact of being able to give birth or not; it's about seeing your children grow up and go through stages of life themselves. So if I was lucky to live over 80, I wouldn't mind to have kids in my 30's. This way I still get to see my kids and my grandkids. However, with my lifestyle I say I'd be lucky if I live pass 70. That's why I get quite jumpy to see myself pushing into 30's without anything happening yet. And they say the things people advise you to do are either something they can or cannot do; they project their own desires on you. Now you know why I keep asking people to get married and have kids before they reach 30. :oops:
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When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
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Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Annaa wrote:
Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .
:lol: :lol: :lol:
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Do u agree with that saying Kris ?
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
My aunt gave birth to her first child at 40. She gave birth to her fourth child at 47 (at that age, most women already have menopause). All of her children are fine and healthy, but she took a great risk. I agree that the best time for a woman to have children is in her twenties. Down Syndrome for instance. As a woman gets older, the risk of her having a child with Down Syndrome increases.
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My mother was 21 when I was born.
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Xkalibur wrote:My mother was 21 when I was born.

on the other hand she is lucky to become a young mother :)
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HuahYu wrote:Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

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hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

byee!
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hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

byee![/quote]

Hi Sofys,

Most of my friend will get married on 21-25 years old...i think is before 25 years old~ :-P
Thanks~
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I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D
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Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

Oke,thnx ,but y ? :oops: Nd I don`t want a husband I`m 2 little :lol: :lol: :lol: .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

hi xkalibur!!
where are you from??
and when you are goin to get married??
it looks that you want to do it as soon as possible!!!

see you!!
:-D :-D :-D
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Why not? Are you against marriage?
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Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
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Well,frankly speaking,I haven't seen any successful marriages in my life yet :-( The reasons about it are different,but the fact is people are not happy being married.As for me...I never gonna be married.And I can explain why - too much responsibility,too boring living with one and the same man all your life,too much pain if smth goes wrong.Hope you see my point {-;
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well...i want to marry before 25 years old.
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I think married with someone is very interesting. you try to agree with him/her it is a bit hard but if you and your husband or wife are percipient, it is not hard for you. love is big suprise in the world i think
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I love to get married... I think by 25 you have to be married.. Common being truthful if everyone thinks of getting settled well in life and then get married,we wouldnt be here because our parents have got married in early ages when they were not settled but still they are happy and wealthy enough to support us all..so GET MARRIED GUYS AND GIRLS!!! Its the most relaxing solution for anyone!!
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I think marry is wonderful.
But life will be changed many.
Perhaps some people did not think.
No matter how,I don`t want marry!!
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I want to ask that everybody you by youth's angle thought is how many years old? If by parents' angle? Can dispute which different causes because of the values? How if will have you to the peaceful settlement cause two sides both not to be injured {-:
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Although I was 17 years old

But I also think that marriage is a happy thing ,too
Because there are nuclear families of their own

I think the 25-year-old can be said that the marriageable age. {-:
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IF THE LIFE MAKES ME TO MARRY,THEN WHY NOT?

IT'S ALL DESTINY!!


AND I PREFER TO BE "DINK,"DOUBLE INK NO KIDS!!!!




BUT IN THE END,YOU'LL NEVER KNOW :idea: W
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I got married when I was 21. It was a mistake as we hadn't known each other long enough and we divorced soon after. :-( I hope to marry my current boyfriend who I have been with for almost four years. {-:
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I hate this Qs looolz..coz whenever one reaches a certain age then HERE WE GO WITH "marriage allert" !! com'on there's no age of marriage! plus no one can decide wether he/she will get marry n( ... )age or not . no one knows! it's all about one's destiny & whenever Love knocks one's door :-) ..I like single life bt I wouldn't mind f i found the one I love, even if i found this person at the age of 60 or sumthin :P so wt ?!
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maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage {-;
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Najlooolah wrote:maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage {-;
really ! I thought girls in Saudi Arabia get marry at earlier age ..! :roll:
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not all families :-)
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Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;
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SuMoNe wrote:
Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;
:shock: U got me wrong ,
I meant by " not all families " : not all families make thier daughters get married ... they rush them just to be marry as soon as they can ! , my family they are open mind ..I can make my own decision..."SO"


maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage......and I will be happy with my decision :-D
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Najlooolah

loooooolz..Actually I did get wt u've said but I meant in "future time" wether n 25 or earlier..I dunno ur age but I think u r still young for marriage..so I hope u find the perfect one 4 u whenever u get ready for it..
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:mrgreen:
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I'm 29 years old and I'm married for three years now.

My husband and I dedided not make a big, expensive event out of the wedding.

We told our parents that we weren't at home the next week because we are going on holiday. What they didn't know was that we were on a trip to the U.S., having it's height in the wedding.
I know that money isn't important concernig a wedding but it was about 6000 Euro not 10000 or more.

At first our families were a little bit dissapointed because they wern't invited, but they finally were all happy with us. They all liked our photos and stories.

Some people say a marriage changes everything, but I think that's nonsense. Maybe it was that way in the earlier days.
Our marrige didn't change anything in our lives, except my last name.

I believe that if you really love each other a marriage can last forever.
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Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
I am not going to marry, too. When you are married, you have lots of responsibility...
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I'm not agree coz,there isn't a real friendship between girl and guy...there is a feeling between them to each other
so,I have a friend but, I don't believe that there feelings to me like my feelings to them !!!
guys are thinking in other hand which girls are doing
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sorry it was my opinion to another subject any way I agree to marry sure
coz,it's v nice relationship and you can plateau in yr life with yr partner so,I love to marry ...it means a lot to me
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yea of course
marriage is of of my nice dreams
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How would I know what I think about marriage, I've only been married for 38 years. Ask me later, when I'm through working out the kinks. But more seriously, I prefer marriage to anything else.

As to dissapointment, that just means you are human. Every lover begins by loving the ideal (what they want to see in you) first. Real love embraces the reality, with all its blemishes; give it time.
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I think that marriage is my dream.
I'm 18 years girl. And I have have no guy I want to marry.
But I want to marry someday.
Please tell me good side of marriage.
Should I marry ...?
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i believe that marriage is a wonderful experience if we do find the right partners

for me i m still looking for the right women

when i find her .............i will marry her

and i guess it has nothing to do with age but it has to do more with destiny
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