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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by komar » Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:59 am

Tora wrote:
BenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she :cry: :!: >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here
I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin :wink:
this is just exactly what I'm talking about :) the same feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by sure » Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:59 am

Yes.
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Snowy* » Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:25 am

Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by illusion » Mon Mar 24, 2008 9:38 pm

Snowy* wrote:Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Dixie » Tue Mar 25, 2008 12:44 pm

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I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.
Exactly! I think so too. That's why I waited for so long (at last it seems long to me) after getting my degree. I'm not getting married yet, though, just moving in together (for now). We both wanted to have a stable job before doing anything. We realize living on our own is no piece of cake, especially when it comes to economy.

I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Lovelymaiden » Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:12 am

I do not think marry is a happy life. I really do not want. What I desire is a comfortable and free life.
After getting married, you will have a lot things to take care, and you will depend on your mate and children.What happen if you realize that your mate is not like you believe, you love, you expect...The would be many thing that make you feel tired, angry and sad.You may become cruel to them(include your mate and th kids). Just one more reason,I think there is extremely rare perfect person but what I want is a perfect one.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Vega » Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:10 am

I don't want marry...I completely indifferent for relationships.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by nancywu » Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:29 pm

i am in contrdiction about marriage, want marriange but afriend of the responsibilities followed.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by MissLT » Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:59 pm

Dixie wrote:
I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.
Do them fast before you reach your 30's.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Dixie » Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:25 am

LennyeTran wrote: Do them fast before you reach your 30's.
Why? Will I be too old? :D

Anyway I think 32-33 is a good age to have a child. We'll see, though :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by MissLT » Thu Apr 03, 2008 2:48 am

It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Dixie » Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:47 am

LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:
Well, here people normally have kids in their early 30s, since they both study and work and it's hard.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by louiehu » Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:01 am

I am a married guy.Marriage taken merriment and grief. :|
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by r1lita » Tue Apr 29, 2008 1:14 pm

When I'll find the right one, I mean the right girl :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Tora » Tue Apr 29, 2008 2:29 pm

LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)

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Post by (((Edu))) » Tue May 13, 2008 6:50 pm

I live together. I'm not married in church, for instance. It's a good opportunity to know deeply another person. It's worth of trying.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by sofys » Tue May 20, 2008 5:16 pm

HIII!!!
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE.. :-D :-) :roll:
OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA

I'M OPEN-MIND PERSON SO I ACCEPT ANYTHING YOU WANT TO ASK O TALK... :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Krisi » Sat May 31, 2008 9:56 am

I will... soon :-)
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Bambang » Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:37 am

Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Good news, Krisi.
We're all friends, right?

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Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Post by HuahYu » Tue Jun 03, 2008 6:13 am

Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

Thanks~
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Vega » Wed Jun 04, 2008 6:33 pm

Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Congratulations!

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by MissLT » Thu Jun 05, 2008 6:34 am

Tora wrote:
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)
It's not also about the biological fact of being able to give birth or not; it's about seeing your children grow up and go through stages of life themselves. So if I was lucky to live over 80, I wouldn't mind to have kids in my 30's. This way I still get to see my kids and my grandkids. However, with my lifestyle I say I'd be lucky if I live pass 70. That's why I get quite jumpy to see myself pushing into 30's without anything happening yet. And they say the things people advise you to do are either something they can or cannot do; they project their own desires on you. Now you know why I keep asking people to get married and have kids before they reach 30. :oops:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Annaa » Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:01 pm

When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Krisi » Fri Jun 06, 2008 12:53 am

Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Annaa » Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:51 am

Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Krisi » Fri Jun 06, 2008 1:30 pm

Annaa wrote:
Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .
:lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Annaa » Fri Jun 06, 2008 4:06 pm

Do u agree with that saying Kris ?
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..

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Post by Cypress » Fri Jun 06, 2008 11:52 pm

LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
My aunt gave birth to her first child at 40. She gave birth to her fourth child at 47 (at that age, most women already have menopause). All of her children are fine and healthy, but she took a great risk. I agree that the best time for a woman to have children is in her twenties. Down Syndrome for instance. As a woman gets older, the risk of her having a child with Down Syndrome increases.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Vega » Sat Jun 07, 2008 8:57 am

My mother was 21 when I was born.

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Post by Melek » Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:48 pm

Xkalibur wrote:My mother was 21 when I was born.

on the other hand she is lucky to become a young mother :)

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Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Post by sofys » Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:50 pm

HuahYu wrote:Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

Thanks~

hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

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Post by HuahYu » Thu Jun 12, 2008 5:51 am

hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

byee![/quote]

Hi Sofys,

Most of my friend will get married on 21-25 years old...i think is before 25 years old~ :-P
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Annaa » Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:59 am

I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..

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Post by Vega » Sat Jun 14, 2008 7:11 pm

Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

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Post by Annaa » Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:34 am

Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

Oke,thnx ,but y ? :oops: Nd I don`t want a husband I`m 2 little :lol: :lol: :lol: .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..

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Post by sofys » Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:46 am

Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

hi xkalibur!!
where are you from??
and when you are goin to get married??
it looks that you want to do it as soon as possible!!!

see you!!
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Post by uzma » Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:50 am

Why not? Are you against marriage?

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Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
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Post by Romantica » Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:48 pm

Well,frankly speaking,I haven't seen any successful marriages in my life yet :-( The reasons about it are different,but the fact is people are not happy being married.As for me...I never gonna be married.And I can explain why - too much responsibility,too boring living with one and the same man all your life,too much pain if smth goes wrong.Hope you see my point {-;

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Post by Annie » Sun May 24, 2009 2:48 pm

well...i want to marry before 25 years old.

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Post by echho » Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:21 pm

I think married with someone is very interesting. you try to agree with him/her it is a bit hard but if you and your husband or wife are percipient, it is not hard for you. love is big suprise in the world i think
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Post by giantmonster » Thu Dec 17, 2009 6:56 am

I love to get married... I think by 25 you have to be married.. Common being truthful if everyone thinks of getting settled well in life and then get married,we wouldnt be here because our parents have got married in early ages when they were not settled but still they are happy and wealthy enough to support us all..so GET MARRIED GUYS AND GIRLS!!! Its the most relaxing solution for anyone!!

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Post by DoDoMie » Sat Jan 02, 2010 5:30 pm

I think marry is wonderful.
But life will be changed many.
Perhaps some people did not think.
No matter how,I don`t want marry!!

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Post by wanrung » Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:59 pm

I want to ask that everybody you by youth's angle thought is how many years old? If by parents' angle? Can dispute which different causes because of the values? How if will have you to the peaceful settlement cause two sides both not to be injured {-:

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Post by Dessy » Mon Jan 04, 2010 12:26 am

Although I was 17 years old

But I also think that marriage is a happy thing ,too
Because there are nuclear families of their own

I think the 25-year-old can be said that the marriageable age. {-:

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Post by bomb » Mon Jan 04, 2010 12:36 am

IF THE LIFE MAKES ME TO MARRY,THEN WHY NOT?

IT'S ALL DESTINY!!


AND I PREFER TO BE "DINK,"DOUBLE INK NO KIDS!!!!




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Post by Woodsetton » Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:54 pm

I got married when I was 21. It was a mistake as we hadn't known each other long enough and we divorced soon after. :-( I hope to marry my current boyfriend who I have been with for almost four years. {-:

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Post by SuMoNe » Wed Feb 10, 2010 6:41 pm

I hate this Qs looolz..coz whenever one reaches a certain age then HERE WE GO WITH "marriage allert" !! com'on there's no age of marriage! plus no one can decide wether he/she will get marry n( ... )age or not . no one knows! it's all about one's destiny & whenever Love knocks one's door :-) ..I like single life bt I wouldn't mind f i found the one I love, even if i found this person at the age of 60 or sumthin :P so wt ?!

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Post by Najlooolah » Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:27 pm

maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage {-;

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Post by SuMoNe » Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:42 pm

Najlooolah wrote:maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage {-;
really ! I thought girls in Saudi Arabia get marry at earlier age ..! :roll:

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Post by Najlooolah » Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:45 pm

not all families :-)

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Post by SuMoNe » Thu Feb 11, 2010 7:39 pm

Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;

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Post by Najlooolah » Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:00 pm

SuMoNe wrote:
Najlooolah wrote:not all families :-)
I see.. I hope u find the one soon {-;
:shock: U got me wrong ,
I meant by " not all families " : not all families make thier daughters get married ... they rush them just to be marry as soon as they can ! , my family they are open mind ..I can make my own decision..."SO"


maybe at 25 If I feel ready at that time to take responsibility of marriage......and I will be happy with my decision :-D

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Post by SuMoNe » Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:31 am

Najlooolah

loooooolz..Actually I did get wt u've said but I meant in "future time" wether n 25 or earlier..I dunno ur age but I think u r still young for marriage..so I hope u find the perfect one 4 u whenever u get ready for it..

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Barbara » Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:35 pm

I'm 29 years old and I'm married for three years now.

My husband and I dedided not make a big, expensive event out of the wedding.

We told our parents that we weren't at home the next week because we are going on holiday. What they didn't know was that we were on a trip to the U.S., having it's height in the wedding.
I know that money isn't important concernig a wedding but it was about 6000 Euro not 10000 or more.

At first our families were a little bit dissapointed because they wern't invited, but they finally were all happy with us. They all liked our photos and stories.

Some people say a marriage changes everything, but I think that's nonsense. Maybe it was that way in the earlier days.
Our marrige didn't change anything in our lives, except my last name.

I believe that if you really love each other a marriage can last forever.

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Post by DeathEater » Thu Jul 01, 2010 11:17 am

Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
I am not going to marry, too. When you are married, you have lots of responsibility...

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by dentist » Sat Sep 04, 2010 12:57 am

I'm not agree coz,there isn't a real friendship between girl and guy...there is a feeling between them to each other
so,I have a friend but, I don't believe that there feelings to me like my feelings to them !!!
guys are thinking in other hand which girls are doing

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by dentist » Sat Sep 04, 2010 1:00 am

sorry it was my opinion to another subject any way I agree to marry sure
coz,it's v nice relationship and you can plateau in yr life with yr partner so,I love to marry ...it means a lot to me

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by thedawn » Thu Oct 21, 2010 12:07 pm

yea of course
marriage is of of my nice dreams
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Post by WhidbeyTomas » Wed Nov 10, 2010 5:19 pm

How would I know what I think about marriage, I've only been married for 38 years. Ask me later, when I'm through working out the kinks. But more seriously, I prefer marriage to anything else.

As to dissapointment, that just means you are human. Every lover begins by loving the ideal (what they want to see in you) first. Real love embraces the reality, with all its blemishes; give it time.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by sakisaki » Fri Dec 03, 2010 12:55 am

I think that marriage is my dream.
I'm 18 years girl. And I have have no guy I want to marry.
But I want to marry someday.
Please tell me good side of marriage.
Should I marry ...?

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by darkhorse » Fri Dec 24, 2010 11:10 am

i believe that marriage is a wonderful experience if we do find the right partners

for me i m still looking for the right women

when i find her .............i will marry her

and i guess it has nothing to do with age but it has to do more with destiny

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by ArnauEstanyol » Thu Dec 30, 2010 3:59 pm

I'm married. With two children. What can I say about my wife?.

Once upon a time a Goddess came down to the earth. He would be my wife. She stumbled into a little worm and that worm was transformed in myself. As I am right now: a human being. She is even a Goddess. {-;

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Dixie » Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:11 pm

ArnauEstanyol wrote:I'm married. With two children. What can I say about my wife?.

Once upon a time a Goddess came down to the earth. He would be my wife. She stumbled into a little worm and that worm was transformed in myself. As I am right now: a human being. She is even a Goddess. {-;
That's so sweet! :-o

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Post by ArnauEstanyol » Mon Jan 03, 2011 10:48 am

Dixie wrote:
That's so sweet! :-o
Thanks a lot. For me, marriage is a good experience. I'm very proud of my family. Always in life there are problems, but if the family has a strong unity, the bad moments can be resolved.

By the way: year has changed but are occurring the same bad things than last year. I think only has changed the year's number and no more.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Vega » Mon Jan 03, 2011 3:44 pm

I am quite pessimistic about marriage, nowadays. My cousin, who's almost the same age with me, divorced after a month. That evil girl had cheated with other guy, her ex-bf. I restrain myself to describe her...Simply a prostitute to me. 8-) . Excuse me.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by ArnauEstanyol » Tue Jan 04, 2011 7:35 am

It's clear, all depend on self experience. In my case is good, but I know many people who have had a very bad experience. For example my sister-in-law: She's near two years ago divorced. Their marriage was a total failure. I think all depends of the characters compatibility and flexibility. In marriage sometimes all depends to give down in some situations and take up in another ones. If one of the two always think on itself and never gives up, the situation will go in tension.
Well, experience is the key to understand and specially the true love one another.
That's my opinion and my own experience.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by venusian » Wed Jan 05, 2011 8:21 am

marriage is a circumstances when a couple can unite the different thoughts.. start new life.
this good topic when people want to plan to marry. I plan to marry this year actually. I want a simple moment of my marriage..
what's your marriage will be?

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by ArnauEstanyol » Wed Jan 05, 2011 12:54 pm

Marriage as a religious ceremony doesn't matter for me. Somebody can choose other kind of ceremony or not and live together with someone without marriage. All it depends to the couple. What I want say is that the most important for me is the freedom to choose and live as we want to live.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by bellasombra » Wed May 11, 2011 10:58 pm

i want to some day get married but i just haven't found the right man. Am i just too picky?

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by sweethuman » Thu Jul 14, 2011 10:17 am

Marriege is a headache.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Krisi » Sun Jul 31, 2011 1:50 pm

This topic should be rephrased. :-) it should be, "Are you ready for marriage?" :roll:

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Post by sweethuman » Tue Aug 02, 2011 5:31 am

Krisi wrote:This topic should be rephrased. :-) it should be, "Are you ready for marriage?" :roll:
And the reason please? :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Lucia » Fri Mar 09, 2012 10:09 am

"Everybody needs somebody to love" ;-) So at the end we all will be married :-)

I would like to have family and children with my darling :-)

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Post by sweethuman » Mon Mar 19, 2012 10:21 am

Lucia wrote:"Everybody needs somebody to love" ;-) So at the end we all will be married :-)

I would like to have family and children with my darling :-)
Every one is the same. :lol:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by pawstvih » Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:07 pm

Yes, I want to marry when it is possible to do to more than one man.
Man can do it, why women can't?

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Post by Tofayelbd » Fri Mar 23, 2012 6:07 pm

I am almost forty and trying to marry from three years ago. But sorry to say yet to marry, most of girl want to marry a well establish man. So now I am thinking that I can't marry.

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Post by Oriani » Mon Jul 02, 2012 4:45 pm

Yes, of course I would, but I don't even have a boyfriend yet. By the way, I am available ( just in case :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: )

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by brenson » Thu Jul 19, 2012 9:30 am

I never dream to get marry!

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by symbolic » Wed Aug 01, 2012 11:00 am

the human species is need to go on and so people want marriage because of the subconscious..all the thigns that are out In addition of this are a big lie of life

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Krisi » Fri Oct 30, 2015 12:33 pm

symbolic wrote:the human species is need to go on and so people want marriage because of the subconscious..all the thigns that are out In addition of this are a big lie of life
you made it sound creepy... :shock:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by myocean » Sat May 13, 2017 6:38 am

brenson wrote:I never dream to get marry!
Why?
Do you feel that you are unattractive? Do you have any serious problem?
in my opinion every man or woman except who is psychosis or some rare problem, can be worthy to get marriage.
Think positive and be strong.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by percyquynh » Thu Mar 29, 2018 3:25 am

I am only 19, of course my answer is no. For me, people should be at least over 24 to get married. Also, people need to have their own career, finance to provide for their future need. {-;

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by yuyuyu » Tue Apr 03, 2018 1:43 pm

yeah, because marriage is a wonderful thing for people while they will have their own family and have their children. I think I would like to marry. It's not because of the expect of parents but is the pure love.

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Post by Norah » Sun Apr 08, 2018 12:52 pm

Melek wrote:
Tue Nov 06, 2007 4:31 am
Im only 21, & its too early to think of marriage.for me the first is to study ,to graduate & to find a suitable job & then I can think of marriage.As they saye everything is good in its season.

I know someone had married when he was in 20 years old. I read a report that said the ideal age to get married between 20 to 28 yeas old

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Vega wrote:
Wed Nov 07, 2007 11:47 am
I'm not going to marry.
Could you tell me what the resons behaind that?

Many researchers reported that marriage is one is the beautiful time in the life.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Norah » Sun Apr 08, 2018 12:58 pm

Vega wrote:
Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:31 pm
melek wrote:well,IMHO I dont plan to get married..its too early for me..first I ll graduate from the university,then find a job & then I can think over it :)
Hi, what does 'IMHO' mean?
I am curious to know what dese it means too?


I think is is slang

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Post by Honey » Sat Apr 14, 2018 6:51 pm

Norah wrote:
Sun Apr 08, 2018 12:58 pm
Vega wrote:
Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:31 pm
melek wrote:well,IMHO I dont plan to get married..its too early for me..first I ll graduate from the university,then find a job & then I can think over it :)
Hi, what does 'IMHO' mean?
I am curious to know what dese it means too?


I think is is slang
Hey! {-;
It means, "In my humble opinion." {-:
Today is the tomorrow we worried about yesterday

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