Would you like to marry ?

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby komar » Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:59 am

Tora wrote:
BenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she :cry: :!: >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here


I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin :wink:

this is just exactly what I'm talking about :) the same feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby sure » Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:59 am

Yes.
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Snowy* » Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:25 am

Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby illusion » Mon Mar 24, 2008 9:38 pm

Snowy* wrote:Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!


I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Dixie » Tue Mar 25, 2008 12:44 pm

illusion wrote:
I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.


Exactly! I think so too. That's why I waited for so long (at last it seems long to me) after getting my degree. I'm not getting married yet, though, just moving in together (for now). We both wanted to have a stable job before doing anything. We realize living on our own is no piece of cake, especially when it comes to economy.

I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Lovelymaiden » Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:12 am

I do not think marry is a happy life. I really do not want. What I desire is a comfortable and free life.
After getting married, you will have a lot things to take care, and you will depend on your mate and children.What happen if you realize that your mate is not like you believe, you love, you expect...The would be many thing that make you feel tired, angry and sad.You may become cruel to them(include your mate and th kids). Just one more reason,I think there is extremely rare perfect person but what I want is a perfect one.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Vega » Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:10 am

I don't want marry...I completely indifferent for relationships.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby nancywu » Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:29 pm

i am in contrdiction about marriage, want marriange but afriend of the responsibilities followed.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby MissLT » Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:59 pm

Dixie wrote:
I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

Do them fast before you reach your 30's.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Dixie » Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:25 am

LennyeTran wrote:Do them fast before you reach your 30's.


Why? Will I be too old? :D

Anyway I think 32-33 is a good age to have a child. We'll see, though :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby MissLT » Thu Apr 03, 2008 2:48 am

It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Dixie » Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:47 am

LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:


Well, here people normally have kids in their early 30s, since they both study and work and it's hard.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby louiehu » Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:01 am

I am a married guy.Marriage taken merriment and grief. :|
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby r1lita » Tue Apr 29, 2008 1:14 pm

When I'll find the right one, I mean the right girl :mrgreen:

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Tora » Tue Apr 29, 2008 2:29 pm

LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...


I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby (((Edu))) » Tue May 13, 2008 6:50 pm

I live together. I'm not married in church, for instance. It's a good opportunity to know deeply another person. It's worth of trying.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby sofys » Tue May 20, 2008 5:16 pm

HIII!!!
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE.. :-D :-) :roll:
OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA[b]


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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Krisi » Sat May 31, 2008 9:56 am

I will... soon :-)
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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Bambang » Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:37 am

Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)


Good news, Krisi.
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Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Postby HuahYu » Tue Jun 03, 2008 6:13 am

Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Postby Vega » Wed Jun 04, 2008 6:33 pm

Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)


Congratulations!


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