Tony, thank you for your regards.
Why do you think it must be hard for a divorced woman to live together with a kid? ok, I have to say that your thinking is so old and timeworn,and I know you are very young though.
actually, after running away from my hometome, I have been feeling so happy and pleased. meantime, everything have gotten much easier than I imaged before.
GuangDong is such an exciting and magic place. you can achieve your goal easily here as long as you are really capable! and there are simpler social relations in GuangDong than in inland. You don't have to spend as much time and many energies dealing with so-called social relations as you do inland. thus, GuangDong is fair and nice for industrious people. I really love the place!
since I came here,I have never felt difficult to do something, contrarily, then I felt very hard to do everything in my hometown. I was a foolish woman, so I didn't know how to deal with so complicated and profound social relations of my hometown, that resulted in my previous failures. Thank God that I now am in GuangDong! and just as you said, I am a upbeat woman, so I manage not to recall what happened to me in my hometown. and just as you said, we must take the bright side of life more.