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what should I do?(consultation)(we are here to help you)

Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 3:27 am

this topic is about to talk or consult about ur problem. it could be family, friends, personal, daily life, country and so on..

so we will try to give some solution about ur problem and give some advice if you need that..

so folks, perticipate and open ur mouth ...
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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 3:28 am

ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
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Postby nympho-holic » Wed Sep 08, 2004 3:35 am

Is it once a month? :lol:

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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 12:53 pm

nympho-holic wrote:Is it once a month? :lol:


umm no its frequently
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Postby Davidj » Wed Sep 08, 2004 1:13 pm

Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


I had the same.Force yuorself,I mean when you are in a bed mood don't show anybody.It's not good advertise to you.The second;If the cause of it somebody,try to find only positive in his/her charicter.Always ask yourself WHY? And very soon you'll get ride of it.

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Postby Dixie » Wed Sep 08, 2004 2:33 pm

Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


Sorry to hear that. Don't you know the reason?

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Postby RedRose » Wed Sep 08, 2004 2:53 pm

Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...

lilian, it is normal. everyone has his/her happy time or blue time. the crucial issue is how you would deal with your blue time. I think, if you feel upset sometimes, just recollect what made you happy in the past.

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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 7:13 pm

RedRose wrote:
Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...

lilian, it is normal. everyone has his/her happy time or blue time. the crucial issue is how you would deal with your blue time. I think, if you feel upset sometimes, just recollect what made you happy in the past.



i got what u wanted to tell rose. but the main problem is my mood change automatically. like, i am sitting here talking with u , laughing having fun and all on a sudden i am feeling blue. not enjoying the moment.

how to get rid of it?

seems like i am having some kind of depression.
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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 7:14 pm

Davidj wrote:
Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


I had the same.Force yuorself,I mean when you are in a bed mood don't show anybody.It's not good advertise to you.The second;If the cause of it somebody,try to find only positive in his/her charicter.Always ask yourself WHY? And very soon you'll get ride of it.


no dav, its not about anyone or anything. its just matter of mood.
thats why i am calling it mood swing.
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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 08, 2004 7:15 pm

Dixie wrote:
Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


Sorry to hear that. Don't you know the reason?


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Postby Dixie » Wed Sep 08, 2004 8:57 pm

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Postby Aiza » Thu Sep 09, 2004 11:31 am

Lilian.I had a depression a few years ago.I didn´t feel sometimes good and sometimes well. I only felt sadness. Deep sadness. I didn´t know why. There was no reason at all. When I last went to the physician she told me that I had a problem with the serotonine or something like that. It was a physic problem. She told me to rest and have some pills and the problem was solved.
If you really feel very bad (really feel very sad) talk about this with the physician. If you think that it is not so serious talk with your friends, family...

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Postby RedRose » Thu Sep 09, 2004 12:14 pm

Lilian, it is time that you treated youself with some recreations, such as travel, listening to some music and so on. if you get into a blue mood easily, that means you need a proper adjustment.

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Postby Dixie » Thu Sep 09, 2004 12:56 pm

Yeah Lilian take a break and call on me sometime! I'll show you my new apartment and the Mediterranean Sea! :D

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Postby Lilian » Thu Sep 09, 2004 2:18 pm

haha...thx guys, ur are so helpful. hmm yah i need some adjustment . coz i am feeling that the people around me and in my life are not very understandable. beside i can sense my own choice, and own point of view. however i am trying to cope with it. trying to ignore all those. but sometime i am just helpless.

alright probably i shouldnt think too much.
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Postby khalid » Thu Sep 09, 2004 3:44 pm

wow great,,
I don't thinking all of you are consultant, next time if I have problem I will write here,hope you also will response also like to lilian..
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Postby Lilian » Thu Sep 09, 2004 4:19 pm

khalid wrote:wow great,,
I don't thinking all of you are consultant, next time if I have problem I will write here,hope you also will response also like to lilian..
-khalid-
:roll: :roll: :roll:


sure khalid. we are just like a family here. feel free to share ur problem.
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Postby Lee » Sun Sep 12, 2004 8:38 pm

HI!
Only Lillian can raise problem here???? :)
Can't i raise problems and get help from you guys?? :wink:

I hope i can......................

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Postby Dixie » Mon Sep 13, 2004 11:01 am

Well, of course you can, Lee!! Please don't hesitate and share your problems with us. I'm sure everyone here will try to help you out. ;)

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Postby pinas » Sun Sep 19, 2004 6:50 pm

Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


well, i'm moody as well and that is by nature...sometimes i really cannot control it anymore but as long as no one gets affected by that it is fine..because not everyone can put up with that kind of behavior. and if anyone would be affected, just explain it to them afterwards...you understand yourself and you always will but we can never expect others to do the same. and if you'rwe feeling happy or sad, try to find out what factor makes you feel such...if there is nothing in particular since you often feel like that, just get used to it and don't take anything seriously..if you know you are having a bad mood, try to stay away from other people first and be alone..it will allow you to think and relax...
i hope this could help you...
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Postby Lilian » Sun Sep 19, 2004 9:26 pm

pinas wrote:
Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.

i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...


well, i'm moody as well and that is by nature...sometimes i really cannot control it anymore but as long as no one gets affected by that it is fine..because not everyone can put up with that kind of behavior. and if anyone would be affected, just explain it to them afterwards...you understand yourself and you always will but we can never expect others to do the same. and if you'rwe feeling happy or sad, try to find out what factor makes you feel such...if there is nothing in particular since you often feel like that, just get used to it and don't take anything seriously..if you know you are having a bad mood, try to stay away from other people first and be alone..it will allow you to think and relax...
i hope this could help you...
good luck...


thz pinas...ur very pretty..:)

yah, i will try to do that....
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