I found he is used to analysis person from any things and guess the purpose
caiqinqian wrote:Yesterday,I talked with my good friend and I found he is used to analysis person from any things and guess the purpose.But that make me not feel very good.Sometimes,we do a things just out of none purpose,but he think more. I think if a person always anaysis all my action and my word,I will be very careful when I talk to him or do something which has some relationship with him.
But I know this kind of people maybe easier to success in the real society. Do u think it's a good habit and we should try to do like this?
a person who is used to analysis other people from anything, is a good friend and will be easy to success in the society while you yourself are very careful when talking or do something relating to him ?
caiqinqian wrote:Thanks babycricket,mahboob.I have had a long talk with my friend and told him my ture feeling.there are so many difference between persons and everyone has themselve's thinking way,I hope him don't to easily jugde a person just by himself thinking way.Frankness is need between friends.
tahrer wrote:yea, it depend on the purpose,what is his purpose of observing other people,
if the purpose is to know character, performance, attitude, of the person in order that he can communicate , interact perfecly with him, I think that is ok.
exsample: I will not joking with my friend A,because I know she is serious person, she will get angry if I joke her.
How can I know she doesn't like joking,of course I have done observation, that why I know her character, an her attitude,
but if we observe other people to search what is his mistake, his weakness,and inform him, or anybody, it will make trouble for him.he will feel somebody always observing, evaluating, appraise.of course it will make uncomportable and nervous.
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