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Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?

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wusel
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platonic friends

Postby wusel » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:09 am

:shock:
I have a friend called Teja and I don't know, if I am in love with him or if we are only platonic friends.
Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?
:shock:

HELP, I need somebody, HELP!

I hope you don't mind that I create a poll here.
_Pirate_

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Re: platonic friends

Postby Wasdeer » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:15 am

wusel wrote::shock:
I have a friend called Teja and I don't know, if I am in love with him or if we are only platonic friends.
Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?
:shock:

HELP, I need somebody, HELP!



Hi,
I´m Wasdeer and I've got a girlfriend and I cant imagine to have a platonic friendship so give it up to try it
say him that you love him and everything will become all right! :twisted:
:shock:
Bye your
WASDEER :wink:

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Postby Franky » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:17 am

What?????? Are you Joking???? whY?? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

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platonic friends

Postby Prinz Poldi » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:18 am

I don't think there can be platonic friendships between boys and girls,because they might fall in love later.The friendship would not last for a long time.

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to wusel

Postby Rainbows » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:19 am

is teja a person of an caddo indian tribe? is she from texas??? :lol:
If she is a hello friend then take her and make it to her :shock:

i think i would only take teja if she is pretty because i wouldnt want an ugly (hello) friend but that can onlky go if you are pretty beacuse sonst are you the ugly one..... hello mrs schwippert (who is standing behind us but not reading...*troll-laughing*.. )

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Re: platonic friends

Postby coco » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:19 am

wusel wrote::shock:
I have a friend called Teja and I don't know, if I am in love with him or if we are only platonic friends.
Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?
:shock:

HELP, I need somebody, HELP!


please ask him if you aren't too shy. Maybe he wants to tell you the same. Yes, we think, that men and women can have a platonic friendship, because we have some friendships like these :D

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Postby wusel » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:20 am

TEJA IS A BOY ( or isn't he???????) :shock: :shock: :shock:

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Postby Prinz Poldi » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:20 am

What the Hell is troll laughing :?: :?: :?:

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Postby Franky » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:21 am

I think there is a world in peace, where platonic is everywhere!! lets celebrate

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Postby wusel » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:21 am

the way how a troll laughs

honk
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Postby Rainbows » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:22 am

we all know troll laughing... so denk nach if you don't know it! teja is a boy? are you gay?

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Postby Prinz Poldi » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:22 am

But aren't platonic friendships cheap and sleazy???You willl (!) fall in love with your platonic friends.

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Postby wusel » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:23 am

TEJA IS A BOY AND I (wusel) AM A GIRL :oops:

c'est ca
:shock:

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Postby Franky » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:23 am

You are STRANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock:

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Postby Rainbows » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:23 am

a platonic friend is good for having fun :wink:

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Re: to wusel

Postby coco » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:24 am

Rainbows wrote:is teja a person of an caddo indian tribe? is she from texas??? :lol:
If she is a hello friend then take her and make it to her :shock:

i think i would only take teja if she is pretty because i wouldnt want an ugly (hello) friend but that can onlky go if you are pretty beacuse sonst are you the ugly one..... hello mrs schwippert (who is standing behind us but not reading...*troll-laughing*.. )


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Postby Rainbows » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:25 am

what language do you speak coco?

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Re: platonic friends

Postby Ms.A.Z » Thu Feb 17, 2005 12:42 pm

wusel wrote::shock:
I have a friend called Teja and I don't know, if I am in love with him or if we are only platonic friends.
Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?
:shock:

HELP, I need somebody, HELP!


HI Wusel

To be honest I seriously believe that men and women can't be friends and even if they had friendship then i dont think it will last for ever but of course there is always exception. Tell me some thing dose you're friend Teja has a girlfriend not you I mean a really girlfriend? if for example if he had one will that make you feel jealous like some one has taken him away from you? Will you feel jealous if he hang out with another girl or come close to her? What about him will he feel jealous if you went with another guy except him ? Try to find out the answers for these questions. You know you're self and you're feelings better then any one and Im sure you will find you're way out of this problem.Wish you best of luck. :roll:

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Postby luckygirl9 » Sat Feb 19, 2005 4:59 am

As I think there can be platonic friends between boys&girls,for I'm doing it with a boy in our class,that's practical.Though he is so excellent in many ways and has got good personalities and outlooks,I haven't fell in love with him,I just treat him as a very good friend.The main reason I can give out here is that,I wanna pay my attention on my study.

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Re: platonic friends

Postby Dolamar » Tue Feb 22, 2005 8:09 pm

wusel wrote:Do you think, that girls and boys can be platonic friends?
:shock:

Yea, it is possible. :)

It can be tough though sometimes though. :?
As it is quite easy to get attracted to a friend of the opposite sex. :(
Especially when you share each others feelings and thoughts. :cry:
Just remember a friend is one step shy of a lover. :oops:

If you do find later on that you both love each other, don't think of it as an end to your friendship.
But rather a beginning of something new and better, a chance to share your feelings together on a deeper level. 8)

That's just my crazy opinion on this issue! :roll:

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Postby tinsch » Thu Sep 20, 2007 7:03 pm

first of all I really don't understand why there are 100% at the vote for 'there can be platonic relationship ..' when some people obviously don't think so . anyway :wink:

in my opinion it's possible to have a platonic relationship between men and women . do we always have to fall in love with our mates? I think some people may aren't able to manage a 'relationship without deeper feelings' but the majority is able to .
many people just need a really good friend whom they can tell everything besides their partner (when they have one..)
and I think it can work when they don't just want to have fun with the partner and don'tget drunken and do things you never wanted to do .. wayne :lol:

& wussel, did you already tell him your feelings?
if not - GOOD LUCK!! I don't know him, but I think he won't break up your friendship!!

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