hi...
if u have aspecial friend and she told u every thing about her life specially if she is sadness.
she has some problems with her fiance and i helpe here and advise her, she was afraid that the engagement will be end.
but she has been wedding from 2 weeks ago and she did not told me , i knew from others.
i am soooo sad couse she like to set with me in her bad condition but when she is happy she forget me.
what do u advise me to do when i sow her ?
do u thik that i am wrong when i toke a janseism from her?
star
give me ur opinons....
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Don't worry about it.Smile with her and say that "you have had a good news .Congratulation!Tell me about your man".Because she is still your friend.You shouldn't make somethings bad .Love is giving not asking to receive.I think she will think of that again.I also have a good sentence that I heard on the film about forgiving ."Forgiving is give him or her a space in your heart."
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seal wrote:@A&STAR
First of all, I'm sorry to hear that.
Sorry for this question: Is it the first time that she hasn't told you when she is in a happy situation?
When she didn't forget you in situations like that often then maybe she really just forgot to tell you. Maybe she thinks, she told you about but in real she forgot it. Maybe you should ask are how her relationship is, so whether she's still happy with her boyfriend/fiancé. Use only one of these words, I think when she just forgot it, she will tell you "Oh, haven't I told you that I married two weeks ago?" or something like that.
:) Good advice ""
I hope you will keep friends.
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Salam A&Star
In my openion, you should tell her your feelings towards every thing related to her.Don't ever hide it.
Tell her honstly why did you forgot to tell me about you wedding was there anything wrong?
See her reply and then judge to continue your relationship with her.You will feel it from her face if she's honest or not.
I guess in such occasions we don't forgot to tell the one we care about.Right?
I don't want you to blame her but at least be sure that she's a good friend and she cares about you.
Believe me I was in the same situation as yours but I was honest and tell my friend about it.He didn't have reply he was embarresed.He escaped from me every time I saw him.
So I know that he wants to waste his time with me whne he's sad.
See as an example, in the forum if we have something good or bad we share it together here despite of being far away or we don't see eachother but belive me we all here are good friends.
Good Luck
Wish you all the best.
In my openion, you should tell her your feelings towards every thing related to her.Don't ever hide it.
Tell her honstly why did you forgot to tell me about you wedding was there anything wrong?
See her reply and then judge to continue your relationship with her.You will feel it from her face if she's honest or not.
I guess in such occasions we don't forgot to tell the one we care about.Right?
I don't want you to blame her but at least be sure that she's a good friend and she cares about you.
Believe me I was in the same situation as yours but I was honest and tell my friend about it.He didn't have reply he was embarresed.He escaped from me every time I saw him.
So I know that he wants to waste his time with me whne he's sad.
See as an example, in the forum if we have something good or bad we share it together here despite of being far away or we don't see eachother but belive me we all here are good friends.
Good Luck
Wish you all the best.
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Hi A&Star
I advice you to talk to her and know why she did so . may be she have any bad conditions . dont but ur judgements without knowing the reasons .
If she dont have any reasons which you accept so you have to take this as an experience to you in your later realtions . and you have to know that not all people bad and not all of them are good . in every where you can find the bad and the good .
Good luck friend
I advice you to talk to her and know why she did so . may be she have any bad conditions . dont but ur judgements without knowing the reasons .
If she dont have any reasons which you accept so you have to take this as an experience to you in your later realtions . and you have to know that not all people bad and not all of them are good . in every where you can find the bad and the good .
Good luck friend
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