how to win the boy/girl of your dream?
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how to win the boy/girl of your dream?
At the moment,i'm falling in love with a boy but i don't know how to have his love. I love him since i saw him at the first time. it's 2 years ago. However,he don't know about me and my love. So,who have experience in this field,help me.
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As a boy, i would say it's an honor of being showed love by girl. So there's nothing to worry, just do it. In addition, why didn't i have so great luck.
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zidane how r u ? remember me????zidane wrote:As a boy, i would say it's an honor of being showed love by girl. So there's nothing to worry, just do it. In addition, why didn't i have so great luck.
anywayz ur post made me laugh. u will find u love when the time will come...dont worry... :D
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that's right...you don't have to find love...if the time is right it will come...
and showing or telling him that you love him is not really an assurance that you'd win the guy...
on the other hand, you should let him know you exist just so you'd know if there is really a chance that you 2 could fall in love with each other...who knows, you mind find out that he is not really your type..you might realize that you never really knew him at all...
and showing or telling him that you love him is not really an assurance that you'd win the guy...
on the other hand, you should let him know you exist just so you'd know if there is really a chance that you 2 could fall in love with each other...who knows, you mind find out that he is not really your type..you might realize that you never really knew him at all...
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if you are brave enough to take the risk then show your love and tell him how you feel about him. there's nothing wrong in trying. who knows you could win this guy. but you know, you can't force love to come to you. even if you've invested a lot already, if it really isn't meant for you, you're not gonna get it. let love find its way to you..in the right place...in the right time...by the right person. good luck!
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Totally true.pinas wrote:that's right...you don't have to find love...if the time is right it will come...
and showing or telling him that you love him is not really an assurance that you'd win the guy...
on the other hand, you should let him know you exist just so you'd know if there is really a chance that you 2 could fall in love with each other...who knows, you mind find out that he is not really your type..you might realize that you never really knew him at all...
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Your post is great again.charlotte wrote:if you are brave enough to take the risk then show your love and tell him how you feel about him. there's nothing wrong in trying. who knows you could win this guy. but you know, you can't force love to come to you. even if you've invested a lot already, if it really isn't meant for you, you're not gonna get it. let love find its way to you..in the right place...in the right time...by the right person. good luck!
Don't find love, let love find you. That is why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.Love is loving or accepting a persn with all his or her weaknesses.
Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
It is the rule of love but love has no rule !:_))
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Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
It is the rule of love but love has no rule !:_))
_Arale_
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hey..this was a quoted text message that was sent to me before...where'd you get this? i love it.Arale wrote:Don't find love, let love find you. That is why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.Love is loving or accepting a persn with all his or her weaknesses.
Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
It is the rule of love but love has no rule !:_))
_Arale_
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my opinion, if we fall in love a girl/boy, we have to start working, make attention, give her more care, make a good relationship,give her helping whatever you can do.
love need sacrific, need energy, time, money also etc.
better to do something to catch it, and get it, than thinking and dreamy without action,
even you fail at least you have done something.
good luck.
love need sacrific, need energy, time, money also etc.
better to do something to catch it, and get it, than thinking and dreamy without action,
even you fail at least you have done something.
good luck.
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pinas wrote:hey..this was a quoted text message that was sent to me before...where'd you get this? i love it.Arale wrote:Don't find love, let love find you. That is why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.Love is loving or accepting a persn with all his or her weaknesses.
Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
It is the rule of love but love has no rule !:_))
_Arale_
wow ,good SMS!
smile,smile,smile
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Re: how to win the boy/girl of your dream?
neveragain wrote:At the moment,i'm falling in love with a boy but i don't know how to have his love. I love him since i saw him at the first time. it's 2 years ago. However,he don't know about me and my love. So,who have experience in this field,help me.
hello neveragain!!
i think that you should tell him about your love!! i know that love is a difficult problem. because. all of us can`t solve it by reason, but only by affection. if you tell him the truth , he will understand you and may be he will love you (if he hasn`t girlfriend) .but in other hand , you can be comfortable when you say to him what you think about him!!hope you have a best decision!
have a nice day !!
good luck!!!
good luck!!!
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I bet this guy knows already about your feelings.
Don't tell him. If you do, you'll make a fool of yourself.
You see, men don't deserve that girls make their move first. Men are smug so if you let him know, he will realize that you are crazy about him and then he won't take you seriously. That's not good, is it?
Don't tell him. If you do, you'll make a fool of yourself.
You see, men don't deserve that girls make their move first. Men are smug so if you let him know, he will realize that you are crazy about him and then he won't take you seriously. That's not good, is it?
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Re: how to win the boy/girl of your dream?
In the past I also had a situation like you. But now my feeling changes and I don't think of her any more. And I hope you to think the reality of Love, don't dream.neveragain wrote:At the moment,i'm falling in love with a boy but i don't know how to have his love. I love him since i saw him at the first time. it's 2 years ago. However,he don't know about me and my love. So,who have experience in this field,help me.
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I disagree with some of the previous posts. Things don't just come along all the time. Some are lucky enough that love finds them, but you need to put yourself into the place or situation where love can see you. Be yourself and express yourself! Sometimes you have to go with your heart. We don't live in a fairytale world, in fact most of it is a nightmare, so when you see love, jump at it and achieve it. Happiness only comes to those who try, not those who sit around waiting.
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U right man!essie wrote:I disagree with some of the previous posts. Things don't just come along all the time. Some are lucky enough that love finds them, but you need to put yourself into the place or situation where love can see you. Be yourself and express yourself! Sometimes you have to go with your heart. We don't live in a fairytale world, in fact most of it is a nightmare, so when you see love, jump at it and achieve it. Happiness only comes to those who try, not those who sit around waiting.
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Arale wrote:Don't find love, let love find you. That is why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.Love is loving or accepting a persn with all his or her weaknesses.
Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
It is the rule of love but love has no rule !:_))
_Arale_
pretty romantic!!i like it.the sentence i underlined is logical.
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Lalee wrote:I bet this guy knows already about your feelings.
Don't tell him. If you do, you'll make a fool of yourself.
You see, men don't deserve that girls make their move first. Men are smug so if you let him know, he will realize that you are crazy about him and then he won't take you seriously. That's not good, is it?
really??!guys will be smug?what about girls?
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I do not know I love her or not.I admire her since I met her when school reopened.I should not mix up love and friendship as love is a long life term which need the people to tolerate forever.I have a strong feeling on her.I share my daily experience with her and we are happy to be friends but she does not know I like her.I have thought of expressing my feeling on her but I anxious that I may frighthen her or friendship will be ended up.Please help me.I am in dilemma and confusing.Relationship between male and female is more complicated than terrorism.
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exactly! It's better to regret something you've done than something you haven't but you could. I had this kind of thing too. I was(actually still am) so obsessed with this guy that I couldn't help myself but burst out while dancing with him on New Year's Eve party that I fancy him and he said NOTHING. I know he didn't feel the same for me. But I am at least happy that I told him and didn't have to hide it anymore. But now when we see each other he always smiles at me. I think he just respects me for being honest about my feelings even though he didn't share them. Anyway I guess the best way is to be honest...hedwig14 wrote:yeah... tell him how you feel... who knows if he likes you too but is just too shy to tell you... tell him before it's too late. and if ever he does not like you too, never mind about it.. move on and smile..coz atleast you did everything just to have your happiness..
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