Don't cry
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Re: Don't cry
Thanks babyangel... I cry too easily :( I hate myself for that. Thanks for your advice anyway!!! :Dbabyangel wrote:Don't cry That is my advice. Even when you feel lonely, disappointed, bored and tired. Don't need to cry any more but smile, you would feel better
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I don't cry in my life,even very sad ,angry,i just be silence,don't say a word! So sometimes my friends tell me my angry face is very very terrible.
But if i watch some tv or moives that move my heart greatly ,my tears are out of my control!
The latest time i cry was my mother met a traffic accident,hurt her brain,she lost all her consciousness. The doctors told that we might lose our mom, we cried! But now ,what the miracle is my mom can speak ,see ,litsen, and get her consciousness,but now she still in the hospital ,we all believe she can recover! God bless my mom!
But if i watch some tv or moives that move my heart greatly ,my tears are out of my control!
The latest time i cry was my mother met a traffic accident,hurt her brain,she lost all her consciousness. The doctors told that we might lose our mom, we cried! But now ,what the miracle is my mom can speak ,see ,litsen, and get her consciousness,but now she still in the hospital ,we all believe she can recover! God bless my mom!
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I am sorry to hear that Sigmaboy, i hope your mother will recover very soon and may god be with your mother and your family.Sigmaboy wrote:I don't cry in my life,even very sad ,angry,i just be silence,don't say a word! So sometimes my friends tell me my angry face is very very terrible.
But if i watch some tv or moives that move my heart greatly ,my tears are out of my control!
The latest time i cry was my mother met a traffic accident,hurt her brain,she lost all her consciousness. The doctors told that we might lose our mom, we cried! But now ,what the miracle is my mom can speak ,see ,litsen, and get her consciousness,but now she still in the hospital ,we all believe she can recover! God bless my mom!
To me, cry is a kind of release of feeling. if you want to cry, then don't resist.
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Sigmaboy,
I know in a short time your mother will returne to your home, and then you will cry because you will be too happy.
What I said that, because my mother -who died 8 years ago because a cancer into her brain- told me that: "Tell your friend his mother will returne home, but now he must take care of her all the time, understand her and love her too much because God is giving them the oportunity to continious loving each other".
Friends, If a could get all the tears I have trow, maybe in the world would be another ocean, and ocean called ELBA OCEAN, and the beaches next to that ocean would have names like: Beach for the Elba lovers, beach for Elba´s Mom, beach for Elba´s Sister, Beach for Elba´s hapiness, beach for Elba´s sadness, etc.
I know in a short time your mother will returne to your home, and then you will cry because you will be too happy.
What I said that, because my mother -who died 8 years ago because a cancer into her brain- told me that: "Tell your friend his mother will returne home, but now he must take care of her all the time, understand her and love her too much because God is giving them the oportunity to continious loving each other".
Friends, If a could get all the tears I have trow, maybe in the world would be another ocean, and ocean called ELBA OCEAN, and the beaches next to that ocean would have names like: Beach for the Elba lovers, beach for Elba´s Mom, beach for Elba´s Sister, Beach for Elba´s hapiness, beach for Elba´s sadness, etc.
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Thanks Elba. thanks for your compliments!
I think my mom is really very great and strong. Just an hour ago,I gave her a call, now she can speak, and don't need any medicine ,but the doctor said she maybe need for another half a month to look and stay in hospital, and said she could walk! All these for us are the most exciting things!Just as you said , I want to cry now ,it's happy,lucky tears,thanks to god, he gave my mom the second life, he give us a hard-won chance to love her more !
God will bless to you ,mom!!
I think my mom is really very great and strong. Just an hour ago,I gave her a call, now she can speak, and don't need any medicine ,but the doctor said she maybe need for another half a month to look and stay in hospital, and said she could walk! All these for us are the most exciting things!Just as you said , I want to cry now ,it's happy,lucky tears,thanks to god, he gave my mom the second life, he give us a hard-won chance to love her more !
God will bless to you ,mom!!
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ha!!
don't cry, yes, a man must no cry, but a woman cry sometimes was beatiful.
isn't it ?
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Yes, in my country there are a lot of MEN who bother, insult and hit their wives... domestic violence... so those MEN never cry but their WOMEN do cry... and they are so beatiful for those who hit them, when they are crying...
So let's play ancient roles like men don't cry and women have to suffer their behaviours...
PLEASE !! you have a mind, right? use it!!
isn't it ?
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Yes, in my country there are a lot of MEN who bother, insult and hit their wives... domestic violence... so those MEN never cry but their WOMEN do cry... and they are so beatiful for those who hit them, when they are crying...
So let's play ancient roles like men don't cry and women have to suffer their behaviours...
PLEASE !! you have a mind, right? use it!!
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yes, a lot of men are stupid !!
Because crying men look stupid and weak...well thats what I was told....
HA, HA and HA !!
It's not important what do you look like, but what you are.
...oh, but that's only when you have personality !!
When you don't have, you need to behave as others say you.
good bye
HA, HA and HA !!
It's not important what do you look like, but what you are.
...oh, but that's only when you have personality !!
When you don't have, you need to behave as others say you.
good bye
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I think crying or not depends on different situations.
You don't cry even if your dad/ mother dies??
It's unfair. I agree that if men cry mean they are weak. But crying is human instinct, so you don't have any reasons to stop it.
Men can't cry for someone they really love, or are important in their life. No way.
I think the most important thing here is how you stand again after you fail. That all 're in your will, just a little bit of performance.
Thanks.
You don't cry even if your dad/ mother dies??
It's unfair. I agree that if men cry mean they are weak. But crying is human instinct, so you don't have any reasons to stop it.
Men can't cry for someone they really love, or are important in their life. No way.
I think the most important thing here is how you stand again after you fail. That all 're in your will, just a little bit of performance.
Thanks.
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you know I used to cry even while listening to music. sometimes i just couldn't help myself but cry and i know there's nothing better than a good piece of crying when you're angry, dpressed or happy. Crying makes your emotion fade away and then you can sleep peacefully. At least that's how I always feel after I cry... so don't be ashamed to release your emotions! CRY whenever you need to..
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emmm.. i think a crying men only look stupid and weak if he cries because of failure.. 8)Butler wrote:Dixie wrote:Can you tell us why?pob wrote:don't cry, yes, a man must no cry, but a woman cry sometimes was beatiful.
Because crying men look stupid and weak...well thats what I was told....
But... i am a crybaby....easily to be touched especially movie or book regarding parenthood... like to cry while bathing if there is any miserableness and never let anyone know about this....
i always agree cry is a release
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I agree with you! I cry really easily and I hate myself for that.Hummingbird wrote: But... i am a crybaby....easily to be touched especially movie or book regarding parenthood... [...] i always agree cry is a release
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i totally agree. i cry a lot (even with songs, films and books) but i don't think it's bad, as you have said, it helps you to get your feelings out! and crying doen't always mean you're sad...illusion wrote:you know I used to cry even while listening to music. sometimes i just couldn't help myself but cry and i know there's nothing better than a good piece of crying when you're angry, dpressed or happy. Crying makes your emotion fade away and then you can sleep peacefully. At least that's how I always feel after I cry... so don't be ashamed to release your emotions! CRY whenever you need to..
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Re: Don't cry
you don't have to be patiant.
you can express yourself however youfeel.
if you try to do so,yourself will be very happy.
you can express yourself however youfeel.
if you try to do so,yourself will be very happy.
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Don't worrybabyangel wrote:Don't cry That is my advice. Even when you feel lonely, disappointed, bored and tired. Don't need to cry any more but smile, you would feel better
However, I'm afraid of the scene, if the girl I like very much told me that she doesn't want to love me because I'm too silly for her or so, and I wouldn't cry, or, more serious, if I would laugh!
don't worry, again, this won't happen
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Re: Don't cry
babyangel wrote:Don't cry That is my advice. Even when you feel lonely, disappointed, bored and tired. Don't need to cry any more but smile, you would feel better
I believe that our feelings should be shown, but smiles will should prevail!