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Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby hanami » Mon Oct 24, 2005 7:37 am

Is there a love without sexual wants on the earth? I doubt it.
happiness is something you can't foretell

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Re: Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby Dixie » Mon Oct 24, 2005 10:16 am

hanami wrote:Is there a love without sexual wants on the earth? I doubt it.


Of course not! Love and sex are tightly connected.

And why do you call it "pure love"? Can't a love that includes sex be pure? I think we understand the concept pure love in different ways :roll:

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Postby phucauto3 » Mon Oct 24, 2005 12:31 pm

I don't believe!!! love and sex attraction must be together!!
if you're close your girl friend for long, you don't have any sexual feeling.
I'm sure that there's something wrong with you!!
connet to surgeon immediately!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Postby phucauto3 » Mon Oct 24, 2005 1:01 pm

pure love is expressed by the fairness.Love with sex doesn't mean that it's not pure! :roll:

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Postby Rui » Mon Oct 24, 2005 2:29 pm

of course it exist pure love without sex, i love my mum... and you can believe that i have never thought in sex :lol:

in my opinion love and sex are two total different things… i can love women and have never made sex with her, but I can not love a women and have sex with her, isn’t it?  we can have sex with everybody we want… love is not easy, we don’t love always the right person.

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Postby hayah » Mon Oct 24, 2005 4:22 pm

Rui wrote:of course it exist pure love without sex, i love my mum... and you can believe that i have never thought in sex :lol:

in my opinion love and sex are two total different things… i can love women and have never made sex with her, but I can not love a women and have sex with her, isn’t it?  we can have sex with everybody we want… love is not easy, we don’t love always the right person.


totally agree with you,,
love and sex clearly different,,possible tio have love without sex and opposite also.

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Postby hanami » Tue Oct 25, 2005 8:31 am

Ah i made a big mistake of forgetting love is a broad concept. But what i really meant is love between women and man who have no blood connect. What will it be if someone only wants love, not sex?
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Postby Rui » Tue Oct 25, 2005 9:16 am

well, i loved very much a girl but she never liked me :cry: so it was love without sex, but even loving her i had sex, not with her... live is not fair, we live in jungle, but i guess i understood your question, your doubt is if it is possible to have a relationship with other person like boyfriend or girlfriend without sex, well... i have heard many things about that, but personally it would be very difficult :lol: , but who knows... love is not a science.

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Postby MissLT » Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:04 am

I've read some people said something about love that I really liked,
"Love is the one thing that everybody wants to give and to receive. Love is not identical to sex, but may be closely related. Mature love involves mutual respect and shared values. Immature love involves obession and lust."
To me, according to this paragraph, mature love is pure love because making love in mature love is being in love (the love is pure) while making love in immature love is looking for love.

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Re: Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby lukiyas » Thu Nov 10, 2005 2:59 am

Dixie wrote:
hanami wrote:Is there a love without sexual wants on the earth? I doubt it.


Of course not! Love and sex are tightly connected.

And why do you call it "pure love"? Can't a love that includes sex be pure? I think we understand the concept pure love in different ways :roll:


I completely agree with hanami.And i may understand the concept 'pure love' as you do.I think sex is a part of love,of course i'm talking about the relationship between a boy and a girl.I can not imagine a love without sex.
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Postby illusion » Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:09 pm

i believe there is so called ''pure love'' and it happens when it's platonic which means you just love the person from far away not having the slightest chance to have them and your so called ''love'' doesn't come down to thinking about having sex with them...

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Re: Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby abrilhnancyf » Sun Jan 16, 2011 12:53 am

{-; we agree whit your opinion because we think the platonic love can be between men and women.
in our opinion there is another kind of platonic love when just one is in love and the other isn`t in this moment the other become in your platonic friend.

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Re: Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby successman » Tue May 03, 2011 11:03 pm

In my book, if you get married with someone only thanks to their appearance or sexual attraction you must prepare yourself to meet your wife in family court before long. My most important priority is not body and face but heart and mind ...

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Re: Do you believe in a pure love?

Postby monaji » Wed May 04, 2011 3:59 pm

I think love can be without sex .. maybe if you have the same opinions in something great in your life.


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