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How can you med a broken HEART?

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Hello.. this is me again...!!! I want to share my experience with you all....and, I want you to help me to get over about a fact that happened to me .... actually. I fell in love with a boy who never loved me 4 years ago..I used to be in love until he got married and had a child... but...I think I won't stop loving him.. when I see him my heart Begins to beat very fast...I want to kiss him.. hold him.. I DON'T KNOW.. but he doesn't.. even he seperated his wife(a 18 year old girl too) He neither see me... mmm I don't know.. well... that's all..

I wanted to share with u and now I feel better..

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:roll: there're many good men around.you should Think more about your future. That love will lead to nothing, but misery. Play sport,stay far away him, leave him alone. This is a good way for you. have fun and enjoy the life. :wink:
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i guess puchauto3 it's right... come on, take a look in the mirror, don't you think that you deserve better than the other guy, i'm sure that you will find much better than him and you will be happy :wink:
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I believe that out of sight, out of mind. Stay away from him and try to concentrate in your life, then his influence on you may gradually fade away. But if you really love him and you think he indeed deserves your love, then continue to love him, even though he doesn't love you. Love is something that can make us insensible :wink:
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As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
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Estrellita wrote:As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
You know, I think that's actually true: Whenever I feel sad or depressed, and then I go to work, I suddenly forget everything and enjoy what I am doing.
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oOh thank u so much for your words....

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Dixie wrote:
Estrellita wrote:As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
You know, I think that's actually true: Whenever I feel sad or depressed, and then I go to work, I suddenly forget everything and enjoy what I am doing.
THANK U SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS! I REALLY NEEDED 'EM
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Hi there..!

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Dixie wrote:
Estrellita wrote:As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
You know, I think that's actually true: Whenever I feel sad or depressed, and then I go to work, I suddenly forget everything and enjoy what I am doing.
Hi.. I just want to thank you for gave me your advise, opinion... It means a lot for me so that I can get over this situation... thank u so much!!!
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hi dear Oriani

well, first of all
*he didnt love you as you loved him :
did you try show him that you love him !!!or try to show him
that you are caring about him !!!!

if you dont** then, it is your proplum :) !!!

i mean you had to show him you love ,,to till him that you love him,, maybe he had the same feeling to you, but he was not sure if you love him or not !!!!
BUT,, everythig hase gone now Oriani

* he got marred and now he have kids:
- this is a good reason to forget him !!! dont you think so !!
you should forget every thing about him , and open and page in your heart. and cut the old page which was incompleted!!

find the guy who diserved you,,, who really you think he is intested in you and who loves you .....
good luck :wink:


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I don't know were the problem is, he didn't rob any money from you, right? So were is the problem...
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TO ADMIRAL

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TO ADMIRAL: OBVIOUSLY YOU DIDN'T UNDERSTAND MY POST.. IF U WANT, READ IT SLOWLY SO THAT YOU CAN UNDERSTAND BEFORE YOU POST SOMETHING.... KISSES AND THANKS ANYWAY. ... WITH LOVE.. ORI...! :P ......

Ps: But I'm Ok now I think.. Now Maybe I've found a new love very far from me.. but I don't know yet.
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Okokok, you don't have to get upset. Of course I know that the boy in whom you fell in love doesn't like you.
But that's also why I don't see the problem.

Because you can get another one very easily, or even more easy on the internet, as you have done, so ,the problem vanished. And now it's really inconsequent to say: yeah I felt sad here but I feel happy now, only because of an internet boyfriend.

Surely you will dislike my idea, but I really want to tell you that I really think that internet love is really stupid. And I really tell you that maybe you will feel happy for a little period of time, but that this is only temporary, for sure.
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Hi Admiral.. I didn't get upset :( why should I? I'm not a narrowminded person.. I'm a sweet girl ok? and thank u for your advise.. I know that it'll help me a lot.. and well.. I'll try to do my best and get over the situation.. thanks.... kisses!!!!!!!!!

See u next time.. take care... :P
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oh sorry I misunderstood
happy birthday! And don't forget my alcohol!
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thanks

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Oh yeah my dear friend Admiral, you missunderstood.. but it's ok.. it always happens :lol: ... thanks for Congratulate to me today which is my birthday.. thank u... see u inside.. kisses :P
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sometime and somewhere you may meet someone who may be suitable to you!
good luck,myfriend!
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thank u

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Thanks dear chayedan, Believe me that I'm working on that!!!!! And thanks to all people who are written to me... thank u. I love u all..
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Don't worry child, live itself will let you know the right time you'll be ready again.
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keko wrote:Don't worry child, live itself will let you know the right time you'll be ready again.
Oh Thank u so much.. I know I will, but now I feel I can't.....I'm trying to do my best... I hope to deal with it..!
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you know I think that time heals every wound no matter how deep it is. I s'pose you have to be patient and everything will eventually turn out for the good. Good Luck, babe ;-)
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Hi dear Ilussion.. By the way : Nice picture..!!!
Returning to the topic I HAVEN'T FOUND THE solution to my problem yet.. Now I don't know what to do. This's getting worse and worse evryday in my heart.. :?
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Oriani wrote:Hi dear Ilussion.. By the way : Nice picture..!!!
Returning to the topic I HAVEN'T FOUND THE solution to my problem yet.. Now I don't know what to do. This's getting worse and worse evryday in my heart.. :?
thanks :) Honey, I think I know what you feel like. I have been unhappy in love for 2 years, been through a serious depression and some breakdowns and I really stopped believing that one day it would turn for the good and you know I have infatuated once again...Life is full of surprises, Oriani.You never know what could happen...I wish you all the luck and strength to get through this. I hope you will get better soon. :-)
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Yeah, think positive, you never know that the guy next to you is not interested in you.
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Admiral wrote:Yeah, think positive, you never know that the guy next to you is not interested in you.

AhhhhhhhhhAHHHHH!!!!! JUST I CAN'T.. IT'S SO HARD! :cry:
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Oriani wrote:
Admiral wrote:Yeah, think positive, you never know that the guy next to you is not interested in you.

AhhhhhhhhhAHHHHH!!!!! JUST I CAN'T.. IT'S SO HARD! :cry:
listen...you're not the only one. I for instace am really silly when it comes to love stuff like I used to be in love for a long while with this metal-freak whose only hobby was either drinking cheap wine or playing in his punk band which sucked by the way and to me he was truly wonderful. How stupid is that? And now I am infatuated with a really sweet and fabulous guy...he seems really normal and so on but he wants to become a priest!!!!!!! How lucky is that? I am just hopeless and I decided to give up on everything. I want to forget about such a crappy thing like love... And I do hope it will happen one day. I think you will forget. I mean not fully forget but it won't hurt that much after a while...the time will ease your pain... let's hope so...
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I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS! :oops:
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Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS! :oops:
On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)
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illusion wrote:
Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS! :oops:
On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)
You're pretty right!! and Thanks.. I think I'm getting better!!!! :P
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Oriani wrote:
illusion wrote:
Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS! :oops:
On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)
You're pretty right!! and Thanks.. I think I'm getting better!!!! :P
Good to know :):):)
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