I hate my life
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I hate my life
I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
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Dear Oriani, I am sorry to hear that such a lovely person like yourself is saying she hates her life. Don't you ever say that! Think of the children of Africa who have no homes and no food...Usually when I get really depressed about my life and so on I picture all the people whose lives are so much harder and it makes me realise that after all I'm not as unhappy as I thought. I hope that the taugh time you're going through right now is a temporary thing and soon enough you will feel better. But for now, try to think more positive and see yourself as everyone here sees you, which is a really decent and nice person. take care!
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Oh, Oriani, it really breaks my heart to read those words from you. That nice, lovely, cheerful Venezuelan girl, what happened to you, sweetie? What's wrong? Do you want to tell us? What makes you feel like that? What happened?
I feel depressed sometimes too, you know. And most times my best solution is to talk to my friends. Try not to be alone for so long when you feel down...
Anyway, we'll be always here for you, Oriani. You can count on us so if you want to share your feelings, we'll be ready to give you some advice ;)
I feel depressed sometimes too, you know. And most times my best solution is to talk to my friends. Try not to be alone for so long when you feel down...
Anyway, we'll be always here for you, Oriani. You can count on us so if you want to share your feelings, we'll be ready to give you some advice ;)
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Read few of yours reply & response,
I would rather take liberty to crack ye problem, im not sure if im correct, but if incase im wrong do let me know.
It could be that your tired with the competition around: I mean I have encountered enough number of people who get into kinda of phobia/ depression with the over wounding competition around. Is that the same with you, or that the reason why you are worried, it very normal. You just have to understand the fact they are matter then you, but that doesn’t implicate that you don’t deserve to top.
The very next thing could be, might be you are expecting something. If this the case, then just go convey the message saying/asking what you expecting from whom (parents\bf).
Or, is that your grounded with people who always criticize or tend to have negative attitude?
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Put some excitement between your legs............ride horse
I would rather take liberty to crack ye problem, im not sure if im correct, but if incase im wrong do let me know.
It could be that your tired with the competition around: I mean I have encountered enough number of people who get into kinda of phobia/ depression with the over wounding competition around. Is that the same with you, or that the reason why you are worried, it very normal. You just have to understand the fact they are matter then you, but that doesn’t implicate that you don’t deserve to top.
The very next thing could be, might be you are expecting something. If this the case, then just go convey the message saying/asking what you expecting from whom (parents\bf).
Or, is that your grounded with people who always criticize or tend to have negative attitude?
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Put some excitement between your legs............ride horse
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Re: I hate my life
Oriani wrote:I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
Every one of us or most of us feel that our life suck big time and we are not able to deal with it. But its not that bad you know,yeah not all your days will be good and perfect and not all of it will be bad and sad.I don't like my life either but I try to breath in and out every day,try to survive,try to live one day at a time.
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Everyone have hard time during life journey.Try to take the bright side of your life.let me set a scene for you: a half glass of beer in front of you,the positive one will think 'it is ok that the half glass of beer is still left;the negative one will think that the other half glass is empty.
Which one would you want to be?
Which one would you want to be?
I fight,I conquer,I enjoy
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Re: I hate my life
I have felt in that feeling sometimes, the more I think like that the less I solve my works. Let's think about something which is near to you and you can deal with it first, after that think farther. YOu can deal with everything which is in your ability, I believe it. ANd life always has a lot of hardship to test your stand. Once you have enough skill and spirit to overcome all of them, that means you are really mature.Oriani wrote:I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
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i also have this feeling that im not useful for the other
sometime i cry ,especiall in the night because its only time that u can be lonely and no one can feel u..
....sometimes i feel guilty that i cannot do things to the other and the other did things for me...
its makes my angry and hate myself..ooooooooooof
so sad
:(
sometime i cry ,especiall in the night because its only time that u can be lonely and no one can feel u..
....sometimes i feel guilty that i cannot do things to the other and the other did things for me...
its makes my angry and hate myself..ooooooooooof
so sad
:(
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Re: I hate my life
i used to think thesame.. but it didn't do me any good..really.. i had to start with myself.. i guess i just needed a little help from friends..they reminded me that ..hey.. you're more fortunate, more talented, more blessed than some people somewhere out there.. so you just have to believe in yourself.. just be positive Oriani..Oriani wrote:I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
When all else fails..don't stop.
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Thank u so much for your advise!! Thank u all my dear EC family..!!! It tauched my heart.. maybe I'm laughing and being sweet just because it's the only way I can cover my sadness even though the pain is still in me.. I know it sounds like Drama.. but bad, terrible memories has come again to me, and all the marks that were left on me remind me that ... I don't know.. like what I'm living for???
I know everybody through for those kind of situation ( well not everybody I think) but my destiny is like this .. I didn't choose it... I can't tell because I'm not ready enough to get over it yet!
Thank u so much and so sorry If I leave abd come back EC all the time.. but sometimes I can't put up with insulting messages and it makes wonder "what's going on here?" and I just get confused!!
Well...I'm glad u helped me out with it!!!
I'll let u know as soon as I get better!
KISSES KISSES..
LOve u all!!!
God Bless u! :P
I know everybody through for those kind of situation ( well not everybody I think) but my destiny is like this .. I didn't choose it... I can't tell because I'm not ready enough to get over it yet!
Thank u so much and so sorry If I leave abd come back EC all the time.. but sometimes I can't put up with insulting messages and it makes wonder "what's going on here?" and I just get confused!!
Well...I'm glad u helped me out with it!!!
I'll let u know as soon as I get better!
KISSES KISSES..
LOve u all!!!
God Bless u! :P
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Yes... also If u love, u suffer,, If u suffer, for sure you'll be loved...zaman wrote:i am so sorry to hear that , but i think you must be more confident in yourself to achive everything in this life , and you want to know that we are creat in life to work and to be sad and to be happy
that is all
take care of yourself
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Re: I hate my life
I'm doing my best and my dad told me thatIf I want to leave my suffering, I must stop thinking about I came to this world for nothing...I've reached many things.. my music life.. my studies etc.. but u know?? I feel like a stand by.. like "so?"TearHere wrote:i used to think thesame.. but it didn't do me any good..really.. i had to start with myself.. i guess i just needed a little help from friends..they reminded me that ..hey.. you're more fortunate, more talented, more blessed than some people somewhere out there.. so you just have to believe in yourself.. just be positive Oriani..Oriani wrote:I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
But it's ok.. I know this world changes every second..maybe my destiny changes also...!! Thank u!
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Iknow but for sure we're gonna be blesse by God!. well.. all of us!eman wrote:i also have this feeling that im not useful for the other
sometime i cry ,especiall in the night because its only time that u can be lonely and no one can feel u..
....sometimes i feel guilty that i cannot do things to the other and the other did things for me...
its makes my angry and hate myself..ooooooooooof
so sad
:(
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Dear Dixie, You're really sweet.. thank u for your wonderful great words!! Really....!!!!Dixie wrote:Oh, Oriani, it really breaks my heart to read those words from you. That nice, lovely, cheerful Venezuelan girl, what happened to you, sweetie? What's wrong? Do you want to tell us? What makes you feel like that? What happened?
I feel depressed sometimes too, you know. And most times my best solution is to talk to my friends. Try not to be alone for so long when you feel down...
Anyway, we'll be always here for you, Oriani. You can count on us so if you want to share your feelings, we'll be ready to give you some advice ;)
I love u all!!!
God bless u Dix! :P
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Hhahaha you're sweet.. I hope you were one of those lovers.. haha :PRui wrote:well, of course she has written that just to have laugh with our commentaries, cant you see everybody that oriani has lovers all over the world that girls its an international success, probably to big to live in venezuela forever
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Oohhh you're totally right...illusion wrote:Dear Oriani, I am sorry to hear that such a lovely person like yourself is saying she hates her life. Don't you ever say that! Think of the children of Africa who have no homes and no food...Usually when I get really depressed about my life and so on I picture all the people whose lives are so much harder and it makes me realise that after all I'm not as unhappy as I thought. I hope that the taugh time you're going through right now is a temporary thing and soon enough you will feel better. But for now, try to think more positive and see yourself as everyone here sees you, which is a really decent and nice person. take care!
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I wouldn't want the empty oneTonyoung wrote:Everyone have hard time during life journey.Try to take the bright side of your life.let me set a scene for you: a half glass of beer in front of you,the positive one will think 'it is ok that the half glass of beer is still left;the negative one will think that the other half glass is empty.
Which one would you want to be?
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Dear Oriani,
Firstable, sorry for my lateness, I know since almost 11 days you are suffering and I´m a fool lady who don´t visit all the forums and as a consecuences I haven´t tell you anything in order you feel better. Fool fool and fool Elba!
I musto to tell you that life has only two seconds, Yeah girl! two seconds, one second to be born and a second to die. The INTERMEDIATE is what you must to built. What you want to do in the intermediate, suffer?, be happy? cry? Smile? is your choise, but be carefull girl because your choise will say us if you are an intelligent woman, a brave woman or a poor, little, fragile, fool, inmature girl.
I think youre option will be the first and I hope don´t get a deception of my favorit latinamerican girl Oriani.
Please DEAR take your life in your hands, you´re intelligent, brave, beautifull, cheerfull, you have all in the life to be the best, remember JUST DO IT!
Firstable, sorry for my lateness, I know since almost 11 days you are suffering and I´m a fool lady who don´t visit all the forums and as a consecuences I haven´t tell you anything in order you feel better. Fool fool and fool Elba!
I musto to tell you that life has only two seconds, Yeah girl! two seconds, one second to be born and a second to die. The INTERMEDIATE is what you must to built. What you want to do in the intermediate, suffer?, be happy? cry? Smile? is your choise, but be carefull girl because your choise will say us if you are an intelligent woman, a brave woman or a poor, little, fragile, fool, inmature girl.
I think youre option will be the first and I hope don´t get a deception of my favorit latinamerican girl Oriani.
Please DEAR take your life in your hands, you´re intelligent, brave, beautifull, cheerfull, you have all in the life to be the best, remember JUST DO IT!
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Thanks Dear Elba.. for sure I'll take ur advise; I already talked to my parents about it and at least I could find a little bit of support from them, thanks God.. I'll do the rest.. it's up to me... :PElba wrote:Dear Oriani,
Firstable, sorry for my lateness, I know since almost 11 days you are suffering and I´m a fool lady who don´t visit all the forums and as a consecuences I haven´t tell you anything in order you feel better. Fool fool and fool Elba!
I musto to tell you that life has only two seconds, Yeah girl! two seconds, one second to be born and a second to die. The INTERMEDIATE is what you must to built. What you want to do in the intermediate, suffer?, be happy? cry? Smile? is your choise, but be carefull girl because your choise will say us if you are an intelligent woman, a brave woman or a poor, little, fragile, fool, inmature girl.
I think youre option will be the first and I hope don´t get a deception of my favorit latinamerican girl Oriani.
Please DEAR take your life in your hands, you´re intelligent, brave, beautifull, cheerfull, you have all in the life to be the best, remember JUST DO IT!
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This "again-remember" seems me good for your psychological health.Oriani wrote:I know it sounds like Drama.. but bad, terrible memories has come again to me, and all the marks that were left on me remind me that ... I don't know.. like what I'm living for???
Some people think that "There will be an answer. Let it be.".Oriani wrote:I don't know.. like what I'm living for?
But some others people think like said in some songs of "Les Cowboys Fringants" :
"Peut-être qu'au fond le vrai plaisir
c'est de pas savoir comment va finir ta petite histoire."
Maybe the real way of enjoying is when you don't know how your sorry will end.
"Beaucoup de choses plus grandes,
plus grandes que nous.
Mais peut-être que des fois,
ya tout simplement rien,
rien à comprendre."
Many thing greater,
greater than us.
But maybe that sometimes,
there is all simply nothing,
nothing to understand.
"Parce qu'avec toi,
j'ai plus le goût de m'en faire.
Parce que voir trop loin,
c'est pas mieux que de regarder en arrière."
Because, when I am with you,
I don't enjoy anymore worrying.
Because seeing too far
is not better than watching behind.
Shokin
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OOOooh Merci ( Thanks) It made ME blush I can see how sweet you are.. Thank u!shokin wrote:This "again-remember" seems me good for your psychological health.Oriani wrote:I know it sounds like Drama.. but bad, terrible memories has come again to me, and all the marks that were left on me remind me that ... I don't know.. like what I'm living for???
Some people think that "There will be an answer. Let it be.".Oriani wrote:I don't know.. like what I'm living for?
But some others people think like said in some songs of "Les Cowboys Fringants" :
"Peut-être qu'au fond le vrai plaisir
c'est de pas savoir comment va finir ta petite histoire."
Maybe the real way of enjoying is when you don't know how your sorry will end.
"Beaucoup de choses plus grandes,
plus grandes que nous.
Mais peut-être que des fois,
ya tout simplement rien,
rien à comprendre."
Many thing greater,
greater than us.
But maybe that sometimes,
there is all simply nothing,
nothing to understand.
"Parce qu'avec toi,
j'ai plus le goût de m'en faire.
Parce que voir trop loin,
c'est pas mieux que de regarder en arrière."
Because, when I am with you,
I don't enjoy anymore worrying.
Because seeing too far
is not better than watching behind.
Shokin
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Sheer up
In spite of, I'm not an active member of EC, I always read your posts and I have found behind them a good, intelligent, sweet and sensitive, person. So that, I'm so sorry to hear you to speak that way.
Dear girl, your life is at the beginning, keep on trying and never give up your dreams.
keko
Dear girl, your life is at the beginning, keep on trying and never give up your dreams.
keko
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Re: Sheer up
Bravo !keko wrote:your life is at the beginning, keep on trying and never give up your dreams.
keko
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Thank u dear I changed my mind now!keko wrote:In spite of, I'm not an active member of EC, I always read your posts and I have found behind them a good, intelligent, sweet and sensitive, person. So that, I'm so sorry to hear you to speak that way.
Dear girl, your life is at the beginning, keep on trying and never give up your dreams.
keko
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Re: I hate my life
These days I am feeling the same as you. However it is not good to be desperate but really fedup.Oriani wrote:I can't deal with my life... I've got many useful things in my life.. but I feel that I am not good enough for this world.
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OMG- I have forgotten that I wrote this. It really surprises me how bad I was feeling at that time. Thank God I have grown up to deal with my problems.. I was barely 19 years old at the time I posted this topic... it's been 5 years since then...
Thanks for your replies, guys!
Kisses.
Thanks for your replies, guys!
Kisses.
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Thanks God you have grown up, or else I dont know howmany other EC members you would have made sad and disappointed on your this post.Oriani wrote:OMG- I have forgotten that I wrote this. It really surprises me how bad I was feeling at that time. Thank God I have grown up to deal with my problems.. I was barely 19 years old at the time I posted this topic... it's been 5 years since then...
Thanks for your replies, guys!
Kisses.
Hope everything is going well now. Have good moments ahead
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Re: I hate my life
I don't know you Oriani. But I'm very happy you've overcome that disappointment. Anyway, if sometime you need someone to speak... here I am.
Best regards from Catalonia.
Best regards from Catalonia.