What do you think that 14-year-old girls bear a baby?

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What do you think that 14-year-old girls bear a baby?

Postby Ginnan » Fri Jan 19, 2007 3:02 am

Recentry, the drama that a 14-year-old girl had a baby was popular in Japan. It is very rare to have a baby when we are so young in Japan. How about your country?
I think it is too early. Because I can not do what I want to do with a baby. What do you think?

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Postby MissLT » Fri Jan 19, 2007 5:36 am

:roll: A kid's having a kid is never a good thing. She shouldn't keep it. If she has others's support, then by all means keep the baby since he/she is innocent.

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Re: What do you think that 14-year-old girls bear a baby?

Postby Oriani » Sat Jan 20, 2007 3:29 pm

Ginnan wrote:Recentry, the drama that a 14-year-old girl had a baby was popular in Japan. It is very rare to have a baby when we are so young in Japan. How about your country?
I think it is too early. Because I can not do what I want to do with a baby. What do you think?


It happens here also!!! That's too sad because, you know, at 14 age you don't have the necessary conditions of having a baby! That's what I think! But If they were responsable enough to have sex, so they HAVE to be more responsable to have the child... That makes me angry :evil:

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Postby Rui » Sat Jan 20, 2007 3:52 pm

i would call it a terrible accident :lol:

sorry, now trying to be a bit more serious, its also something that happens here, and we can only complain about the rules of the society we live in, the real issue here is that parents should give all the information to their sons in order to prevent such terrible mistakes, although they are more likely to pretend that nothing will happens because their sons are to young for such things, and then they cant even imagine how ironic life can be when it happens, we should be here discussing if its to early or not to have sex with that age, the fact is that they do have sex and we cannot pretend that nothing happens, so if they do lets try to minimize the risk of getting pregnant or even worst prevent sexual infections

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Postby Chet Baker » Mon May 14, 2007 7:09 am

:!: :!: I think that the government, the school and the parents should promote the use of condoms among school children by all means necessary. In fact, These people cannot stop what their children want to do. That's why, they can only tell their children the likely consequence of sex including transmission of venereal disease and having a child.

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Postby ahmedxzxz » Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:05 am

I think that families' care on their kids should be broaden to include this subject which affects the society in a positive way.Mothers should pay attention to their young girls and teach them how to control their sexual needs in a good manner..I mean that they have a role to tell the girls that marriage is the only way to satsify their needs ,and not to behave in such a way that results in bad things.

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Postby CityYoung » Thu Jun 14, 2007 12:56 am

it's too earlly to have a kid in that age . but grandmother can take care of her kid and her kid's kid LOL

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Postby InLove » Wed Jun 20, 2007 10:19 am

Really not good for herself, for her family, for others.

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Postby nhinhilove » Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:37 pm

In my country's ethnic minorities, a woman can bear babies when she's just 12 - it's unbelievable. And she still has a good life with her husband, her kids, she doesn't go to school, just sitting at home & doing chore.

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Postby Bambang » Sun Jul 15, 2007 2:41 pm

Chet Baker wrote::!: :!: I think that the government, the school and the parents should promote the use of condoms among school children by all means necessary.



Using condoms is not the solution my friend.
It's just spreading free sex.

In addition to that, condoms are not 100 % effective to avoid pregnancy.

Just enlighten your children by giving them the concept of morality instead of teaching them how to use comdoms.

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Postby Nanning » Sun Jul 15, 2007 2:58 pm

as far as I know, in the tragedy of Shakespeare,Romeo and Juliet, Juliet was 14 years old when she died and had been in love for a while.
So what is the fuss about a young mother? Charity starts at home, doesn't it?

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Postby MissLT » Sun Jul 15, 2007 5:28 pm

Was she a mother before she died?

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Postby Dixie » Sun Jul 15, 2007 8:59 pm

bambang wrote:

Using condoms is not the solution my friend.
It's just spreading free sex.


In addition to that, condoms are not 100 % effective to avoid pregnancy.

Just enlighten your children by giving them the concept of morality instead of teaching them how to use comdoms.


Just a couple questions:

-What's wrong with free sex?

-Condoms are not the only type contraceptives.

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Postby Oriani » Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:06 pm

Nanning wrote:as far as I know, in the tragedy of Shakespeare,Romeo and Juliet, Juliet was 14 years old when she died and had been in love for a while.
So what is the fuss about a young mother? Charity starts at home, doesn't it?


She was 15!!! :wink:

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Postby Oriani » Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:07 pm

Dixie wrote:
bambang wrote:

Using condoms is not the solution my friend.
It's just spreading free sex.


In addition to that, condoms are not 100 % effective to avoid pregnancy.

Just enlighten your children by giving them the concept of morality instead of teaching them how to use comdoms.


Just a couple questions:

-What's wrong with free sex?

-Condoms are not the only type contraceptives.


Nowadays there are several options!! I'm very surprised!!!! :wink:

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Condoms Vs Free Sex.

Postby Bambang » Mon Jul 16, 2007 6:46 am

Oriani wrote:
Dixie wrote:
bambang wrote:

Using condoms is not the solution my friend.
It's just spreading free sex.


In addition to that, condoms are not 100 % effective to avoid pregnancy.

Just enlighten your children by giving them the concept of morality instead of teaching them how to use comdoms.


Just a couple questions:

-What's wrong with free sex?

-Condoms are not the only type contraceptives.


Nowadays there are several options!! I'm very surprised!!!! :wink:



My dearest daughters.

Uncle doesn't want to talk about religious things in this forum.

But one thing for sure, the HIV/AIDS is dramatically increasing in countries where free sex is let.

Why don't we just campaign to oppose free sex?
It's much cheaper than campaining the use of condoms.

My daughters, do your spouses or boyfriends use condoms? :roll:

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Re: Condoms Vs Free Sex.

Postby Dixie » Mon Jul 16, 2007 6:52 am

bambang wrote:My dearest daughters.



I didn't know my dad was Indonesian :shock:


bambang wrote:Uncle doesn't want to talk about religious things in this forum.


I thought we were talking about sex.

bambang wrote:
But one thing for sure, the HIV/AIDS is dramatically increasing in countries where free sex is let.



What countries are those?

If that happens, it's not because of free sex. It's because of human stupidity. It's not that difficult to use contraceptives!

bambang wrote:
My daughters, do your spouses or boyfriends use condoms? :roll:


Sorry that's none of your business.

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Condoms Vs Free Sex 2.

Postby Bambang » Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:56 am

Dixie wrote:I didn't know my dad was Indonesian :shock:


I'm not Dixie's dad.
I am her uncle.
I wish she weren't a rebellious child.



bambang wrote:Uncle doesn't want to talk about religious things in this forum.


Dixie wrote:I thought we were talking about sex.


My dear Dixie!

You are turning me on !!!



bambang wrote:But one thing for sure, the HIV/AIDS is dramatically increasing in countries where free sex is let.


Dixie wrote:What countries are those?


Thailand is one of them.



Dixie wrote:If that happens, it's not because of free sex. It's because of human stupidity. It's not that difficult to use contraceptives!


That's why it's stupid to do that stupid thing.
Don't do it my dear. It's not good.

My dear, it seems that my dear is very experienced in the field of contraceptives.

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Re: Condoms Vs Free Sex 2.

Postby Dixie » Mon Jul 16, 2007 12:03 pm

bambang wrote:I'm not Dixie's dad.
I am her uncle.


Wow an uncle... great. I'm just wondering why my uncle calls me "daughter" and then denies being my father... interesting.

Bamgang wrote:My dear, it seems that my dear is very experienced in the field of contraceptives.


I haven't taught you any lesson about them so I don't know where you got such conclusions.

Anyway I will never understand some ways of thinking :roll:

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Postby Dixie » Mon Jul 16, 2007 12:28 pm

Rasheed wrote:
Dixie wrote:-What's wrong with free sex?


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Good answer.

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Postby Nanning » Mon Jul 16, 2007 1:40 pm

To whom it may concern
Free sex is fine with me.
There is nothing wrong with free sex as long as the opposite party is not your family member or your pets.
Condom or no condom that is a matter of choice, the society is hard to raise you and please do not add more burden to it with your f***! Clean your mess!


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