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To say "I love You"

Post by Oriani » Mon Mar 19, 2007 6:18 pm

Hello, EC friends. I decided to write these lines to advise you to say " I love you" to some one who you really love and care about.

A good friend of mine called me last week to remind me about his b-day last Friday 16th.... he died on Thursday 15th, before his b-day, (two days after he called me). I told him that I loved him.. but I feel it wasn't enough... I wanted to tell him that he was my friend... my beloved friend.. but I thought " Oh, I better say it later·...... now it is too late...


I got the news today. I can't stop crying... :cry:
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Post by tenron » Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:31 pm

I'm so sorry.I don't know what I should say...but grief dosen't fade away quickly.Time will tell.

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Post by Dexter » Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:44 am

dear oriana, i'm so sorry to hear that. it's really hard to say something in situations like this. words can hardly do anything.

i hope time will help you get along with this and recover soon. it's hard but you can get over it.

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Post by Dixie » Tue Mar 20, 2007 10:09 am

Don't know what to say, Oriana, except that you are right in that we should never leave it for another day. We should let our people know that we love them anytime we can, because we cannot possibly know what is going to happen tomorrow.

So sorry to hear about your friend, honey. Hope you're alright. Like they said above, words can't hardly do anything to ease your pain. Just let time heal it a little.

And remember that WE LOVE YOU.

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Post by mr_Love » Tue Mar 20, 2007 1:54 pm

i'm so sorry dear Oriana.

my brother's brother died on SAT by an accendent in the Desert. he crash a camel by his car and he got a wound in his head.... he was bleeding and bleeding...
after 2 Houres he died.... he is only 26 Years olad.


i was really shocked ,,i a;wayes consedr him as my brother. i didt had a chanse to tell him that.i study in the capital and he worked in Desert.


it is better to say I LOVE YOU to someone befor it is " too Late "

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Post by Vega » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:14 pm

don't know what to say...our alive life spinning around the death, and I still wonder why...Hope you're ok, Oriani. :(

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Post by babara » Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:10 pm

I'm really so sorry too,Dear! :(

The death is really sad thing but don't know what to say ..I really want to you feel better and know It's hard to do that and like everyone time will heal it. However if be optimistic this can make you know what you should do before it's too late and not only you but me and everyone know also.
Yes ..We love you, Dear Oriani. Don't cry ..don't be sad ...Ok? Hope you will feel better soon.

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Post by Dixie » Wed Mar 21, 2007 8:05 am

mr_Love wrote: my brother's brother died on SAT by an accendent in the Desert.
He was not your brother?

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Post by Oriani » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:47 pm

Tenron: Thank you!
Dexter:
i hope time will help you get along with this and recover soon. it's hard but you can get over it.
Thanks, my friend!!

Dixie:
Just let time heal it a little.
You're right. Everytime that I close my eyes, I see his face... it's a very uncofortable feeling.

Mr. Love: I'm sorry about your half-brother but at least now our beloved people are in better hands ...

Xkalibur:
Hope you're ok, Oriani.
Thank for yor words.

Babara. Thanks for your support.! :)

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Post by Fatamorgana » Fri Mar 23, 2007 4:59 pm

Love it's a word without letters and sounds.
Maybe, he heards you tell "i love you" in a sight, or a gesture.
A hug or... a "cyberhug" ?
:roll:

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Post by Oriani » Sat Mar 24, 2007 12:56 am

Fatamorgana wrote:Love it's a word without letters and sounds.
Maybe, he heards you tell "i love you" in a sight, or a gesture.
A hug or... a "cyberhug" ?
:roll:
I just really hope so!!!!

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Post by MooNboy » Sat Mar 24, 2007 6:53 pm

Hey oriani, please stop crying.
I don't want good people like you cry.
Yes, it's late now.But you said that you love him.
Think: What if you didn't tell these words?

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Post by Oriani » Sun Mar 25, 2007 12:52 am

MooNboy wrote: What if you didn't tell these words?
Yes! Thanks for telling me those words! :wink:

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Post by idalia » Sun Mar 25, 2007 3:01 am

Oriani, I'm really sorry about your friend. I was shocked when I read your post, the first time you knew about me I told you about my dad's death and you gave me your support.

Now I really don't know what to say...just remember your friend with joy...the good moments with him and be sure that wherever he is now he knows how big you LOVE is.

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Re: To say "I love You"

Post by imad » Sun Mar 25, 2007 9:02 am

I'm so sorry to heard this, but please oriana stop crying for the love of your friend, you said that it's too late to say that you love him, but the important is you really do.

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Post by Oriani » Sun Mar 25, 2007 2:52 pm

Idalia
Oriani, I'm really sorry about your friend. I was shocked when I read your post, the first time you knew about me I told you about my dad's death and you gave me your support
Oh yes, well, I realized that they are living in a better place now.

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I really did and I really do. He was very nice with me but I feel that I didn't give him that love that he wanted me to give him. Well, I know he's in Heaven and he knows what I felt inside when he was alive. Thanks. :)

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Post by MooNboy » Sun Mar 25, 2007 3:42 pm

Hey Oriani, I hope you don't cry anymore about that.You see the support, and time passed by...
It's interesting that although I didn't see you, I felt bad today while I was thinking of tears that falling from your beautiful eyes...

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Post by Dexter » Sun Mar 25, 2007 3:53 pm

Dear Oriani, I hope you're better now.

Just like what MooNboy said, I was the same. Without having met or seen you I felt sad.

You're right. He knows what feeling you had and have for him and surely he doesn't wish to see you sad. So try to stop being sad. In that way he'll be happy, too.

I hope you'll be alright soon.

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Post by mamuta » Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:07 pm

Oriani, I'm really sorry about your friend. I hope time will help you.
And, dear fellows, it's a clue for us. Our poet said
Let's hurry up with loving people, they leave us so early We should remember it every day...

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Post by Oriani » Tue Mar 27, 2007 7:04 pm

Thank you, Dexter, MooNboy and mamuta :P !! Thanks for giving me support! :)

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Post by Dexter » Tue Apr 03, 2007 6:31 am

You're welcome, Oriani :)

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Post by ilargia » Tue Apr 03, 2007 8:44 pm

Oriani, Mr. Love, all my love. I think that people´s life has two parts: the first one, in which you don´t really know the meaning of having lost a love-one and the second, in which you feel shocked by it. Unfortunately you both are in your second part.

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Post by Oriani » Tue Apr 03, 2007 10:52 pm

Yes, we are, but you know, this is something that we can't avoid since we were born -death-. It's hard to say goodbye when someone is moving to somewhere else, or taking a trip .. etc.. Imagine how hard it is when someone who you love passes away- :(

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Post by ilargia » Wed Apr 04, 2007 8:10 am

You feel if someone would hurt your heart and the worst is that there isn´t no one. Therefore, you have to do the effort of understanding it, we must understand such an unwelcome injustice.
All my love, again.

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Post by Oriani » Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:02 pm

ilargia wrote:You feel if someone would hurt your heart and the worst is that there isn´t no one. Therefore, you have to do the effort of understanding it, we must understand such an unwelcome injustice.
All my love, again.
Yes!! That's true!

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Post by eman » Mon Apr 09, 2007 5:30 am

I'm sorry for you...Oriani

It happened to me also..i lost on of my relative in a bad an accident before 2 weeks.i did'nt see him for a long time.
It is so sad and hard to lost someone suddnely..

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