How many chance u give to others to change?

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How many chance u give to others to change?

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How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk
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Don't ever give up hope.
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well..it's said that dont give a person any chance.if he made a mistake once then he will do it again.it's not my opinion))
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olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk
If a person can't change himself, it is his problem.
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olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk
There's always a point of realization. How the person realizes will depend on the person alone.
I don't think you have to change the person, this is selfish...and if you're a true friend why do you give up?


I love your avatar, olfa.
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krisi wrote:
olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk
There's always a point of realization. How the person realizes will depend on the person alone.

I love your avatar, olfa.
After the realization period, the decision to change (for the better or worst) will always depend on him/her alone.
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Two or three and then when i fedup so i take action
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