Let's learn together!

[SitangCampus]

Hi, Behnam!

Before we know it very clearly, it is a new month and I have had a very good time in the past one, especially having the chance to exchange ideas and views with you, a professor of science! No wonder the writing is so smooth and the reading is so pleasant! In the trending words I learn, you should take my knees!

I have an elder brother like friend who is also a professor of physics, who always gives us lessons his own way and helps you to see the world from different perspective. Like you, I believe, he must have read a wide range of books and does not impress with the stereotype of a person of science, technology, maths and engineering background. They are known in China as freaks without human feeling and made fun of by many people. But this friend of mine knows how to write poems in ancient style and is able to play one or two musical intruments. It is a pity that he doesn't know much about English, or he may be introduced to this thread to have a chat with you. Great minds think alike. Maybe you two can win the next Nobel Prize working together!

One interesting but worrying thing is that young people here spend too much time checking their mobile phones, where there are so many things that interest them greatly. Logistics centers are available on college campuses for students to pick up their deliveries of online shopping. Some students even cut classes to work part-time there sorting out goods and doing the chores. The prospect for most students is not good and they cannot find any jobs on graduation.

China has been faced with this challenge for many years. Two or three days later, the national people's congress, or the Parliament, will be in session, where many headache issues will be covered and a solution might be reached hopefully. It will also draw the world attention at the critical moment of peace and development, espcially after the visiting Ukrianian president was kicked out of White House by the US president and vice president after a heated debate on ceasefire on Feb 28.

The rest of the world may be eager to know what China can do in this connection. I am not a politician but it is my wish to have peace around the world and to settle questions of any kind in peaceful ways. Those who have hot tempers are advised to meet each other in the fields of sports games to release their energy before sitting down for talks.

[behnam]

Hi, Behnam!

Before we know it very clearly, it is a new month and I have had a very good time in the past one, especially having the chance to exchange ideas and views with you, a professor of science! No wonder the writing is so smooth and the reading is so pleasant! In the trending words I learn, you should take my knees!

I have an elder brother like friend who is also a professor of physics, who always gives us lessons his own way and helps you to see the world from different perspective. Like you, I believe, he must have read a wide range of books and does not impress with the stereotype of a person of science, technology, maths and engineering background. They are known in China as freaks without human feeling and made fun of by many people. But this friend of mine knows how to write poems in ancient style and is able to play one or two musical intruments. It is a pity that he doesn't know much about English, or he may be introduced to this thread to have a chat with you. Great minds think alike. Maybe you two can win the next Nobel Prize working together!

One interesting but worrying thing is that young people here spend too much time checking their mobile phones, where there are so many things that interest them greatly. Logistics centers are available on college campuses for students to pick up their deliveries of online shopping. Some students even cut classes to work part-time there sorting out goods and doing the chores. The prospect for most students is not good and they cannot find any jobs on graduation.

China has been faced with this challenge for many years. Two or three days later, the national people's congress, or the Parliament, will be in session, where many headache issues will be covered and a solution might be reached hopefully. It will also draw the world attention at the critical moment of peace and development, espcially after the visiting Ukrianian president was kicked out of White House by the US president and vice president after a heated debate on ceasefire on Feb 28.

The rest of the world may be eager to know what China can do in this connection. I am not a politician but it is my wish to have peace around the world and to settle questions of any kind in peaceful ways. Those who have hot tempers are advised to meet each other in the fields of sports games to release their energy before sitting down for talks.

Dear SitangCampus,

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your thoughts. I am happy to hear that you enjoyed our discussions last month. It is always a pleasure to exchange ideas with someone who has such interesting views.

I was very surprised to read that your elder brother is also a physics professor! What a small world! It is amazing to know that he shares the same field as me. He sounds like a very talented person, with skills in poetry and music. I agree that people in science and technology are often misunderstood. Many think we are only interested in numbers and machines, but this is not true. Like your brother, I also enjoy art and literature. It would be wonderful to meet him one day, even if he does not know much English. Perhaps we could find a way to communicate and share ideas.

Physics, as I used to tell my students, is not just about formulas and experiments. It teaches us to see the world in a deeper way. It helps us understand how the universe works, from the smallest particles to the largest galaxies. Physicists try to explain the mysteries of nature, like why the sky is blue or how electricity powers our homes. By studying physics, we learn to solve problems and make life easier for everyone. For example, the technology we use every day, like smartphones and the internet, comes from the discoveries of physicists.

Your observation about young people spending too much time on their phones is very interesting. It is a problem in many countries, not just in China. Students often lose focus on their studies because of online shopping, games, or social media. It is worrying that some even skip classes to work part-time. I hope the government and schools can find ways to help young people balance their time better and prepare for their future.

I also read about the national people's congress in China. It is an important event, and many people around the world will watch it closely. I have great respect for China and its people. Your country has a rich history, a strong culture, and many achievements in science, technology, and art. China's contributions to the world are truly remarkable, and I admire the hard work and wisdom of its people.

The situation in Ukraine is very serious, and I agree with you that peace is the best solution. It is sad to see countries fighting, and I hope leaders can find ways to solve problems without violence. The recent meeting between Trump and Zelensky in the White House was unusual and showed how tense things can get. I am worried about the results of Trump's actions and policies. I do not think his behavior and words will help world peace. Leaders should work together to build trust and understanding, not create more problems. As you said, sports and cultural exchanges are good ways to bring people together and reduce tension.

Politicians are often expected to act wisely, even if they lack true wisdom. This is because their role requires them to make decisions that affect many people, and they must appear confident and knowledgeable to gain public trust. However, many politicians focus more on power and popularity than on deep understanding or thoughtful action. They may pretend to be wise by using clever words or making promises, but their actions often show a lack of real wisdom. True wisdom comes from experience, empathy, and a willingness to learn, qualities that are not always common in politics. This gap between appearance and reality can lead to poor decisions and a loss of trust in leaders. When leaders prioritize their own interests over the needs of others, it can lead to poor decisions, conflicts, and even destruction in the world. Without genuine wisdom, politicians risk creating division, instability, and harm, rather than building peace and progress.

Genuine wisdom is more than just knowledge or intelligence; it is a deep understanding of life, people, and the world. It comes from experience, empathy, and the ability to see things from different perspectives. A person with genuine wisdom does not just think about themselves but cares about others and makes decisions that are fair and thoughtful. They are humble, knowing that they do not have all the answers, and are always willing to learn. Genuine wisdom is rare, especially in leaders, but it is essential for solving problems, building trust, and creating a better world. Unlike pretending to be wise, genuine wisdom is honest, selfless, and focused on doing what is right, not just what is easy or popular.

Thank you again for your thoughtful message. I look forward to more discussions with you in the future. Let us hope for a peaceful and better world for everyone.

All the best,
Behnam, 1 March, 2025

[Nanning]

https://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/blog/articles/41260.html

https://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/blog/articles/41223.html

In my random search online, I found these two blogs that might interest you. The bloggers must have been one of the many learners of English in China. From the picture displayed, I can confirm that it was the English Corner of my city. What a surprise!

Schools in China are now full of problems due to various reasons. Not long ago, two male teachers from separate high schools were revealed by their students reporting online to have seduced the teenager girls in the classes they taught; again, very soon an angry boyfriend of a female doctorate-candidate student made a powerpoint document to show to the web how his girlfriend had an affair with her married tutor professor during his absence, with dirty talks between them presented page by page screenshot from the mobile phone social media.

[behnam]

In my random search online, I found these two blogs that might interest you. The bloggers must have been one of the many learners of English in China. From the picture displayed, I can confirm that it was the English Corner of my city. What a surprise!

Schools in China are now full of problems due to various reasons. Not long ago, two male teachers from separate high schools were revealed by their students reporting online to have seduced the teenager girls in the classes they taught; again, very soon an angry boyfriend of a female doctorate-candidate student made a powerpoint document to show to the web how his girlfriend had an affair with her married tutor professor during his absence, with dirty talks between them presented page by page screenshot from the mobile phone social media.

Hello Nanning,

WOW! What a small world! It's so interesting that you found those blogs and recognized the English Corner from your city! It's amazing how small the world can feel sometimes.

The issues you mentioned about schools in China are really troubling. It's shocking to hear about teachers misusing their power like that. How common do you think these problems are? Are people talking about it openly, or is it still something people avoid discussing? I also can't believe the story about the boyfriend making a PowerPoint. Do you think revealing the story helps or harms the girl's life more? On one hand, it might expose wrongdoing, but on the other hand, it could also bring her a lot of unwanted attention and pressure. I'd be curious to see what it says and understand more about what happened. Do you think it's possible to find that online in English? How did people react to it? Are there any updates on the situation or if the school took any action?

Thanks for sharing this with us—it's definitely given me a lot to think about. Let me know if you find out more or come across anything else interesting online!

All the best,
Behnam, 2 March, 2025

[SitangCampus]

Hi, Behnam!
When the humid days come to the end here I am happy to do the reading of your reply, which gives me the good feeling as did our ancient people who enjoyed a pleasant reading in the spring wind after their busy farming work.

Yet there was a little error I have to point out. The one who shares your career is not my brother, but a friend of close connection who is like an elder brother to me. There is nothing wrong in Chinese culture to address somebody brother if he does help you a lot or treat you like a family member. If you happen to read the Chinese classical novel "The Romance of Three Kingdoms", which is also used by Japanese to guide its business management, you may have noted that three good friends working toward to same goal of reinstating the declining Han dynasty become brothers of different parents, or sworn brothers, a much deeper relationship than many blood brotherhood.

In the same book, another two real biological brothers of a father become incompatible, with the elder who is a king bullying the younger who is a young man of literary talents by dictating him to finish a poem immediately or that he will have his head cut off. The younger composes a poem only in a short time for him to walk seven steps, in which he illustrates a scene where beans are cooked in a pot while the peels of the beans are burned as fuel, satirizing his elder brother as if giving him a loud slap on his face.

These fictitious characters of the novel are widely used as materials of moral lessons. If there are anybody who needs such a lesson urgently, he is none other than Zelensky, the Ukrainian president who has got his country into war with a strong neighbor Russia and has worsened the situation by having a verbal fight with its ally and the biggest supporter the US.

P.S.
The above is my attempt to salvage the full of the writing I did four hours ago, when there seemed to be a maintenance of the forums going on that first stopped and then made my submission vanish.

[behnam]

Hi, Behnam!
When the humid days come to the end here I am happy to do the reading of your reply, which gives me the good feeling as did our ancient people who enjoyed a pleasant reading in the spring wind after their busy farming work.

Yet there was a little error I have to point out. The one who shares your career is not my brother, but a friend of close connection who is like an elder brother to me. There is nothing wrong in Chinese culture to address somebody brother if he does help you a lot or treat you like a family member. If you happen to read the Chinese classical novel "The Romance of Three Kingdoms", which is also used by Japanese to guide its business management, you may have noted that three good friends working toward to same goal of reinstating the declining Han dynasty become brothers of different parents, or sworn brothers, a much deeper relationship than many blood brotherhood.

In the same book, another two real biological brothers of a father become incompatible, with the elder who is a king bullying the younger who is a young man of literary talents by dictating him to finish a poem immediately or that he will have his head cut off. The younger composes a poem only in a short time for him to walk seven steps, in which he illustrates a scene where beans are cooked in a pot while the peels of the beans are burned as fuel, satirizing his elder brother as if giving him a loud slap on his face.

These fictitious characters of the novel are widely used as materials of moral lessons. If there are anybody who needs such a lesson urgently, he is none other than Zelensky, the Ukrainian president who has got his country into war with a strong neighbor Russia and has worsened the situation by having a verbal fight with its ally and the biggest supporter the US.

P.S.
The above is my attempt to salvage the full of the writing I did four hours ago, when there seemed to be a maintenance of the forums going on that first stopped and then made my submission vanish.

Dear SitangCampus,

Thank you so much for your wonderful message. It was a joy to read, and I felt like I was learning something new with every sentence. Your words have a special way of making me feel connected to the wisdom of Chinese culture and history. I truly appreciate the time and effort you put into sharing your thoughts with me.

I now understand that the person you mentioned is not your biological brother but a close friend who is like a brother to you. I find it beautiful that in Chinese culture, people can call someone "brother" even if they are not related by blood. It shows how much value is placed on relationships and the bonds we create with others. This is a tradition I deeply respect, and I will remember it well.

Your reference to The Romance of the Three Kingdoms was fascinating. I have heard of this famous book, but I have not yet had the chance to read it. Could you tell me more about it? What other lessons or stories from the book do you find meaningful? The story of the three sworn brothers is inspiring. It shows how strong their friendship was, even though they were not related by family. Their loyalty to each other and their shared goal is something we can all learn from.

The story of the two real brothers was especially moving. The younger brother's poem, where he describes beans being cooked in a pot while their peels are burned as fuel, was deep and meaningful. It made me think about how conflicts can hurt everyone involved, even those who are closely related. This reminded me of similar stories and metaphors from other cultures. For example, in Persian culture, there is a saying: "A candle burns itself to give light to others." This means that sometimes, people sacrifice themselves to help others, even if it causes them pain. Do you know of any other stories or sayings from Chinese culture that carry a similar message?

About the situation in Ukraine, I understand your perspective. It is indeed a very complex and painful situation, and it is hard to see so many people suffering because of it. I share your hope that peace can be found soon, and that the people affected can begin to rebuild their lives. What do you think could be done to help bring peace to the region? Do you believe that stories or lessons from history, like those in The Romance of the Three Kingdoms, could help us understand or solve modern conflicts?

I also want to thank you for rewriting your message after it disappeared earlier. I know how frustrating it can be to lose something you worked hard on, but I am grateful that you took the time to share it again. Your words are always meaningful to me, and I learn so much from you every time we talk.

Please take care, and I look forward to hearing from you again soon. Your friendship means a lot to me, and I am always happy to hear your thoughts and stories.

All the best,
Behnam, 2 March, 2025

[Nanning]

Hi, Mr. Behnam and other friends!

It is a wonderful experience to find in the virtual world something you are familiar with. Like this great forum, I came across it about 20 years ago during my random search, and once again I return to it to have some fun while learning something that might be useful to me in the future. Mr. Behnam is absolutely qualified to be an examiner of IELTS or TOFEL in terms of English level. Only that he may not like to give up his current professorship to a hobby job.

I saw the problem of Mr. SiCampus in submitting his post to the thread, and it might be attributed to my complaints about the registration to Mr. Joe, who seemingly was making some revision of the system yesterday the same time when he was going to submit his work. I met with the same page too, that constantly required me to confirm whether I am a human or a robot.

Regarding the sexual scandal of China's schools at all levels, the mainstream news outlets in China also publish reports, but in Chinese only. The related reports in English might be found in major news agencies like BBC, Reuters, AP, CNN if you search with Google or Bing, I believe. We here cannot get access to such sources without using VPN, which is deemed to be breaking laws. Do sexual scandals take place or are they reported more often than ever? Nobody knows.

[Brave]

I met with the same page too, that constantly required me to confirm whether I am a human or a robot.

And what's the answer?! Which are you?

[behnam]

Hi, Mr. Behnam and other friends!

It is a wonderful experience to find in the virtual world something you are familiar with. Like this great forum, I came across it about 20 years ago during my random search, and once again I return to it to have some fun while learning something that might be useful to me in the future. Mr. Behnam is absolutely qualified to be an examiner of IELTS or TOFEL in terms of English level. Only that he may not like to give up his current professorship to a hobby job.

I saw the problem of Mr. SiCampus in submitting his post to the thread, and it might be attributed to my complaints about the registration to Mr. Joe, who seemingly was making some revision of the system yesterday the same time when he was going to submit his work. I met with the same page too, that constantly required me to confirm whether I am a human or a robot.

Regarding the sexual scandal of China's schools at all levels, the mainstream news outlets in China also publish reports, but in Chinese only. The related reports in English might be found in major news agencies like BBC, Reuters, AP, CNN if you search with Google or Bing, I believe. We here cannot get access to such sources without using VPN, which is deemed to be breaking laws. Do sexual scandals take place or are they reported more often than ever? Nobody knows.

Hi Nannning,

Thank you for your message. I am happy to hear from you. I am an English learner, so I am always trying to improve my skills. You are very kind to say I am qualified to be an examiner for IELTS or TOEFL, but I think I still have a lot to learn.

It's amazing that you found this site by chance 20 years ago and are still here. Your presence in this thread is like a flower that fills the air with a beautiful scent. Just as a flower makes the atmosphere pleasant for everyone, your contributions have made this thread a great place. The fact that great people like you are here sharing knowledge and experiences is what makes this forum so special. I agree that it's a wonderful place to have fun and learn something useful at the same time.

I understand the problem with the forum. Sometimes, it is difficult to post. I also saw the page asking if I am a robot. It can be frustrating, but I think it is for safety.

About your question on sexual scandals in schools, I think they have always happened, but now they are reported more often. In the past, people might not have talked about these issues openly. Now, with more awareness and access to information, such news is shared more widely. However, as you said, it's hard to know if these scandals are happening more often or just being reported more.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I hope we can keep learning from each other. I'd love to hear more from you:

What do you think can be done to prevent such scandals in schools?

Do you think social media has played a role in increasing awareness about these issues?

Looking forward to your reply!

All the best,
Behnam, 3 March, 2025

[SourRiceNoodle]

Hello, everybody!

I come here because I saw a link on the social media and later I also got the assistance of @Nanning in registering. Yes, I agree that this is a great thread. I did not read it from the very outset, but the page that the link led me to.

I am a freshman, not in college, but in the society, doing odd jobs here and there, feeling confused at times because I do not know very clearly about the future.The living cost in the city is a little too much for us, even after we have received some financial help from the family. The parents are growing old day in day out, how can we rely on them for ever? What's more, it is our duty to take good care of them when they can't do that for themselves.

Banks offer loans to all people now, but I am afraid they may set a trap for the young people that just leave the school campus. I have received about 20 phone calls a week, telling me that the interest rate is very pro-borrower and I should immediately go to their office to get the loan. The phone calls are made by female managers usually,strongly tempting you to go for it, particularly if you are a single man without a girlfriend.

I often write some short paragraphs like that in English, but they are published in China's forum for the reading of Chinese viewers. I feel a little nervous to make the presentation to an international website. So if there are any mistakes, feel free to let me know. Thank you very much and have a nice week!

[Nanning]

I met with the same page too, that constantly required me to confirm whether I am a human or a robot.

And what's the answer?! Which are you?

Hello, Mr. Brave!
You are really a joker, speaking so tongue in cheek.

I notice you identify yourself a teacher of English, so why not share with us more than just a simple and short sentence that generally cannot advance the meaningful conversation?

Even if you have any secret methods as your patent to improve English learning that you like to charge a fee, it is necessary to tell us what is its advantage over others that are available in the market, right?

Again hi, Mr. Behnam!

Sorry to give you an answer in the same post, I just want to save the space.

You talked about the consequence the girls may face in a sexual scandal. Yes, they did meet with problems from many sides, some of whom even ended their life thinking they have brought disgrace to the family although it was not their fault. The tradition is always like that, blaming female is easier than facing the reality in which the power of males is hard to challenge. I hear there is stoning punishment to be imposed in the Muslim community on women if they are found guilty in such immoral cases. It should be scrapped as soon as possible.

In the case I mentioned in the other post, the PhD candidate girl of a college was doing her seduction of her own accord. That is, she knew that if she could lure her mentor into the sexual trap then she could take control of him and have her desire fulfilled. The man is powerful enough to get her a good job in a research institute that other people cannot possibly have without the help of this guy. After the scandal was exposed to the public, the girl was said to have contacted her ex-boyfriend who made the PowerPoint presentation of her affairs, begging for reconciliation or even for a resumption of relationship. How selfish this girl is! These days there are so many "giant babies" in our country, with adult bodies and infant brains.

[behnam]

Hello, everybody!

I come here because I saw a link on the social media and later I also got the assistance of @Nanning in registering. Yes, I agree that this is a great thread. I did not read it from the very outset, but the page that the link led me to.

I am a freshman, not in college, but in the society, doing odd jobs here and there, feeling confused at times because I do not know very clearly about the future. The living cost in the city is a little too much for us, even after we have received some financial help from the family. The parents are growing old day in day out, how can we rely on them for ever? What's more, it is our duty to take good care of them when they can't do that for themselves.

Banks offer loans to all people now, but I am afraid they may set a trap for the young people that just leave the school campus. I have received about 20 phone calls a week, telling me that the interest rate is very pro-borrower and I should immediately go to their office to get the loan. The phone calls are made by female managers usually, strongly tempting you to go for it, particularly if you are a single man without a girlfriend.

I often write some short paragraphs like that in English, but they are published in China's forum for the reading of Chinese viewers. I feel a little nervous to make the presentation to an international website. So if there are any mistakes, feel free to let me know. Thank you very much and have a nice week!

Hi SourRiceNoodle,

A very warm welcome to the thread! We're so glad you found your way here, and it's great to have you join the conversation. Big thanks to @Nanning for helping you get registered—you're in good company here!

First of all, don't worry about being a "freshman" in society—we've all been there, and it's completely normal to feel a bit confused about the future. Life can be overwhelming, especially when you're juggling odd jobs and dealing with the high cost of living in the city. It's really admirable that you're thinking about your parents and how to support them as they grow older. Family is so important, and it's clear you have a big heart.

About the bank loans—wow, 20 calls a week is a lot! It's smart of you to be cautious. Loans can be helpful, but it's always good to read the fine print and make sure you're not falling into a trap.

Oh, about those female managers calling you… sounds like you're quite the popular guy! Maybe they're not just after your financial business—perhaps they're looking for a date too! Just kidding, of course. But hey, if you ever need tips on how to politely decline loan offers (or awkward phone calls), we've got your back.

Also, your English is fantastic! Don't feel nervous about posting here—your paragraphs are clear and easy to understand. Writing in a second language takes courage, and you're doing a great job. If anyone spots any mistakes (though I didn't see any!), I'm sure they'll be kind and constructive about it.

Since you mentioned you often write short paragraphs, I'd love to hear more about what you like to write about! Do you focus on personal experiences, or do you explore other topics too? And what kind of odd jobs have you been doing? I'm sure your stories would be really interesting to everyone here.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and I hope you have an amazing week too! Looking forward to hearing more from you.

All the best,
Behnam, 4 March, 2025

[Nanning]

Hi, all!
Since there are a number of friends here, it is impolite to address Mr. Behnam alone, sorry!

The following is from my earlier exchanges with the outside world, haha. I have found that an important element for our poor ability of English is that we do not use it as a tool for real communication, but for passing an examination only. Our teachers of English can only repeat the boring "Raise your hand!" "Read after me!" "Open you book and turn to page XXX" time and time again.

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Hello, sir, this is a Chinese reader based in southern China of your article "After the Invasion".
In your work, you seem to blame Russia for their invasion, but do you consider they have to do so when cornered by the NATO. And their operation aims to destroy the military targets only, otherwise there could not have had so much fake news issued from the war zone.
In the bombing of former Yugoslavia, the Iraq war, the Afghanistan war or the Israel-Syria conflict or between Israel and Pakistan, more ~ crimes with countless civilians killed and injured and made homeless had been conducted by the democratic Western powers and their supporters, but no protests or boycotts had been done.
Back in 1950s, when China felt threatened by the US-led UN forces, it sent troops directly to Korea to fight face to face, not just having some war supply delivered and then standing back to simply have a watch.
So NATO, EU, the US are the ones that should bear the responsibility for this current situation in Ukraine.
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I agree with what you say. I wrote another article defending Russia. Please google blaming Russia by Abdul Sattar The News.What do you do? What is your academic background?
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Our conversation has to end, because this writer did not seem to have interest to have further exchange with an amateur of international politics that I am. Haha, there is nothing wrong for he did, why were you seen in the eyes of him that you were unintelligent?

[SitangCampus]

Hi, Behnam!
I have a sense of fulfilment bridging the gap between different culture as you show the interest in the classical novel of China, which can be available on the famous free book reading website Gutenberg. Have you ever used this website?

There seems interesting comparison and contrast of some things happening recently that I wish to share with you and other readers.

First it is the weathers of the US and China. I saw the news that while in the north of the country there was heavy snow and blizzard that made the traffic difficult, wildfire broke out in South Carolina with many properties of the local people wrecked. In the meantime, in China the situation was as bad, with the temperature rising to 20C as in a very warm spring in Shandong Province the first day and heavy snowfall coming the next day.

The human world weather is also comparable. Almost at the same time, China and the US had their respective parliament or congress in session. Our Chinese leader was having a warm welcome by the attendees whereas President Trump met with boos and vocal protests from senators or congressmen on the scene.

Hot and cold weathers are like fire and ice, incompatible and unpredictable.

[behnam]

... hi, Mr. Behnam!

Sorry to give you an answer in the same post, I just want to save the space.

You talked about the consequence the girls may face in a sexual scandal. Yes, they did meet with problems from many sides, some of whom even ended their life thinking they have brought disgrace to the family although it was not their fault. The tradition is always like that, blaming female is easier than facing the reality in which the power of males is hard to challenge. I hear there is stoning punishment to be imposed in the Muslim community on women if they are found guilty in such immoral cases. It should be scrapped as soon as possible.

In the case I mentioned in the other post, the PhD candidate girl of a college was doing her seduction of her own accord. That is, she knew that if she could lure her mentor into the sexual trap then she could take control of him and have her desire fulfilled. The man is powerful enough to get her a good job in a research institute that other people cannot possibly have without the help of this guy. After the scandal was exposed to the public, the girl was said to have contacted her ex-boyfriend who made the PowerPoint presentation of her affairs, begging for reconciliation or even for a resumption of relationship. How selfish this girl is! These days there are so many "giant babies" in our country, with adult bodies and infant brains.

Hi Nanning,

Thank you for your message. You have raised many important points, and I will try to address all of them. No need to say sorry! I like that you kept it short and clear. Thanks!

First, I agree with you that it is very sad when girls face serious consequences in sexual scandals, especially when they are not at fault. It is unfair that society often blames women more than men in these situations. The reason women are often blamed more than men in sexual scandals comes from old traditions and unfair beliefs. In many societies, women are expected to be "pure" and are judged harshly if something goes wrong, while men face fewer consequences. Stereotypes also play a role, painting women as seductive or responsible for men's actions. These outdated ideas, rooted in male-dominated systems, make it harder for women to be treated fairly.

About stoning punishment, I understand your concern, but I must disagree with the idea that stoning is still a common punishment in Islamic countries today. In fact, stoning is extremely rare and not practiced in the majority of Muslim-majority countries. Most Islamic nations have modern legal systems, and punishments like stoning are not part of their laws. For example, countries like Indonesia, Turkey, and Malaysia do not use stoning as a punishment. Even in countries where Islamic law (Sharia) is applied, such as Saudi Arabia or Iran, stoning is rarely carried out, and there is growing criticism and opposition to such practices from both within and outside these countries. Many Muslim scholars and activists argue that stoning is not a mandatory Islamic punishment and that it contradicts the principles of justice and mercy in Islam. Therefore, it is not accurate to say that stoning is widely imposed in Muslim communities today.

About the case you mentioned, it is complicated. If the PhD student intentionally tried to seduce her mentor to gain power or a job, that is wrong. But we should also remember that power imbalances can make these situations unfair. The mentor, being in a position of power, should have acted responsibly and professionally. Both sides may have made mistakes, and it is important to look at the situation carefully before judging anyone.

It is also surprising to hear that the girl contacted her ex-boyfriend after the scandal. If she did this only to protect herself or gain something, it does show selfishness. However, we should remember that people often act out of fear or desperation in difficult situations. Calling her a "giant baby" might be too harsh. Instead, we should try to understand why she acted that way.

In the end, it is important to treat everyone with kindness and fairness. We should work towards a society where power is not misused, and where women and men are treated equally. Let's hope for a future where such scandals are less common, and where people can resolve conflicts in a better way.

All the best,
Behnam, 5 March, 2025

[SourRiceNoodle]

Hi SourRiceNoodle,

A very warm welcome to the thread! We're so glad you found your way here, and it's great to have you join the conversation. Big thanks to @Nanning for helping you get registered—you're in good company here!

First of all, don't worry about being a "freshman" in society—we've all been there, and it's completely normal to feel a bit confused about the future. Life can be overwhelming, especially when you're juggling odd jobs and dealing with the high cost of living in the city. It's really admirable that you're thinking about your parents and how to support them as they grow older. Family is so important, and it's clear you have a big heart.

About the bank loans—wow, 20 calls a week is a lot! It's smart of you to be cautious. Loans can be helpful, but it's always good to read the fine print and make sure you're not falling into a trap.

Oh, about those female managers calling you… sounds like you're quite the popular guy! Maybe they're not just after your financial business—perhaps they're looking for a date too! Just kidding, of course. But hey, if you ever need tips on how to politely decline loan offers (or awkward phone calls), we've got your back.

Also, your English is fantastic! Don't feel nervous about posting here—your paragraphs are clear and easy to understand. Writing in a second language takes courage, and you're doing a great job. If anyone spots any mistakes (though I didn't see any!), I'm sure they'll be kind and constructive about it.

Since you mentioned you often write short paragraphs, I'd love to hear more about what you like to write about! Do you focus on personal experiences, or do you explore other topics too? And what kind of odd jobs have you been doing? I'm sure your stories would be really interesting to everyone here.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and I hope you have an amazing week too! Looking forward to hearing more from you.

All the best,
Behnam, 4 March, 2025

Hello!

Sir, you must be a very good teacher! I took some time to review the first pages of this long thread and found that you have been kind and warm to all the friends here. It is a very good quality of a person. You know, now in China's Henan Province, there is a supermarket that has gone viral in the web for its business model that focuses on giving more benefits to the customers and to the employees, not caring much about the profits of the owner. Some web users believe all the problems in the world can be settled if the model is promoted everywhere.

You are a teacher of a university with a good command of English language, that is a very rare qualification for teachers in my country. Are you interested in working in China's universities? I think you are a talent.

I worked as an intern in a company and was going to get the real job when the pandemic broke out. Not only did I lose the hope but also the boss shut down his company due to so many problems facing him. Later I tried to be a delivery man to deliver food for customers. It was a very hard job of long hours and little rest and any late delivery or complaints from customers would get your pay deducted. Then I became a salesman of clothing shop in a pedestrian street. But customers even on weekends or holidays were far and few between. I hurt my throat and hands by having shouted and clapped the hands to get the attention of the potential buyers.

Yeah, that is my story, nothing to write home about.

[behnam]

Hi, Behnam!
I have a sense of fulfilment bridging the gap between different culture as you show the interest in the classical novel of China, which can be available on the famous free book reading website Gutenberg. Have you ever used this website?

There seems interesting comparison and contrast of some things happening recently that I wish to share with you and other readers.

First it is the weathers of the US and China. I saw the news that while in the north of the country there was heavy snow and blizzard that made the traffic difficult, wildfire broke out in South Carolina with many properties of the local people wrecked. In the meantime, in China the situation was as bad, with the temperature rising to 20C as in a very warm spring in Shandong Province the first day and heavy snowfall coming the next day.

The human world weather is also comparable. Almost at the same time, China and the US had their respective parliament or congress in session. Our Chinese leader was having a warm welcome by the attendees whereas President Trump met with boos and vocal protests from senators or congressmen on the scene.

Hot and cold weathers are like fire and ice, incompatible and unpredictable.

Hi SitangCampus,

Thank you for your message! It's always great to hear from you. I'm glad you feel a sense of fulfilment in sharing cultures, especially through literature. Yes, I have heard of the Gutenberg website! It's a wonderful resource for free books, and I've used it to explore some classic works. However, since I don't know the Chinese language, I might need to look for translations of the Chinese classical novels you mentioned. Do you know if there are any good English translations available? I'd love to learn more about Chinese culture through these stories. Could you recommend a specific novel or author that you think is a must-read?

You've made some very interesting comparisons between the weather and the political situations in the US and China. The weather in both countries does seem extreme and unpredictable right now. In the US, it's shocking to see heavy snow and blizzards in the north while wildfires are destroying homes in the south. And in China, the sudden shift from warm spring-like weather to heavy snowfall in Shandong Province is unusual. It's like nature itself is full of surprises! How do people in China usually cope with such sudden changes in weather? Are there any traditional practices or stories related to extreme weather?

Your comparison of the political "weather" is also fascinating. It's interesting how the reactions to the leaders in both countries were so different. In China, the warm welcome for your leader shows unity, while in the US, the protests and boos during President Trump's speech highlight division. It's like the "fire and ice" you mentioned—two very different energies in the human world. What do you think are the main reasons for such different reactions in the two countries? Do you see any similarities or differences in how people express their opinions in China compared to the US?

Thank you for sharing these thoughts. It's always interesting to see how nature and human behavior can mirror each other. Let's keep sharing ideas and learning from each other's cultures. Take care, and I look forward to hearing more from you soon!

All the best,
Behnam, 7 March, 2025

[behnam]

Hello!

Sir, you must be a very good teacher! I took some time to review the first pages of this long thread and found that you have been kind and warm to all the friends here. It is a very good quality of a person. You know, now in China's Henan Province, there is a supermarket that has gone viral in the web for its business model that focuses on giving more benefits to the customers and to the employees, not caring much about the profits of the owner. Some web users believe all the problems in the world can be settled if the model is promoted everywhere.

You are a teacher of a university with a good command of English language, that is a very rare qualification for teachers in my country. Are you interested in working in China's universities? I think you are a talent.

I worked as an intern in a company and was going to get the real job when the pandemic broke out. Not only did I lose the hope but also the boss shut down his company due to so many problems facing him. Later I tried to be a delivery man to deliver food for customers. It was a very hard job of long hours and little rest and any late delivery or complaints from customers would get your pay deducted. Then I became a salesman of clothing shop in a pedestrian street. But customers even on weekends or holidays were far and few between. I hurt my throat and hands by having shouted and clapped the hands to get the attention of the potential buyers.

Yeah, that is my story, nothing to write home about.

Hi SourRiceNoodle,

Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot to me that you took the time to read through the thread and share your thoughts. I truly believe that kindness and warmth are some of the most important qualities we can offer to others, so I’m glad that came through in my posts.

Your story about the supermarket in Henan Province is fascinating! It's inspiring to see businesses prioritizing customers and employees over profits. Do you think this model could really work on a larger scale? What challenges do you think it might face if it were promoted globally? I'd love to hear more of your thoughts on this!

As for your question about working in China's universities, I'm honored that you think I'd be a good fit! Teaching is a passion of mine, and I'm always open to new opportunities. However, I don't know the Chinese language—do you think good English would be enough to work as a professor in China's universities? I'd love to know more about the expectations for foreign teachers there. Do you know anyone who has worked in the education sector in China? What's your perspective on the teaching environment for international professors?

I'm really sorry to hear about the challenges you've faced in your career journey. It sounds like you've been through a lot—losing your job during the pandemic, working long hours as a delivery person, and then facing difficulties as a salesman. That must have been incredibly tough, but I admire your resilience and determination to keep going. How did you stay motivated during those difficult times? Do you have any plans or dreams for the future that you're working toward now?

Your story is far from "nothing to write home about." It's a testament to your strength and perseverance, and I'm sure many people, including myself, would find it inspiring. Please don't hesitate to share more about your experiences or thoughts—I'd love to continue this conversation!

All the best,
Behnam, 7 March, 2025

[SitangCampus]

Hi, everybody, on this important red-letter day, allow me to extend my warm greetings to you ladies, a very Happy International Women's Day!

Perhaps some of us are not aware of such a holiday, that's why it is necessary for me to say the greetings at the very beginning.

As Professor Behnam told us, it is still a world of male dominance, but I don't like the shows put on on this very day by some people with ulterior motives to achieve their personal goals. We need to give more concern and consideration to the fair sex every day.

One interesting phenomenon, which I have referred to in a number of web forums that I have visited so far, in English or in Chinese, is that in some countries where women are given obvious respect and equality some political jobs or positions are the forbidden area for them, for example, Kamala Harris or Hilary Clinton failed to become the first female president of the USA. I have made my predictions twice for the election of that country, and I have been correct both times. Because I know when the rivals are female, the male competitor shall win undoubtedly.

I also notice that in the Muslim world where females have a lower social status, things are different or opposite. Indira Gandhi, Sophia Gandhi, Benazir Bhutto, Khaleda Zia, Sheikh Hasina, Chandrika Bandaranaike Kumaratunga were the heads of government of their own countries of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and Sri Lanka that are the places of poverty and male supremacy.

Prof Behnam asked me for a must-read list, which, in my opinion, is unnecessary, because reading is a very personal business and should not be defined and controled by external forces, though a guidance is okay when one is on the campus receiving normal education. Chinese classical novels like The Romance of Three Kingdoms is a good one for adults to enjoy reading and learning some useful strategies for career or life. Its English edition is available on the Gutenberg website if you search it carefully. But with many characters included in it, the novel may not be a pleasant experience for readers of different cultures. As I can get some smiles from the smart girl in the Alibaba and the Forty Thieves, I believe you will get what you want from reading Chinese classics.

Prof Behnam impresses me most by his perseverance in writing posts out of his tight schedule. In our country, teachers of all schools, private or public, elementary, secondary or tertiary, are kept busy all the year round. If you are a faculty member of a public college, it is likely you will be assigned a task to help poverty-stricken people in a remote area. It is a sacred mission from the government or the Party, you cannot say No to that or you may lose your job if you cannot appropriately justify your refusal.

[behnam]

Hi, everybody, on this important red-letter day, allow me to extend my warm greetings to you ladies, a very Happy International Women's Day!

Perhaps some of us are not aware of such a holiday, that's why it is necessary for me to say the greetings at the very beginning.

As Professor Behnam told us, it is still a world of male dominance, but I don't like the shows put on on this very day by some people with ulterior motives to achieve their personal goals. We need to give more concern and consideration to the fair sex every day.

One interesting phenomenon, which I have referred to in a number of web forums that I have visited so far, in English or in Chinese, is that in some countries where women are given obvious respect and equality some political jobs or positions are the forbidden area for them, for example, Kamala Harris or Hilary Clinton failed to become the first female president of the USA. I have made my predictions twice for the election of that country, and I have been correct both times. Because I know when the rivals are female, the male competitor shall win undoubtedly.

I also notice that in the Muslim world where females have a lower social status, things are different or opposite. Indira Gandhi, Sophia Gandhi, Benazir Bhutto, Khaleda Zia, Sheikh Hasina, Chandrika Bandaranaike Kumaratunga were the heads of government of their own countries of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and Sri Lanka that are the places of poverty and male supremacy.

Prof Behnam asked me for a must-read list, which, in my opinion, is unnecessary, because reading is a very personal business and should not be defined and controled by external forces, though a guidance is okay when one is on the campus receiving normal education. Chinese classical novels like The Romance of Three Kingdoms is a good one for adults to enjoy reading and learning some useful strategies for career or life. Its English edition is available on the Gutenberg website if you search it carefully. But with many characters included in it, the novel may not be a pleasant experience for readers of different cultures. As I can get some smiles from the smart girl in the Alibaba and the Forty Thieves, I believe you will get what you want from reading Chinese classics.

Prof Behnam impresses me most by his perseverance in writing posts out of his tight schedule. In our country, teachers of all schools, private or public, elementary, secondary or tertiary, are kept busy all the year round. If you are a faculty member of a public college, it is likely you will be assigned a task to help poverty-stricken people in a remote area. It is a sacred mission from the government or the Party, you cannot say No to that or you may lose your job if you cannot appropriately justify your refusal.

Dear SitangCampus,

Thank you for your thoughtful message on International Women's Day. Your warm greetings and reflections are much appreciated, and I'm glad you took the time to share your ideas. It's true that not everyone is aware of this day, so your reminder is important.

I agree with your observation about the world still being male-dominated. It's unfortunate that some people use this day for personal gain rather than focusing on real progress for women's rights. You're absolutely right—respect and consideration for women should be a daily practice, not limited to one day.

Your point about women in politics is very interesting. Why do you think women in some countries, like the USA, struggle to reach the highest positions, even when they are generally respected? On the other hand, in some Muslim-majority countries, women have become leaders despite facing lower social status. What do you think causes this difference? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

I'm touched by your kind words about my dedication to writing. It's not always easy to find time, but I believe in the importance of sharing ideas. You also mentioned the busy lives of teachers in your country and their work in helping those in need. What do you think can be done to support teachers better, especially when they take on such challenging tasks?

When it comes to women's rights, the first step is to truly understand women—their needs, challenges, and aspirations. Just as giving the most beautiful and delicious grass to birds that only eat seeds is pointless, offering women something that doesn't align with their true needs is meaningless. For instance, I don't believe that becoming the president of a country or being involved in politics alone is what women need or deserve. While political representation is important, it's not the ultimate solution. Real respect comes from understanding the nature of people and providing what they genuinely need—whether it's access to education, healthcare, equal opportunities, or support in balancing work and family life. Using sugar-coated words or empty gestures to appear supportive is merely flattery, often done to gain personal benefits. True respect requires action, empathy, and a deep understanding of what women truly need to thrive in their daily lives.

I also believe that, in many parts of the world, women are still treated like tools in the hands of men. Why does this happen? One reason is that many women don't fully know themselves or recognize their own talents. Instead of exploring their unique potential, they often follow men's paths, thinking that stepping into men's shoes is a sign of progress or a way to gain their rights. But true development and empowerment come from women understanding their own strengths, embracing their individuality, and creating their own paths—not simply imitating men. Only when women truly know themselves and their capabilities can they break free from being seen as tools and claim the respect and rights they deserve.

I also don't think women truly gain their rights just by being free to wear makeup, try different hairstyles, or dress as they like. While these choices are often seen as a sign of freedom, they can sometimes be more about pleasing men than about real empowerment. For example, when women show their cleavage or focus on certain physical features, it might make them feel confident, but it often fits what men find attractive rather than showing true independence. The beauty and fashion industries often push standards that are more about looking good for others, especially men, than about being yourself. This doesn't mean women shouldn't have the freedom to express themselves through their appearance, but it makes us ask: Are these choices really about freedom, or are they shaped by a society that still values women more for how they look than who they are? Real rights and respect for women should go deeper than just surface-level freedoms. True empowerment means women can define themselves in their own way, without feeling pressured to meet others' expectations. How can we move beyond focusing on appearance and create a world where women are valued for their minds, skills, and character?

What do you think? Do you believe political representation is enough to achieve women's rights, or are there other, more pressing needs that should be addressed first? Why do you think women in many societies still struggle to recognize their own talents and potential? Is it due to cultural norms, lack of education, or something else? And how can we encourage women to embrace their individuality rather than following predefined paths? I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions on this important topic.

Thank you again for your message. It's a reminder of the importance of reflection, respect, and continuous learning. I'd love to hear more of your thoughts on these topics. Happy International Women's Day to all women!

All the best,
Behnam, 8 March, 2025

[SitangCampus]

Hi, all!

Every day we face many questions that we feel unable to solve, and here by chatting with Prof Behnam, I along with other readers of the posts will surely benefit a lot.

I saw that in a local college the president issued a letter to his female faculty members for the celebrating of March 8, a holiday for women. But he seemed to have forgotten the other important portion of the female population on the same campus, the girl or female students. We call them girls because they look young and enthusiastic, but they are all adult females who are entitled to this great occasion if it is really such a day. About this point, Prof Behnam has illustrated in the previous post, and my words are simply a redundant but concrete sequel.

A young man who is married and has no experience in the world like the "freshman" as the other posters said earlier was asked to help others get rid of poverty, it sounds so unrealistic. If he can really be of any use in the poor area, that may mean the local people are too lazy to make a decent living. I personally strongly disagree to such a bad practice that wastes the time and effort of a young man who might have other better opportunity in the society.

About the many points Prof Behnam raised and wanted me to give my five cents about, I think it may take some time for me to do that due to my hollow and shallow head that need much nutrition from more reading. His posts can be a very good textbook in this regard, I sincerely recommend all to have a read, a good and enjoyable read.

[behnam]

Hi, all!

Every day we face many questions that we feel unable to solve, and here by chatting with Prof Behnam, I along with other readers of the posts will surely benefit a lot.

I saw that in a local college the president issued a letter to his female faculty members for the celebrating of March 8, a holiday for women. But he seemed to have forgotten the other important portion of the female population on the same campus, the girl or female students. We call them girls because they look young and enthusiastic, but they are all adult females who are entitled to this great occasion if it is really such a day. About this point, Prof Behnam has illustrated in the previous post, and my words are simply a redundant but concrete sequel.

A young man who is married and has no experience in the world like the "freshman" as the other posters said earlier was asked to help others get rid of poverty, it sounds so unrealistic. If he can really be of any use in the poor area, that may mean the local people are too lazy to make a decent living. I personally strongly disagree to such a bad practice that wastes the time and effort of a young man who might have other better opportunity in the society.

About the many points Prof Behnam raised and wanted me to give my five cents about, I think it may take some time for me to do that due to my hollow and shallow head that need much nutrition from more reading. His posts can be a very good textbook in this regard, I sincerely recommend all to have a read, a good and enjoyable read.

Dear SitangCampus,

Thank you so much for your interesting post! I really enjoyed reading your thoughts, and I always find your ideas so thoughtful and full of meaning. You have a special way of looking at things, and I learn a lot from you. Your words about Women's Day and the need to include everyone, like students, were very important. I also liked how you talked about the challenges of asking young people with little experience to solve big problems like poverty. It made me think a lot!

I'm truly grateful for the kind words you said about me and my posts. It means so much to know that you find them helpful and enjoyable. Your compliments encourage me to keep sharing my thoughts, and I'm happy to know they add value to our discussions.

However, there were a few parts I didn't fully understand. For example, could you explain what you meant by "a redundant but concrete sequel"? Also, I was curious about how the topics of Women's Day and poverty are connected. I'd love to hear more about your ideas on this. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts—I always feel inspired after reading your posts!

All the best,
Behnam 10 March, 2025

[SitangCampus]

Hi, Prof Behnam!

Before going to have lunch, I just write a few words.

About the phrase I coined "a redundant and concrete sequel", I do not know exactly now what I imply, perhaps it meant that you have said everything or covered all the key points, making my words redundant. But there is something concrete that I did add to it. Things like that. In China's culture, we often use the expression of "using the fur of a dog's tail to complete a work of art". They are in disparity in quality.

Women are closely connected with poverty, that is obvious. The United Nations reports and other news can provide evidences in this regard and my travels in some underdeveloped countries reinforced this impression. More cases can be discussed later.

[behnam]

Hi, Prof Behnam!

Before going to have lunch, I just write a few words.

About the phrase I coined "a redundant and concrete sequel", I do not know exactly now what I imply, perhaps it meant that you have said everything or covered all the key points, making my words redundant. But there is something concrete that I did add to it. Things like that. In China's culture, we often use the expression of "using the fur of a dog's tail to complete a work of art". They are in disparity in quality.

Women are closely connected with poverty, that is obvious. The United Nations reports and other news can provide evidences in this regard and my travels in some underdeveloped countries reinforced this impression. More cases can be discussed later.

Dear SitangCampus,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always interesting to read your reflections.

First, about your phrase "a redundant and concrete sequel," I think I understand what you mean. It's like when someone has already said everything important, and your words might seem unnecessary, but you still add something solid or meaningful to the discussion. The Chinese expression you mentioned, "using the fur of a dog's tail to complete a work of art," is very vivid! It shows how two things can be very different in quality, even if they are connected. I like how you use such creative phrases to explain your ideas. Can you share more examples of phrases or expressions like this from Chinese culture? I'd love to learn more about how language reflects these kinds of ideas.

Second, your point about women and poverty is very important. You're right—many studies, including those by the United Nations, show that women are often more affected by poverty than men. Your travels in underdeveloped countries must have given you a deeper understanding of this issue. It's a big problem, and I agree that more cases and discussions are needed to find solutions. Could you tell me more about what you observed during your travels? If you have more examples or thoughts, I'd love to hear them.

Thank you again for sharing your ideas. Your way of thinking is always so unique and thought-provoking. Let's talk more about these topics soon!

All the best,
Behnam, 11 March, 2025

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[SourRiceNoodle]

Do you know about Prof Michael Sandell? He is the professor of laws and philosophy of Harvard. And thirty minutes ago, I had the honor to see a live stream through short video platform of WeChat (the most popular social media in China) of this professor's talk with students of Peking University, top 2 university in China.

The topic is about meritocracy, as is listed on the screen but I don't really know about this concept even after I consulted the dictionary. The most impressive is that most of the attendees can understand the words of the thinker and give their opinions in English.

I recall seeing this guy's films of the open classes given in the real lecture room, which could be made available a few years back. I also downloaded some pieces of MP3 about his discussion with students as my accompanying music during my walks or runs in a park.

Seeing you guys talks about women, I also offer my humble opinion for your reference. Today I saw a photo of private library in Zhejiang Province of China. It was taken by my former teacher in his tour in that place and the library is very famous for its history and the collection of books.

A lady who was a huge fan of book reading and liked very much to read there used an extreme measure, because at that time, that was in the Qing Dynasty (1644-1911) women were believed to be the good women if they stayed ignorant all their life. She tried her best to become the wife of one of the grandchild of that family who owned that library. Yet she was kept out of that library the whole life, making it a tragic story in the reading history.

[CooksSimple33]

Every day we face many questions that we feel unable to solve, and here by chatting with Prof Behnam, I along with other readers of the posts will surely benefit a lot.

I saw that in a local college the president issued a letter to his female faculty members for the celebrating of March 8, a holiday for women. But he seemed to have forgotten the other important portion of the female population on the same campus, the girl or female students. We call them girls because they look young and enthusiastic, but they are all adult females who are entitled to this great occasion if it is really such a day. About this point, Prof Behnam has illustrated in the previous post, and my words are simply a redundant but concrete sequel.

[behnam]

Do you know about Prof Michael Sandell? He is the professor of laws and philosophy of Harvard. And thirty minutes ago, I had the honor to see a live stream through short video platform of WeChat (the most popular social media in China) of this professor's talk with students of Peking University, top 2 university in China.

The topic is about meritocracy, as is listed on the screen but I don't really know about this concept even after I consulted the dictionary. The most impressive is that most of the attendees can understand the words of the thinker and give their opinions in English.

I recall seeing this guy's films of the open classes given in the real lecture room, which could be made available a few years back. I also downloaded some pieces of MP3 about his discussion with students as my accompanying music during my walks or runs in a park.

Seeing you guys talks about women, I also offer my humble opinion for your reference. Today I saw a photo of private library in Zhejiang Province of China. It was taken by my former teacher in his tour in that place and the library is very famous for its history and the collection of books.

A lady who was a huge fan of book reading and liked very much to read there used an extreme measure, because at that time, that was in the Qing Dynasty (1644-1911) women were believed to be the good women if they stayed ignorant all their life. She tried her best to become the wife of one of the grandchild of that family who owned that library. Yet she was kept out of that library the whole life, making it a tragic story in the reading history.

Dear SourRiceNoodle,

Thank you for sharing this interesting post! It sounds like you had a great experience watching Professor Michael Sandel's talk. I've heard about him too—he's a very famous professor, and his discussions about philosophy and society are always thought-provoking. It's impressive that the students at Peking University could understand and share their opinions in English. That must have been a great discussion!

I also find the story about the lady in the Qing Dynasty very touching. It's sad how women were treated back then, but her love for books and learning is inspiring. It makes me think about how much has changed since then, but also how important it is to keep fighting for equality.

I didn't fully understand some parts of your post, but I'd love to hear more about your thoughts on meritocracy and the talk. What did you find most interesting? Let's discuss more—I'm really curious to learn from you!

Looking forward to your reply!

All the best,
Behnam, 16 March, 2025

[SourRiceNoodle]

Hi, Mr. Behnam!
I am glad to receive your reply.

Concerning Prof Sandel, it is a long story. I also hear about the debate he arranged between college or high school students of China, Japan and South Korea, in which they could speak English or their native tongue. The topic was about history that involves the three countries and that was complicated and full of love and hate.

Yesterday was the Consumer Rights Day (March 15) and we in China all enjoyed seeing a TV show annually played on the same day, in which many cases of bad quality goods and services are exposed. In the mainland China there are two very famous shows hosted by the national broadcaster China Central Television, that have the strong influence on local people. One is the Spring Festival Gala show that is held on the eve of the Chinese New Year, which creates the toughest competition of entertaining industry. The other is the 315 Gala show that exposes bad guys and bad shops, stirring the most fear among the business community.

My experience is like that. I often receive the requests for adding to be friends on social media and the people try to sell their products to me by giving discounts. I know that it is not easy for them to fulfil their quota so I do not reject their requests for being friends online. But I will not buy or use their goods or services, because there will be too much trouble waiting for you. The junk information comes like bombings on London by German air forces, hard to bear.

[SitangCampus]

Every day we face many questions that we feel unable to solve, and here by chatting with Prof Behnam, I along with other readers of the posts will surely benefit a lot.

I saw that in a local college the president issued a letter to his female faculty members for the celebrating of March 8, a holiday for women. But he seemed to have forgotten the other important portion of the female population on the same campus, the girl or female students. We call them girls because they look young and enthusiastic, but they are all adult females who are entitled to this great occasion if it is really such a day. About this point, Prof Behnam has illustrated in the previous post, and my words are simply a redundant but concrete sequel.

Hey, friends! Or should I call you a thief?
Your first post on this forum is very unfriendly and you stole my post without changing a word!!!
I don't know what you want?
If you are not good at this foreign language as we all many years ago, you can say so or tell us what your problem is.
You are committing a crime, you know that?
You owe me an apology!
If Prof Behnam hits your stupid square head with his big hammer, I will clap my hands for that!
I forget what I am going to exchange with Prof Behnam for today's learning. oh My God!

[behnam]

Hi, Mr. Behnam!
I am glad to receive your reply.

Concerning Prof Sandel, it is a long story. I also hear about the debate he arranged between college or high school students of China, Japan and South Korea, in which they could speak English or their native tongue. The topic was about history that involves the three countries and that was complicated and full of love and hate.

Yesterday was the Consumer Rights Day (March 15) and we in China all enjoyed seeing a TV show annually played on the same day, in which many cases of bad quality goods and services are exposed. In the mainland China there are two very famous shows hosted by the national broadcaster China Central Television, that have the strong influence on local people. One is the Spring Festival Gala show that is held on the eve of the Chinese New Year, which creates the toughest competition of entertaining industry. The other is the 315 Gala show that exposes bad guys and bad shops, stirring the most fear among the business community.

My experience is like that. I often receive the requests for adding to be friends on social media and the people try to sell their products to me by giving discounts. I know that it is not easy for them to fulfil their quota so I do not reject their requests for being friends online. But I will not buy or use their goods or services, because there will be too much trouble waiting for you. The junk information comes like bombings on London by German air forces, hard to bear.

Hi SourRiceNoodle,

Thank you for your message! It's always nice to hear from you, and I enjoyed reading about your thoughts and experiences.

I found the story about Prof. Sandel's debate very interesting. It must have been quite a meaningful discussion, especially with students from China, Japan, and South Korea talking about their shared history. History can be such a complicated topic, especially when it involves love and hate between nations. Allowing the students to speak in either English or their native languages was a great idea—it must have made the conversation feel more personal and honest.

I also learned something new from you about Consumer Rights Day in China. The 315 Gala show sounds like a very important event, especially since it exposes bad quality goods and services. It's good to see that consumers are being protected this way. The Spring Festival Gala and the 315 Gala remind me of a funny pair of siblings: one is the life of the party, always bringing joy, laughter, and fireworks, while the other is the strict older sibling who shows up to scold everyone and clean up the mess. Together, they balance each other out perfectly—one makes sure we celebrate, and the other makes sure we don't celebrate too much by keeping things in check. It's like yin and yang, but with TV shows!

Your experience with social media made me smile! It's kind of you to accept friend requests from people trying to sell products, even if you don't plan to buy anything. I can imagine how overwhelming it must feel to receive so many messages and ads. Your comparison to the bombings on London was funny but also very relatable—junk information really can feel like an attack sometimes!

I really enjoyed reading your message. You have a great way of explaining things, and your writing is clear and engaging. You should write more often! Your thoughts and experiences are interesting, and I'd love to hear more from you. Keep sharing your ideas—you have a lot to say, and it's always a pleasure to read.

All the best,
Behnam, 17 March, 2025