Would you like to marry ?

[Bambang]

Two people are waiting for a suitable spouse. C'mon, what are you waiting for? :D

[sweets]

Xkalibur

ur totally right that not every one can find his/her behlaf but we should give up and keep looking for this love

bambang

do think it's easy to catch fishes nowdays i do not think so 8)

Two people are waiting for a suitable spouse. C'mon, what are you waiting for? :D

who are the two?????????????????????????????

[fabulous]

i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P

[Melek]

if i found my hero why not no one can stay alone for long time iam right or??????

Yeah, no one can stay alone for long, that is true. But not everybody always find the person they really want...there are some type of persons who even not sure what kind of person they want, me for instance.

not person but people

[funnyclick]

In my opinion, marriage is one of the most important decision in one's life, so we have to think carefully before deciding to get married or not. Modern life, people think that they can divorce after marrying if they think they two don't suit for each other. I disagree. If you really love someone and desire to marry him/ her, it means that you will never get disappointed or regret about your choice. It's pretty difficult huh? That's why, I decide not to marry because I don't want my life to be effected by another. To be single is really good because you can do anything you like and you want without getting permission of your husband or wife.

[Oriani]

i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P

Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?

[denvinbo]

It's not for me. To my thinking, marriage is a difficult thing....I think I will be a single in the future.......... :D :D

[CityYoung]

noone is perfect . we should chose the suitable partner. and also we have to give alot of respect , love , caring ... etc to make our partnar fall in love with us . so now we can live a sweet life . but people who wait A lover before they live together and share good and bad things . i think it's impossible .

[CityYoung]

i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P

Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?

don't worry about money . it's ur day . whatever it cost it doesn't matter .

[denvinbo]

The love you intended for your lover is more important than the money you have to pay for a wedding, is it right???

[Tora]

i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P

Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?

Absolutely! The dress looks like a queen's one for the crowning... airy underskirts, litres of champagne, and this queer tradition to be celebrating for 2 or 3 days, when the justmarried are already blue-lipped (because of kissing in public to substaniate the reason for the guests to swig off a glass ot two) and black-eyed and tired... I want my wedding to be small and cosy and just for my close ones

[(((Edu)))]

Marryment is more than love. Love is wonderful but nobody lives just in love. Before to get marry with someone, think in a person who you really like to talk, to walk together and to do seemed things.

I'm married. It's very important to me have a family and to build a true home. But pay attention, young people "that's tough to keep a relationship".

[Tora]

Marryment is more than love. Love is wonderful but nobody lives just in love. Before to get marry with someone, think in a person who you really like to talk, to walk together and to do seemed things.

I'm married. It's very important to me have a family and to build a true home. But pay attention, young people "that's tough to keep a relationship".

Great, Edu! How long have you been married? I'm asking as you sound like you've spent not less than ten years in marriage!
Probably you mess up "love" with "passion", as enjoying time together as you say walking and talking is a part of love as I see it.

I'm sure everyone needs to get married sooner or later, just remember about a glass of water from your family on one's deathbed but no one is thirsty though

[komar]

oh...... I'm 24....this topic is just for me!!! bc the marriage is hottest theme for me.... this April I'm going to marry!!!!! time has come :) so many people around me say I'm still young for being married...even my relatives my friends my colleagues...I didn't find any support.... but.... I don't care...

[Bambang]

oh...... I'm 24....this topic is just for me!!! bc the marriage is hottest theme for me.... this April I'm going to marry!!!!! time has come :) so many people around me say I'm still young for being married...even my relatives my friends my colleagues...I didn't find any support.... but.... I don't care...

Good for you.
Congrats! And welcome to EC!

[BenM]

sure why not :) but where is she >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here

[southrnpride]

I would hope that I could be married and maybe have at least one child by the time I'm in my late twenties, early thirties, but who knows!

I just don't want to rush things. Jumping headlong into a marriage without a thought is foolish.

[ahmedxzxz]

from my point of view,marriage is the second half of your life...and everyone should have his other half..either he is a man or a woman....so find your other half and marry soon....

[Tora]

sure why not :) but where is she >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here

I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin

[Happysheep]

This post is so funny.
Recently i was consdering this problem, although i am just nearly 20 years old .
but i met a boy ,i think i am falling love with him deeply.
But when i saw my own sister preparing for her marrige, i found it is difficult to have an "full house",it needs some important conditions.
The statistics show that the young people in China ,espicially in some developed city, the expense of that is between 30.000 to 70.000 RMB.
hehe ,that is the fact....

[komar]

sure why not :) but where is she >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here

I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin

this is just exactly what I'm talking about :) the same feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sure]

Yes.

[Snowy*]

Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

[illusion]

Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.

[Dixie]

I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.

Exactly! I think so too. That's why I waited for so long (at last it seems long to me) after getting my degree. I'm not getting married yet, though, just moving in together (for now). We both wanted to have a stable job before doing anything. We realize living on our own is no piece of cake, especially when it comes to economy.

I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

[Lovelymaiden]

I do not think marry is a happy life. I really do not want. What I desire is a comfortable and free life.
After getting married, you will have a lot things to take care, and you will depend on your mate and children.What happen if you realize that your mate is not like you believe, you love, you expect...The would be many thing that make you feel tired, angry and sad.You may become cruel to them(include your mate and th kids). Just one more reason,I think there is extremely rare perfect person but what I want is a perfect one.

[Vega]

I don't want marry...I completely indifferent for relationships.

[nancywu]

i am in contrdiction about marriage, want marriange but afriend of the responsibilities followed.

[MissLT]

I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

Do them fast before you reach your 30's.

[Dixie]

Do them fast before you reach your 30's.

Why? Will I be too old? :D

Anyway I think 32-33 is a good age to have a child. We'll see, though