
Would you like to marry ?
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It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! 

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Well, here people normally have kids in their early 30s, since they both study and work and it's hard.LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!!
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I am a married guy.Marriage taken merriment and grief. :|
Lucky prince-----Louie
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When I'll find the right one, I mean the right girl 

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I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
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I live together. I'm not married in church, for instance. It's a good opportunity to know deeply another person. It's worth of trying.
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HIII!!!
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE..
OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA
I'M OPEN-MIND PERSON SO I ACCEPT ANYTHING YOU WANT TO ASK O TALK...
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE..



OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA
I'M OPEN-MIND PERSON SO I ACCEPT ANYTHING YOU WANT TO ASK O TALK...

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Good news, Krisi.Krisi wrote:I will... soon
We're all friends, right?
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Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person.
Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.
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Congratulations!Krisi wrote:I will... soon
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It's not also about the biological fact of being able to give birth or not; it's about seeing your children grow up and go through stages of life themselves. So if I was lucky to live over 80, I wouldn't mind to have kids in my 30's. This way I still get to see my kids and my grandkids. However, with my lifestyle I say I'd be lucky if I live pass 70. That's why I get quite jumpy to see myself pushing into 30's without anything happening yet. And they say the things people advise you to do are either something they can or cannot do; they project their own desires on you. Now you know why I keep asking people to get married and have kids before they reach 30.Tora wrote:I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...

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When I am going 2 grow up of course
cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy
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How did you come to think of that?Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of coursecuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy
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I like that funny saying nd some times is very realKrisi wrote:How did you come think of that?Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of coursecuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy
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sounds funny really!


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Annaa wrote:I like that funny saying nd some times is very realKrisi wrote:How did you come to think of that?Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of coursecuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy
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sounds funny really!
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Do u agree with that saying Kris ?
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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My aunt gave birth to her first child at 40. She gave birth to her fourth child at 47 (at that age, most women already have menopause). All of her children are fine and healthy, but she took a great risk. I agree that the best time for a woman to have children is in her twenties. Down Syndrome for instance. As a woman gets older, the risk of her having a child with Down Syndrome increases.LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
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My mother was 21 when I was born.
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Xkalibur wrote:My mother was 21 when I was born.
on the other hand she is lucky to become a young mother :)
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HuahYu wrote:Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person.Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.
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hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.
byee!
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hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.
byee![/quote]
Hi Sofys,
Most of my friend will get married on 21-25 years old...i think is before 25 years old~
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.
byee![/quote]
Hi Sofys,
Most of my friend will get married on 21-25 years old...i think is before 25 years old~

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I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .

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Xkalibur wrote:Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Oke,thnx ,but y ?




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Xkalibur wrote:Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
hi xkalibur!!
where are you from??
and when you are goin to get married??
it looks that you want to do it as soon as possible!!!
see you!!



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Why not? Are you against marriage?
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Well,frankly speaking,I haven't seen any successful marriages in my life yet
The reasons about it are different,but the fact is people are not happy being married.As for me...I never gonna be married.And I can explain why - too much responsibility,too boring living with one and the same man all your life,too much pain if smth goes wrong.Hope you see my point 


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well...i want to marry before 25 years old.