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a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Tue Jan 29, 2019 12:46 pm

I have a problem

so its like this:

one of my bff (I could say its the best friend in the whole world) is in my class.
the first second term we sat together.
we hang out together
but i just dont feel like im her bff
she always talks with my class rep instead of me (which my bff only knows class rep for the first year) i feel left out
she always talks with the poppy (aka popular girl) I feel left out
i am not invovled in any of their conversation (both with class rep and poppy)
she waits for her friend (which is the 3rd term neighbour) instead of me.
is it my problem or hers?
am I her true bff?

i know u guys cant tell me my bff's thoughts, at least can u give me some opinions please?

~sassybear

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by Safari » Fri Feb 08, 2019 1:11 pm

What is bff :?: :-?

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Sun Feb 10, 2019 10:17 am

umm... That stands for best friends forever lol

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by Safari » Sun Feb 10, 2019 10:46 am

Aha! Well there's the problem right there. Whoever dreamed up the idea of bff? Sorry Sassy, nothing lasts forever :roll:

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by Safari » Sun Feb 10, 2019 10:48 am

May I ask, what age group are you guys?

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Sun Feb 10, 2019 11:12 am

teenager (is that an age group?), Mr/Mrs Safari

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by Safari » Sun Feb 10, 2019 11:18 am

I was a teenager once. Most adults were lol. And we know that life's tough at that age. Try not to take it too seriously. There are plenty of fis, and you're bound to find lots more bffs, Sassy

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Mon Feb 11, 2019 3:53 am

thanks {-: safari, love you

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by OBnnsr » Mon Apr 01, 2019 6:57 pm

Hello!
The problem is your BFF I think. She is effervescent and loves to talk with a lot of people. I need someone who is like you as a BFF. My shyness gave me the time that I could spend with my BBF. I don't know if you like a lot of attention from your BBF. I could talk a lot with my BFF because I have more confidence than everyone.
Let us try if you like that. I will try to improve my behaviour to let my BFF become happier or maybe the happiest. I like doing that with dedicates and likeness.

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Wed Apr 03, 2019 6:04 am

thanks a lot for your suggestion man. yours are fabulous! but there's a point I don't really understand... what do you mean 'improve your behaviour'? lol. i'm quite bad at understanding these ermm what do you call that 'philosophy'? anyways, I don't really know are you meaning 'change your personality' or what. (no offense. I am so not meaning that your English is difficult to understand. just umm you know, Chinese aren't good at English afterall.)

looking forward to your reply
sassybear

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by OBnnsr » Wed Apr 03, 2019 10:38 am

Thanks for your reply!
That I understand with behaviours is the manner with which we treat others. How to treat others depends on our personality.
The personality as I understand is that we choose as behaviours to treat all. I am not a psychologist to draw a limit between personality and behaviours that sometimes mean the same. I am bad in English and in psychology after all.

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Re: a problem about friendship

Post by sassybear » Sat Apr 06, 2019 2:32 am

got it dude! I don't think I have to change my "manners". I am not those meanies that will go around and bully people and kick their ass. I am very niceeeee :)

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