know where you stand
This page is about the idiom know where you stand
If you know where you stand, you know exactly where you fit in a social or work situation, or in someone's life.
- Nobody bothered to ask Ken for his opinion, so he says he now knows where he stands in the company.
- Shelley didn't even invite me to her party, so I know where I stand with her now.
Contributor: Matt Errey