If you have been in such sitiuation or imagin your self beeing in such sitiuation what will you do???
A friend of my mine told me that she might be falling in love with her male friend-colleague at work- but she is not sure if he feels the same for her beacuse she didn't tell him yet. On the other hand he is engaged to be married to a girl he liked after that girl told him that she loves him but he don't love her-he is very un romantic-but he is quite happy with his destiny.She also knows that even if she told him that she loves him and if she was lucky enough and he told her the same too, they both can't marry becasue her parents won't allow her to do so nor give her their blessing.Now the question is what she must do?
1) Tell him that she loves him and think about the consequences later on.Taking into account that she might put her good relation-Friendship- with him at risk if he know her true feeling toward him.
2) Forget about him,let him marry & live in peace. It won't matter to him as he dosen't know that she has feelings for him.
what would you do?
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Re: what will you do?
Tell him but also prepare to forget him. He doesn't sound like someone who would deserve her love; he's too lazy to fall in love with someone.Ms.A.Z wrote: On the other hand he is engaged to be married to a girl he liked after that girl told him that she loves him but he don't love her-he is very un romantic-but he is quite happy with his destiny.
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I think Fiver is right. We don't fall in love only once in a lifetime so I think the girl should definitely try to forget this guy unless she tells him the truth and he turns out to have been secretely in love with her too... but naah things like that only happen in romance stories or soap operas... life is so much darker :P
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[quote="LennyeTran]Tell him but also prepare to forget him. [/quote]
I side with this opinion!
I side with this opinion!
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Re: what would you do?
Wow!! It's exactly what happened to me...Ms.A.Z wrote:If you have been in such sitiuation or imagin your self beeing in such sitiuation what will you do???
A friend of my mine told me that she might be falling in love with her male friend-colleague at work- but she is not sure if he feels the same for her beacuse she didn't tell him yet. On the other hand he is engaged to be married to a girl he liked after that girl told him that she loves him but he don't love her-he is very un romantic-but he is quite happy with his destiny.She also knows that even if she told him that she loves him and if she was lucky enough and he told her the same too, they both can't marry becasue her parents won't allow her to do so nor give her their blessing.Now the question is what she must do?
1) Tell him that she loves him and think about the consequences later on.Taking into account that she might put her good relation-Friendship- with him at risk if he know her true feeling toward him.
2) Forget about him,let him marry & live in peace. It won't matter to him as he dosen't know that she has feelings for him.
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[/quote]Wow!! It's exactly what happened to me...[/quote]
What did you do then? Told him or forgot him?
What did you do then? Told him or forgot him?
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Re: what would you do?
[quote="Ms.A.Z"]If you have been in such sitiuation or imagin your self beeing in such sitiuation what will you do???
I think she must tell him the truth about her feelings, and let him deside what he really wants...Besides, what kind of friendship is that if she lose him for being sincere and honest?
I think she must tell him the truth about her feelings, and let him deside what he really wants...Besides, what kind of friendship is that if she lose him for being sincere and honest?
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Have some good news and bad news,
The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.
The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.
The END...
The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.
The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.
The END...
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[quote="Ms.A.Z"]Have some good news and bad news,
The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.
The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.
The END...[/quot
That is a good ending. Before his marriage, she didnt say nothing, why does she wonder about after he married?
The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.
The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.
The END...[/quot
That is a good ending. Before his marriage, she didnt say nothing, why does she wonder about after he married?
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i would rather say tell him, its not about the consequence. but incase if her love for that guy is true im sure that would be no doubt he will come to her.
if incase she doesn't convey/confess, one fine day she finds that the guy shared the same feeling, it would be then your friend will grieve coz by then he might be somebody else's property
i insist your friend should confess her love
if incase she doesn't convey/confess, one fine day she finds that the guy shared the same feeling, it would be then your friend will grieve coz by then he might be somebody else's property
i insist your friend should confess her love
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cyborg wrote:i would rather say tell him, its not about the consequence. but incase if her love for that guy is true im sure that would be no doubt he will come to her.
if incase she doesn't convey/confess, one fine day she finds that the guy shared the same feeling, it would be then your friend will grieve coz by then he might be somebody else's property
i insist your friend should confess her love
TOO LATE MY FRIEND.Some times we set plans for our selves but GOD has different and I guess better plans for us.