How can you med a broken HEART?
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How can you med a broken HEART?
Hello.. this is me again...!!! I want to share my experience with you all....and, I want you to help me to get over about a fact that happened to me .... actually. I fell in love with a boy who never loved me 4 years ago..I used to be in love until he got married and had a child... but...I think I won't stop loving him.. when I see him my heart Begins to beat very fast...I want to kiss him.. hold him.. I DON'T KNOW.. but he doesn't.. even he seperated his wife(a 18 year old girl too) He neither see me... mmm I don't know.. well... that's all..
I wanted to share with u and now I feel better..
Thanks for reading
I wanted to share with u and now I feel better..
Thanks for reading
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I believe that out of sight, out of mind. Stay away from him and try to concentrate in your life, then his influence on you may gradually fade away. But if you really love him and you think he indeed deserves your love, then continue to love him, even though he doesn't love you. Love is something that can make us insensible
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oOh thank u so much for your words....
THANK U SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS! I REALLY NEEDED 'EMDixie wrote:You know, I think that's actually true: Whenever I feel sad or depressed, and then I go to work, I suddenly forget everything and enjoy what I am doing.Estrellita wrote:As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
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Hi there..!
Hi.. I just want to thank you for gave me your advise, opinion... It means a lot for me so that I can get over this situation... thank u so much!!!Dixie wrote:You know, I think that's actually true: Whenever I feel sad or depressed, and then I go to work, I suddenly forget everything and enjoy what I am doing.Estrellita wrote:As Conan Doyle said:
Work is the supreme antidote of the sorrow.
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hi dear Oriani
well, first of all
*he didnt love you as you loved him :
did you try show him that you love him !!!or try to show him
that you are caring about him !!!!
if you dont** then, it is your proplum :) !!!
i mean you had to show him you love ,,to till him that you love him,, maybe he had the same feeling to you, but he was not sure if you love him or not !!!!
BUT,, everythig hase gone now Oriani
* he got marred and now he have kids:
- this is a good reason to forget him !!! dont you think so !!
you should forget every thing about him , and open and page in your heart. and cut the old page which was incompleted!!
find the guy who diserved you,,, who really you think he is intested in you and who loves you .....
good luck
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well, first of all
*he didnt love you as you loved him :
did you try show him that you love him !!!or try to show him
that you are caring about him !!!!
if you dont** then, it is your proplum :) !!!
i mean you had to show him you love ,,to till him that you love him,, maybe he had the same feeling to you, but he was not sure if you love him or not !!!!
BUT,, everythig hase gone now Oriani
* he got marred and now he have kids:
- this is a good reason to forget him !!! dont you think so !!
you should forget every thing about him , and open and page in your heart. and cut the old page which was incompleted!!
find the guy who diserved you,,, who really you think he is intested in you and who loves you .....
good luck
t
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TO ADMIRAL
TO ADMIRAL: OBVIOUSLY YOU DIDN'T UNDERSTAND MY POST.. IF U WANT, READ IT SLOWLY SO THAT YOU CAN UNDERSTAND BEFORE YOU POST SOMETHING.... KISSES AND THANKS ANYWAY. ... WITH LOVE.. ORI...! :P ......
Ps: But I'm Ok now I think.. Now Maybe I've found a new love very far from me.. but I don't know yet.
Ps: But I'm Ok now I think.. Now Maybe I've found a new love very far from me.. but I don't know yet.
Okokok, you don't have to get upset. Of course I know that the boy in whom you fell in love doesn't like you.
But that's also why I don't see the problem.
Because you can get another one very easily, or even more easy on the internet, as you have done, so ,the problem vanished. And now it's really inconsequent to say: yeah I felt sad here but I feel happy now, only because of an internet boyfriend.
Surely you will dislike my idea, but I really want to tell you that I really think that internet love is really stupid. And I really tell you that maybe you will feel happy for a little period of time, but that this is only temporary, for sure.
Sorry
But that's also why I don't see the problem.
Because you can get another one very easily, or even more easy on the internet, as you have done, so ,the problem vanished. And now it's really inconsequent to say: yeah I felt sad here but I feel happy now, only because of an internet boyfriend.
Surely you will dislike my idea, but I really want to tell you that I really think that internet love is really stupid. And I really tell you that maybe you will feel happy for a little period of time, but that this is only temporary, for sure.
Sorry
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MMM
Hi Admiral.. I didn't get upset :( why should I? I'm not a narrowminded person.. I'm a sweet girl ok? and thank u for your advise.. I know that it'll help me a lot.. and well.. I'll try to do my best and get over the situation.. thanks.... kisses!!!!!!!!!
See u next time.. take care... :P
See u next time.. take care... :P
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Broken heart
Don't worry child, live itself will let you know the right time you'll be ready again.
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Re: Broken heart
Oh Thank u so much.. I know I will, but now I feel I can't.....I'm trying to do my best... I hope to deal with it..!keko wrote:Don't worry child, live itself will let you know the right time you'll be ready again.
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thanks :) Honey, I think I know what you feel like. I have been unhappy in love for 2 years, been through a serious depression and some breakdowns and I really stopped believing that one day it would turn for the good and you know I have infatuated once again...Life is full of surprises, Oriani.You never know what could happen...I wish you all the luck and strength to get through this. I hope you will get better soon.Oriani wrote:Hi dear Ilussion.. By the way : Nice picture..!!!
Returning to the topic I HAVEN'T FOUND THE solution to my problem yet.. Now I don't know what to do. This's getting worse and worse evryday in my heart.. :?
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listen...you're not the only one. I for instace am really silly when it comes to love stuff like I used to be in love for a long while with this metal-freak whose only hobby was either drinking cheap wine or playing in his punk band which sucked by the way and to me he was truly wonderful. How stupid is that? And now I am infatuated with a really sweet and fabulous guy...he seems really normal and so on but he wants to become a priest!!!!!!! How lucky is that? I am just hopeless and I decided to give up on everything. I want to forget about such a crappy thing like love... And I do hope it will happen one day. I think you will forget. I mean not fully forget but it won't hurt that much after a while...the time will ease your pain... let's hope so...Oriani wrote:Admiral wrote:Yeah, think positive, you never know that the guy next to you is not interested in you.
AhhhhhhhhhAHHHHH!!!!! JUST I CAN'T.. IT'S SO HARD!
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On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS!
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)
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You're pretty right!! and Thanks.. I think I'm getting better!!!! :Pillusion wrote:On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS!
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)
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Good to know :):):)Oriani wrote:You're pretty right!! and Thanks.. I think I'm getting better!!!! :Pillusion wrote:On behalf of the people in this forum I say "You are most welcome, that's what friends are here for..."Oriani wrote:I was reading this and it brought to my mind nice memories about how nice you are, guys. THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIENDS!
oh btw I also re-read every post in this topic. I hope you're doing better, Dear Oriani. I have been fooled by another guy once again ha ha so I just keep getting worse and worse :) But I don't care. ;)