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what do you do when you feel sad?

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Sometimes I wake up in the morning and i feel so sad and I dont know why!
What do you do when it happens?
(Im not sad!! its only a cuestion ! :wink:)
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How old are you, maybe you have an hormonal problem, a psicologic problem, a healt problem that make you feel Sad.
Maybe you take some medicines that produce your sadness, some medicines do that.
You musto to see a doctor, or you musto to see a psicologist.
Well in you think nothing of the options is your case then only se through the windoew and see what beautifull is the nature, winter or spring, the Mother Nature give us the best forever. you will change from sad to very very happy.
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When the great Danyet (That's me) is sad I go out and get a copy of Playboy but of course I only read it for the articles. He he he!
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Hi!
I understand you because I usually have temper like you, sad without any reason. Maybe I have much unfortunate things in life.At that time I must try to relax myself such as eat my favourite dish, go shopping, watch T.V...
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To tell the truth very familiar situation...inspite of I'm a joy & optimistic person,sometimes I get very sad...then I try to go for a walk(never stay home),or listen music,or killing time by chatting & waiting for tomorrow...tomorrow will cure all the sadness...
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I also wake up sometimes sad .. But I know the reason for the sudden sadness that I sometimes I would be remiss in studies or offended anyone inadvertently ... So, when looking for a sad reason, I dissolved
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U feel sad because u feel life is empty. So go search for the meaning of life, just waiting wont solves anything.
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I just take a looooooooooooooooong bath and wash my hair with every single shampoo in the house and then go to sleep. :arrow: After that I think about the problems and the causes with a nice cup of green tea :idea: .
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And then sometimes when I am very sad I want to do away with myself so I go out and buy a two packs of Camel cigarettes and take up smoking.
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I agree with kpchoo. You have to make a schedule for every day of your life gianmrster . A schedule full of different activities or each day one activity.
Try to make people around you happy and you will fined happiness. For example, I volunteered in a social club of the hostel in the university. Every week we do one activity for other students. Its for no reason, but we like to do that.
Also, you can read. I usually do that in my spare time. When I read I feel like I entered a new world and I get more knowledge. Especially, When I read stories and novels.
When I become sad, I pray for God. I think God put me in this situation because he miss me so I go directly for him because I also love and miss him. God will help me all the time when I'm in need of his help.
You can also search for your friends and keep in touch with them all the time.

I hope that I gave you something benefit and new.
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Hi dear friend,,sometimes i feel the same feeling of saddness after getting up and i feel that i don't like to spaek to anyone...i don't know why?
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:D I usually take a warm bath and prepare myself to go out. (this is normal, there are some changes taking place inside our body):wink:
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there are options for me to choose:
-calling and chating with my close friends until i get sth free in my mind
-surfing the net, then reading some articles, especially at englishclub.com
-listening to the Bible readers in my CDS, some fun, naughty music.
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Yeah having bath works! Though i play savage computer games when i feel bad. I won't say 'eating chocolate or shopping' :lol: because when u feel bad u just don't want any new shoes!
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i 'm as melek i go out to walk or leave the place where i feel that iam sad and do any thing it's really works :wink: ur so young to feel sad go and enjoy :wink:

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When i feel sad, i eat a lot. Eating make me forget anything.I often solace myself. Sometimes, i also talk with my friends to make some fun.I talk with my parent to get some advice. After that, i feel more
happy because i still have friends anh my parents beside me.
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When I feel sad, I sleep!!!
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When uncle Bambang feels sad, he laughs at himself.
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danyet wrote:When the great Danyet (That's me) is sad I go out and get a copy of Playboy but of course I only read it for the articles. He he he!
Aren't there pictures in your playboy? ha ah ah

I drink beer listening music. I have a son so I hardly stay sad.
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That's normal.

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Psychologically speaking, being sad is normal.
That's life. Sometimes we're happy, and sometimes sad. And sometimes we're somewhere between.
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bambang wrote:Psychologically speaking, being sad is normal.
That's life. Sometimes we're happy, and sometimes sad. And sometimes we're somewhere between.
You're right! Life's life - when there is happy and then be sad sometimes sadness makes us happy more than 'cause at least you can see difference between sadness and happiness if we don't know sadness maybe we don't know how much we're happy or enjoy with things we have untill we will lose it but when we get it back we will see their worth more than.

So I believe after your sadness you will be happy more than before
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When I feel sad, I usually take a bubble bath, then put on make-up, put beautiful clothes on and go for a walk.
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When I feel sad,I go for a drive and listen to the radio with my car.
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My favorite music ever helps me improve my mood, as well as my family, friends, girlfriend and my cat can do it... :( :? 8) :D :P
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Post by illusion »

there are quite a few things which help me when I'm sad. Usually I cry, sleep, pray, listen to some relaxing music and of course eat loads of chocolate :)
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Post by Hardi »

I'm complaining to Lennye. She's a bad which, but she dispel my sad feeling with own dark power, if I make a cute face. :mrgreen:
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illusion wrote:there are quite a few things which help me when I'm sad. Usually I cry, sleep, pray, listen to some relaxing music and of course eat loads of chocolate :)

How about a huge "creature"?

Does it help?
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Post by illusion »

bambang wrote:
illusion wrote:there are quite a few things which help me when I'm sad. Usually I cry, sleep, pray, listen to some relaxing music and of course eat loads of chocolate :)

How about a huge "creature"?

Does it help?
be more specific, will you?
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bambang wrote: How about a huge "creature"?

Does it help?
What do you mean, dr. Freud?
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Dixie wrote:
bambang wrote: How about a huge "creature"?

Does it help?
What do you mean, dr. Freud?
Dear Illusion knows what I meant.

BTW, I am not in line with dr. Freud.

I am against his theory on sex motivation.
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eat some chocalte and have black coffe and you will be cool

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sweets wrote:eat some chocalte and have black coffe and you will be cool

cheeeeeeers
Black coffee will increase your stress. You'll be getting sad and sad.
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I emote until I cry....
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sure wrote:I emote until I cry....

What's that?
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bambang wrote:
sure wrote:I emote until I cry....
What's that?


hahahahaha...uncle bambang you're so funny if you are amazed!
I think he meant, to make himself feel sad, like the actors and actresses until he cries...hahahahahaha. This is madness!!!!
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I pray to God and telling all of my sadness&problem to Her
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I think you should swicth on stereo then dance,sing.you can buy foodand drink what you like then open funny film.you'll feel happy again :D
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People DO have bad days. They DO feel depressed sometimes.
When I am sad, I just cry a lot. Crying is the way brains work to reduce the stress in mind. Just cry everything out of my head.
Then I think about it, about what makes me sad. And think about good sides of it. If things are just so evil or I am just unreasonably sad, I just accept things the way they are.
Try to see a good part in everything, even the smallest one like "Today my meal is delicious." And you'll see happiness is all around.
Just always be waiting for me, and then some night you will hear me crowing. -- Peter Pan
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THEfieldWHEREiDIED wrote:People DO have bad days. They DO feel depressed sometimes.
When I am sad, I just cry a lot. Crying is the way brains work to reduce the stress in mind. Just cry everything out of my head.
Then I think about it, about what makes me sad. And think about good sides of it. If things are just so evil or I am just unreasonably sad, I just accept things the way they are.
Try to see a good part in everything, even the smallest one like "Today my meal is delicious." And you'll see happiness is all around.
A good idea.
We're all friends, right?
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When i feel sad in the morning, i might go for jogging or exercise....sometimes might go to read some funny jokes or funny novel in order to have good mood ....
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I put my headphones on and go for a walk. It works sometimes. If not I go for a drive or watch a favorite movie. It helps to treat your senses when you feel sad. The sadness goes away.
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Well, when I am sad, I often talk with my best friend, he is a boy but he is so sensitive, he always listen to me and give me advices which are very helpful.....
And sometimes, I just write it in a notebook, then you'll be better ^^
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Hi,
don't worry this is natuarl feeling.sometimes I feel sad with out reason,I just persuade my self''its ok'' and I imagen"I can pass it'' and think the life is sweet.
be happy all time {-:
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i always laugh about others,, that makes me fell so good.... yeah .. goooood !,, when they have issues or bad experiences i enjoy it.. ajajajajaja lol !!!
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when i feal sad i change the place were iam siting or go and wash my face with a cooled water or go to computer or tv games and start playing :lol: :lol:
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When I feel sad I often wear white clothes and go to the gymn........ :mrgreen: or cook desserts.............. :mrgreen:
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hi everybody it's my first thread

well, it's avery natural feeling that you find yourself in a bad temper
without such reasons. and that's what sometimes happen to me. so
i usually do things that change my mood to a good one .
by connecting to the net and joining my besrt friends on kuwaitiyat forum.

thanx alot it's a nice topic
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I try to sleep generally, especially I wake up late when I am sad.
On the other hand, I listen to music or I talk very much and generally it is about not important and it is absurd title
My heart is telling me
I hate the fact that I love you
I feel blue
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4years ago, when i missed the entrance to university, i was so pessimistic. Later, after a year hard-studying, i had a seat of one of famous universities in my country that i haven't thought of before. i realized people only reach heaven when they do their best to get out of the problem.
It is not so long for one's life. so,being stuck in sadness is a waste of time. now, i always try to think optimistically. if i'm sad, i cry, just a short time. And then, find the way to solve the problem.
good luck!
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I remember my good memories that reduces the sadness and i feel normal
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