jrkp wrote:Xkalibur wrote:A girlfriend who cheated on me...I never forgive them.
Well, you shouldn´t say such a definitive statement. In my country we have a saying: "Don´t say you won´t drink that water because you will end up drinking it quicker". I´ve known cases of friends who used to think in that way and they end up forgiving their couples, even though they have been cought red-handed. Remember that Love turn us into irrational beings and make us do stupid thing that in other situation we wouldn´t do.....
P.S: Sorry abou the rough translation....
Well, everyone of us has own perception to values of relationship ...Well, I'll say one thing..it may sound strange for you, anyway, it is based on my principles:
A girlfriend/ or wife is like a person that
works in your 'company'(:arrow:
she lives with you, raises your children, etc.) : you hired her because she was
suitable person for your 'company' (:arrow:
she loves you, you love her, etc.) and you in your turn pay her the
salary (:arrow:
it may be your attention, etc... all in all you try to make her feel happy as much as you can..). But one day appears another dude who promises her to pay high
salary. And she leaves your 'company' with leaving out 'projects' you planned in the near future. In othe words, she cheated on you. She is
irresponsible...that is a matter for me..of not forgiving girls/women like her.
P.S.
Sorry for grammatical errors. But if you quote this post, please don't forget to point out my errors. :P